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[Guest Papi]

its sad that we talk about panthic unity at one side and on the other side we cannot forget or forgive stuff thats said on an internet forum.

ki banu panth da. guru kirpa karey

before it used to be pata pata singha da vairi, hun ho gaya, singh singh da vairi :ysad:

[KH4L1$T4N1]

its sad that we talk about panthic unity at one side and on the other side we cannot forget or forgive stuff thats said on an internet forum.

ki banu panth da. guru kirpa karey

before it used to be pata pata singha da vairi, hun ho gaya, singh singh da vairi :ysad:

sad but so true

[Guest Dancing Warrior]

We should all try to make a conscious decision to get along it is only in our own interests as a people who, and lets me honest are struggling with ourselves our community panth and the world as a whole. I have always believed that we should at least have a bases and agreement of the fundaments that seem to divide us. We have built stereotypes to suit our prejudices I also am guilty of this I don’t deny it.

It has become the norm that people who bring forward issues like Khalistan are labelled fanatics those that object are labelled snathan rss etc. Those that talk about certain type of rehit are labelled Parkundi PKJs. Those that follow other traditions are labelled Nangs etc. We need to agree foundations or “we have agreed to disagree” on certain issues and move on to the things that unify us which are far more than those that separate us and these things can make us stronger as a people and individuals .

We all possess amazing energy, knowledge, strength that is so evident here we can all bring so much to the banquette.

If you think I am being cheesy, fraudulent and cant find the emotion for diplomacy be realistic we are so few and beggars cant afford to be choosers you would still benefit regardless.

I stick my hand out and offer friendship.

[japmans]

The biggest problem is that almost everyone on this forum, including me, has way too hard a time saying

"oh, maybe you're right"

There's always been discussion and even almost-arguments before.. me and smartsingh24 used to have our spats back in the day, but it was still jus brotherly... the stuff that goes on now is just unbelievable.

You just KNOW kim bolan's having a freaking field day with all this bull----... no one thinks twice about what kind of message they're sending out to non-sikhs reading this board... as if they thikn there's some sort of verification process that confirms a person's sikhi before they can post or read topics.

Everyone wants to appear "oocha".. it's human nature, but you'd think a bit of compassion would come in... but now, it's like agreeing to disagree is a crime, that if someone does it, it shows weakness... all of a sudden, you're a better singh if you can win an argument... it's twisted logic.

If I have ever caused anyone any grief, or come under the definitoin of having abused, i apologize sincerely.

We shouldn't be afraid to discuss and have opposing thoughts and opinions... sikhi's stronger for it... pardon the analogy, it's the concept i'm thinking of, but it's like how important diversification is in bacteria, so that the entire species can continue procreating.. how some build immunity against antibiotics and stuff...

we need to understand the strengths that lie in our community, and realize that maybe one of the different thought-processes is a strength , not a weakness.

Shukar Hai, everything happens at the right time. hopefully w elearn and grow from it.

Vaheguru

[smartsingh24]

The biggest problem is that almost everyone on this forum, including me, has way too hard a time saying

"oh, maybe you're right"

There's always been discussion and even almost-arguments before.. me and smartsingh24 used to have our spats back in the day, but it was still jus brotherly... the stuff that goes on now is just unbelievable.

You just KNOW kim bolan's having a freaking field day with all this bull----... no one thinks twice about what kind of message they're sending out to non-sikhs reading this board... as if they thikn there's some sort of verification process that confirms a person's sikhi before they can post or read topics.

Everyone wants to appear "oocha".. it's human nature, but you'd think a bit of compassion would come in... but now, it's like agreeing to disagree is a crime, that if someone does it, it shows weakness... all of a sudden, you're a better singh if you can win an argument... it's twisted logic.

If I have ever caused anyone any grief, or come under the definitoin of having abused, i apologize sincerely.

We shouldn't be afraid to discuss and have opposing thoughts and opinions... sikhi's stronger for it... pardon the analogy, it's the concept i'm thinking of, but it's like how important diversification is in bacteria, so that the entire species can continue procreating.. how some build immunity against antibiotics and stuff...

we need to understand the strengths that lie in our community, and realize that maybe one of the different thought-processes is a strength , not a weakness.

Shukar Hai, everything happens at the right time. hopefully w elearn and grow from it.

Vaheguru

haha, yeah we had our spats. I'm pretty sure when I started im'ng you you were the weird dude that kept beating me at checkers. now ur just the weird dude who can't take me in tic-tac-toe :umm: And I kinda forgot about bolan, but w.e. Fatty can say what she wants, at the end of the day she's just a propoagandist.

[japmans]

right, but she's a propagandist with a big following.... people like listenin to her

.. and you can't beat me in anything, a) because i'm better than you at BOTH tic-tac-toe and checkers, and b) since you've BLOCKED me MSNically speaking

[smartsingh24]

right, but she's a propagandist with a big following.... people like listenin to her

.. and you can't beat me in anything, a) because i'm better than you at BOTH tic-tac-toe and checkers, and b) since you've BLOCKED me MSNically speaking

a)you lost more than a couple of times b) i lost everyones emails hahahah

also, looking back, propogator is probably a bettter word.

[Heera Singh]

okay.. so... looks like resettin da board is nah a popular idea.. hehe... ah well... so, i guess we won't do it then...

i still tink gupt section shud be taken out..

[Princess]

Unless you mean resetting the board by the admins taking out all the topics that are pointless and creating problems amongst members ... threads that aren't in accordance with the guidelines/rules of the forum ... which admins do to the best of their ability ... we just gotta help em out by 'reporting' members and topics ... cause resetting the whole board ... not sucha good idea ... I can't believe how many inspirational topics I still search and go back to read over and over again ... like those Essay Marathons ... Vaheguru !!

Heera's Singh's suggestion about taking the gupt forum out is a suggestion I agree with. Most of the topics that get outta hand are because anyone can come and post ANYTHING in that section, and since there are so many threads made there each day ... It's impossible for the admin to moderate ALL of em ... and some members like to take things further and get all heated instead of being calm and simply 'reporting' the topic. Taking out the gupt forum is a good idea ... OR ... keep the gupt forum, people do not have to sign up for the forum ... however ... all topics that people wish to start in the gupt forum MUST go through admin first ... Admin must approve of the topic before it goes up. This is the alternative ... however ... personally ... I would suggest that Gupt Section be taken out altogether cause even though the topic seems like it's a simple question and people can give their own opinions in a proper manner ... this is not always the case.

[japmans]

what about adding a moderator to the team who only has access to moderating gupt section, and only has gupt section responsibilties?

such a member would not be allowed to moderate anything in the other sections, and thus, would have to devote 100% of their moderating time in the gupt section.

That way, the gupt sectino would receive special attention.