Physical Relationship (sex)

[Gupt daasan daas]

ya, matha sahib kaur was mother of khalsa

but guru je also had two wives, matha jeeto je and matha sundri je

and i dyunt hink they were 2 diff people due to reason stated above

bhula chuka maf

[Heera Singh]

mata sundri jee and mata jeeto jee were the same person... no?

[Guest Guest]

so how many wives did guru hargobind ji have, and were they all of the same 'caste' ?

please look into and answer for me

[SSM]

i've always heard it like this... Guru Gobind Singh Jee had one WIFE.... Mata Sahib Kaur was the mother of the khalsa, but she was not wedded to Guru Jee... she did seva with Guru Gobind Singh Jee....

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thats dont sound right,Guru Ji our Father then their wife must be our Mother and so Mata Sahib Kaur Ji.

I just think it would be an insult to think any other way

[Heera Singh]

She was labelled as 'mother of khalsa' because she was doin seva during the first Amrit Sanchar with Guru Gobind Singh jee....

Mata Sundri Jee (otherwise known as Mmata Jeeto Jee) did not partake in seva at the first Amrit Sanhcar... although she was Guru Gobind Singh jee's wife, she was not labelled Mother of Khalsa....

[Khalsa_Girl_1]

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa. Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh.

i dont want to be rude or sound stupid but...

i really think that we shouldnt be comparing Guru ji with us. they did things for a reason. but they set out rules for us that we must follow. if Guru ji did have more than one, it doesnt mean that we can have more than one.

whatever Guru ji did was for a reason that we as normal human beings cannot ever compare to or even think about comparing to.

i hope i have made my point clear. :lol: because sometimes i dont make sense. lol.

peace...

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa. Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh.

[Guest Guest]

hmm my question is sort of the same nature, i wanted to know, if both the man and woman are amrit daree, what is loving ur partner and wat is giving into lust? eg how far can an amrit daree couple in terms of showing there lover for eachother how far is love and how far is giving into love, cus wen i get married i wanna love my partner asmuch as i can but yet not give into lust anyway thoughts

[Guest Guest]

Sat shiri Akal to all Gursikhs,

I would like tell about myself. I am a Sikh and married with a Sikh girl.

I am not going to repeat all the things again ..

In our Family all has taken amrit except me and my wife. My parents never forced me .. but Now I want to take amrit .. but do not want to force my wife

[ I have not asked her but I know at this time she is not ready ]

One of my friend has taken amrit and his wife is not amritdhari.

I had heared from one ragi that there is some rehat and "Panj-Payare" will tell this.

As in this threads some brothers told that there is only way to not to have psy. relation with wife..

Just want to know is there anything or some one has this exp. had "panj-pyare" told anything ..

[Guest vishav]

There is no difference between an amritdhari and non amritdhari. ...so plz stop these discriminations.. ...just enjoy your life.. ...this is a complete stupidity

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There is no difference between an amritdhari and non amritdhari. ...so plz stop these discriminations.. ...just enjoy your life.. ...this is a complete stupidity

its been nine years, I'm sure OP has resolved his conflict by now.