Jump to content

Please Come Out!


Recommended Posts

ok fair enough people shouldnt threaten u in PM. the whole thing about burning the house down with u inside is rong. U know it aint gonna actually happen lol its just net talk. but it shundt be excused. its not the right actions of a sikh to threaten on pm, but having said this why did u call him an <banned word filter activated> 2 begin with??? its not right for some1 2 call soem1 an <banned word filter activated> also.

u both in the rong. we cannot assert our superioority on sum1 because it creates anger in the minds of people. we have to talk to them with love and respect then we can accomplish our goals even if people differ in opinion.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

  • Replies 114
  • Created
  • Last Reply

Top Posters In This Topic

i'm reminded of 4 dayz ago.. where we got a message from admins that tha site was gonna shut down... all the posts deleted n wha not... some peepz had a frenzy... buh.. i also posted on that same thread that MAYBE we need a fresh start...

my own opinion on makin this forum a GOOD place to be?

1. REMOVE gupt section - (at least for the time being) most of the ruckus started once the gupt section was brought about... until we can find a way to properly monitor and clean up the gupt section, we shud have it removed.. (either temporarily or permanently)

2. PERHAPS completely wipe out SS... all da threads... everytin.. start fresh... we have SO many useless topics on here.. it'd be hard to delete them one by one... tha's tha more drastic change.. buh sumtimes change is good... i personally feel dat it wud be in the best interest to start fresh....

i dun wanna go so far as havin to have every post/thread approved before posting.. buh if things continue how they are now, we prolly will have to end up doin dat... eventually it will lead to da shuttin down of SS ...

i encourage all to give their opinions on how to make SS a better place to LEARN... nah only dat, it shud be a good place for sangat to get together...

Blessed Love!!

Vaheguru Jee Ka Khalsa, Vaheguru Jee Kee Fateh!!

i agree 100%

but admin should go further.

GET RID OF THE PM FUNCTION!!! its nothing but trouble

delete all posts, start again

get rid of gupt section

moderate all posts before approval

once you have banned a member, dont let someone with the same IP sign up to the forum!!!

ok, reading that back its a lot of work for admin. but its got to be done!

Link to comment
Share on other sites

i agree 100%

but admin should go further.

GET RID OF THE PM FUNCTION!!! its nothing but trouble

delete all posts, start again

get rid of gupt section

moderate all posts before approval

once you have banned a member, dont let someone with the same IP sign up to the forum!!!

ok, reading that back its a lot of work for admin. but its got to be done!

Sounds like a good way forward!

Link to comment
Share on other sites

the pm funcion is good, for continuing topics further for a debate or even general talk.

somethings that cannot be discussed on main can be discussed on pm. sometimes when u discuss things on main people start crying or go mad in general. so pm is usefull.

IF admin bans people then its just trying to silence a voice.

approving topics before they are put up may mean some topics dont even get put up.

sikhsangat.com is a place where we can discuss controversial topics with different views. we have 2 know that our view isnt the only view out there.

If there is som1 wiser then we can learn a lesson.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

the pm funcion is good, for continuing topics further for a debate or even general talk.

somethings that cannot be discussed on main can be discussed on pm. sometimes when u discuss things on main people start crying or go mad in general. so pm is usefull.

IF admin bans people then its just trying to silence a voice.

approving topics before they are put up may mean some topics dont even get put up.

sikhsangat.com is a place where we can discuss controversial topics with different views. we have 2 know that our view isnt the only view out there.

If there is som1 wiser then we can learn a lesson.

when you look at it like that...

maybe admin could check pm's of people under moderation (if thats possible)

or take that privilege away from those who abuse it

banning people may be silencing a vioce, but if that vioce is abusive, rude etc it needs to be done

maybe we jus need stricter moderation

Link to comment
Share on other sites

agreed.. it wud'n be bannin sum1 cuz of their opinion.. it wud be bannin due to the their abusive nature...

i dun tink PM shud be taken out... i's good to ask questions.. some people aren't comfortable askin question in public, or might need some more info on sometin, or mite need some help wit sumtin etc.... so pm function CAN be a useful tool... if used properly...

havin to approve all topics/posts MIGHT be an extra step we should stay away from rite now... it can get a lil frustrating.. n there might be certain people who will feel dat there is a bias opinion on allowin or dis-allowin posts... if there are threads that go against SS policies.. then they will be deleted n put into the closed section, along wit MOD/ADMIN notes..

ne other suggestions?

Link to comment
Share on other sites

WJKK WJKF

SIkh sadh sangat jio, I didn't want to add a reply but just could help it. What are ya'll upto, I mean; whats going on in here, if someone makes a mistake of abusing and threatening, let him be that way, how long can one hold anger and hate within.

I understand the PM's that were sent to some of you were harsh in their wordings and should'n't have been that way but can't you just forgive and don't bother conflicting, after all its an apna whose a little side tracked. Anger and hatred would only lead to dejection among everyone.

All you Sikhi-conversant ones, need to help others like me to be a better Sikh. We all need to forget our internal conflicts and think as one global panth. I am shocked and surprised at the amount of hatred in this forum. It's been just a few weeks I joined this forum, and was hoping to learn for the enriched Sikh Sangat but I am at loss to understand why are ya'll stuck up with these issues.

Meri benti hai jio, plzz keep ur self-image one the side, else people like myself will have to find another platform to clear up their concerns.

Bhul chul maaf...

Link to comment
Share on other sites

also note though, singh, that many of those abusers are 'repeat offenders'... so... where to draw the line?... if sum1 is talkin smack to u over pm .. tha's one thing.. buh threatenin u n ur family n wha not, tha's another...

this is a predominently YOUTH forum... most of us are here to learn.. jus like at school, there's no room for threats... same ting wit here... this is also a school.. a place of learnin..

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Join the conversation

You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.

Guest
Reply to this topic...

×   Pasted as rich text.   Paste as plain text instead

  Only 75 emoji are allowed.

×   Your link has been automatically embedded.   Display as a link instead

×   Your previous content has been restored.   Clear editor

×   You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL.

Loading...
 Share


  • advertisement_alt
  • advertisement_alt
  • advertisement_alt


  • Topics

  • Posts

    • Part of the problem is the hostilities between India and Pakistan. If the border were open, Amritsar would easily become a huge trading city. Secondly, the National Highways Authority of India is constructing a new 6-lane expressway from Kashmir, through Amritsar/Jalandhar/Ludhiana to Dehli which will be part of the Ludhiana-Delhi-Kolkatta Industrial Corridor.  Maps of the New Silk Road show Kolkata as a key part of the "road". The Punjab to Kolkata expressway and rail connections will fulfill the ability to hook up to the New Silk Road.  In addition, while crossing to Pakistan via AH1 (Asian Highway 1) is difficult, India does connect to AH1 on the other side, towards the East. Finally, Punjab can trade with the world via Mundra port in Gujurat. Rail to Mundra, then sea onwards. Dubai is very close with a free port. If you send products to Iran, there are ground links onward to Europe.
    • Yeah, that's one possibility. Another I initially thought is that it's a Muslim trying to gather info. But then, you might ask, how does he know about Sikh textual sources. Well, you'd be surprised at their resourcefulness. A final possibility is he's a weak Sikh who was asked a question by a non-Sikh and now he's suddenly feverishly wondering where it's "written" that you can't marry a young child. To the latter, I would say, you're looking in the wrong spot. Gurbani isn't a 1428 page rulebook, like Leviticus or the Vedas: ਸਿਮ੍ਰਿਤਿ ਸਾਸਤ੍ਰ ਪੁੰਨ ਪਾਪ ਬੀਚਾਰਦੇ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ਗੁਰੂ ਬਾਝਹੁ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ The Simritis and Shastras discriminate between charity and sin, but know not the essence of the Real Thing. Without the Guru, they know not the essence of the Reality, know not the essence of the Reality. Anand Sahib.
    • You're confusing two different things: One is merely adding starch to a turban to get a certain feel to the fabric. The other is tying your turban once and taking it off like a hat. It is this that people have a problem with. What's wrong with it is that Rehit says to tie your turban afresh every time. If you ask, "Where is that written?", it's written in Bhai Nand Lal ji's Rehitnama. @ipledgeblue didn't just make it up. Umm, no, bro. We're not evangelical Christians like President George W Bush of the US claiming to "talk to God" who told him to invade Iraq. "Speaking to him directly" basically ends up being doing whatever you feel like with the excuse that Guru ji told you to do it. If you still want to take your turban off like a hat, feel free to do so, but don't claim that it's Rehit.
    • You don't need to wear either a pag or dumalla in the gym. You can simply wear a meter or 1.5m small turban (gol pagg or round turban). It doesn't come off.
    • The reason you don't see anything wrong with it is because like a fish in water, you grew up in Western culture and imbibed it fully. It's very difficult to for parents to inculcate traditional culture while in the West. The reason there is a problem is because a kiss between a man and wife is a sexual act (I didn't say it's coitus, but it's still sexual.) By contrast a kiss between a mother and a child, for example, is not sexual. And in our culture, sexual acts are not allowed in public. Goras do allow it. And that's also the reason they have gay pride parades now with people walking around naked with children in attendance and so forth.
×
×
  • Create New...

Important Information

Terms of Use