Yeah it's just that age, when your in your teens and 20s, and they are just h0rny! Upbringing in that situations is irrelevant! It just comes down to the individual and what feels right, some have self respect and they restrain while others become slappers, same with boys.
I briefly worked in royal mail and there was this paki girl working there and I mostly spoke to her because we were a similar age and she told me she went to a girls school in our area, it's called baylis school, most the girls that go there are from conservative pakistani families because they don't want their daughters talking to boys, and that girl told be how the field in the school used to have holes in the hedge and the girls used to sneak boys in from there! Others used to escape from those gaps in the hedges to meet boys! And parents were sending them to that school because they don't want their girls talking to boys!
All comes down to who your daughter is friends with, these "friends" encourage the worst behaviour, they the ones that tell them to argue with parents and run away.
I am not being vindictive. But trust me, a rising hindu nationalism is very dangerous for panthic identity , regardless of the sweet words they say. Heck I have been told on face some not so decent works about sikh gurus and sikh history , ridiculing its authenticity, and how they would have sikhs revert back to hinduism . This was after this guy saw Banda Bahadur animated movie.
The valve to control them is hindutva itself. They have a crazy wide network of organisations and the largest political party in the world at their disposal. The average muslim is poor in India , they have a hard time making ends meet, forget about crusading against infidels with an agenda. So why not support them ?