Big_Tera 1,160 Posted December 14, 2016 Report Share Posted December 14, 2016 Everyone seems to concentrate on Sikhs marrying muslims/grooming and rightfully so. But is there not a large problem also of Sikhs marrying blacks and whites? Which has gone under the radar. I recently noticed so many sikh mix race marriages and relationships. I have seen 4 Sikh women married goreh and 3 sikh women married/relationship to black guys and that is just ones I have seen recentley. Dont know what the exact figure is. A few of these cases are from west london sides. The black guys looked like typical yobs you would see on the street corners not sure what they see in these people. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Popular Post StarStriker 1,062 Posted December 14, 2016 Popular Post Report Share Posted December 14, 2016 48 minutes ago, Big_Tera said: Everyone seems to concentrate on Sikhs marrying muslims/grooming and rightfully so. But is there not a large problem also of Sikhs marrying blacks and whites? Which has gone under the radar. I recently noticed so many sikh mix race marriages and relationships. I have seen 4 Sikh women married goreh and 3 sikh women married/relationship to black guys and that is just ones I have seen recentley. Dont know what the exact figure is. A few of these cases are from west london sides. The black guys looked like typical yobs you would see on the street corners not sure what they see in these people. Geezer y do u always start these type of topics? Its not only r kaum who r havin these marriages. Hindus by far marry out of their "religion" the most. Also i live in an sullahh town, n there r plenty of their lot married/run away wit non-sullayy. Theres been quite a lot of sullian who have done a runner to panjab wit r freshy/fauji boys. Just look at e.london/tower hamlets bangla community, my bangla mate was tellin me, how blacks r marryin their lot and they aint happy. Its the UK, its gonna happen man. Only fing we can do, is encourage the non-sikh to adopt sikhi n bring kids up as sikhs. Otherwise, i dont mind interRACE marriages, infact i say do it! The more blonde/afro gutti waleh kids runnin around the gurdwara, the better. 6 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Jacfsing2 Posted December 14, 2016 Report Share Posted December 14, 2016 1 hour ago, Big_Tera said: Everyone seems to concentrate on Sikhs marrying muslims/grooming and rightfully so. But is there not a large problem also of Sikhs marrying blacks and whites? Which has gone under the radar. I recently noticed so many sikh mix race marriages and relationships. I have seen 4 Sikh women married goreh and 3 sikh women married/relationship to black guys and that is just ones I have seen recentley. Dont know what the exact figure is. A few of these cases are from west london sides. The black guys looked like typical yobs you would see on the street corners not sure what they see in these people. We aren't blessed for our genetics, (more related to the Middle Easterner invaders than the original Punjabis in that regard), we are blessed for knowing Dhan Dhan Sri Guru Nanak Dev Ji and the grace of Vaheguru. Sikh marrying Muslim or Christian or other religion is a problem, Gora or Khala or whatever Sikh marrying Punjabi/Subcontinental Sikh is not a problem unless you mame it. If they aren't already Sikhs than convert them and tell them that their children should be raised with Gurmat. The time they convert the closer we can get to Khalsa Raj and possibly have some diversity in our Gurdwaras, (Non-Sikhs just eat Langar and get-out, so they don't count). Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Big_Tera 1,160 Posted December 14, 2016 Author Report Share Posted December 14, 2016 2 hours ago, Jacfsing2 said: We aren't blessed for our genetics, (more related to the Middle Easterner invaders than the original Punjabis in that regard), we are blessed for knowing Dhan Dhan Sri Guru Nanak Dev Ji and the grace of Vaheguru. Sikh marrying Muslim or Christian or other religion is a problem, Gora or Khala or whatever Sikh marrying Punjabi/Subcontinental Sikh is not a problem unless you mame it. If they aren't already Sikhs than convert them and tell them that their children should be raised with Gurmat. The time they convert the closer we can get to Khalsa Raj and possibly have some diversity in our Gurdwaras, (Non-Sikhs just eat Langar and get-out, so they don't count). What does looking middle eastern have to do with anything? How is this not issue if they are marrying non Sikhs. What religion will the kids be raised. I think one of the reasons for increased mix race marriage is due the dovorce rate in the Sikh community. Many women find they cant find a Sikh partner after divorce so then go for anyone they can find. This is exactly what happened with many of tye cases I have seen. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Big_Tera 1,160 Posted December 14, 2016 Author Report Share Posted December 14, 2016 3 hours ago, StarStriker said: Geezer y do u always start these type of topics? Its not only r kaum who r havin these marriages. Hindus by far marry out of their "religion" the most. Also i live in an sullahh town, n there r plenty of their lot married/run away wit non-sullayy. Theres been quite a lot of sullian who have done a runner to panjab wit r freshy/fauji boys. Just look at e.london/tower hamlets bangla community, my bangla mate was tellin me, how blacks r marryin their lot and they aint happy. Its the UK, its gonna happen man. Only fing we can do, is encourage the non-sikh to adopt sikhi n bring kids up as sikhs. Otherwise, i dont mind interRACE marriages, infact i say do it! The more blonde/afro gutti waleh kids runnin around the gurdwara, the better. I know that it happens in other religions. My next door neighbour is a muslim woman married to a black man .But he is a muslim. We need to address these issues in our communities or there wont be any Sikhs left. Its not only about marriage, many Sikh women are dating blacks like some knew trend. Probably down to watching to many hip/hop/rnb songs and being the kim kardashian/ kanaye west generation. These women then also dress and act like they are black girls with dread locks make up and wearing very tarty clothes. Dont underestimate how music, media influences these women. One sikh woman ive seen who is actually very beautiful is a clone of a black girl and thinks she is black. with her appearance and way she talks and dating/married to a black jamaican yob type person. on her facebook profile everything she is into is about jamaica, black sportmans, singers ect and nothing about her religion. looks like on drugs also. Not sure if anyone has heard of her before. Her name is Meena and from west london went to roehampton. Sounds like she probably got disowned. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
StarStriker 1,062 Posted December 14, 2016 Report Share Posted December 14, 2016 42 minutes ago, Big_Tera said: Not sure if anyone has heard of her before. Her name is Meena and from west london went to roehampton. Sounds like she probably got disowned. gotta link? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Big_Tera 1,160 Posted December 14, 2016 Author Report Share Posted December 14, 2016 On 12/14/2016 at 8:24 AM, StarStriker said: gotta link? Yes but not sure I should post it here. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Popular Post R78 17 Posted December 15, 2016 Popular Post Report Share Posted December 15, 2016 Big_Tera I dont thinkyou have worded this post in the best way....interacial marriage could mean anand karaj between an apna and gorah/kala/alien but if both are Gursikhs it shouldnt even been discussed as an issue. Kal taaran guru nanak aaiya, guru sahib came to liberate the world not just punjabis. The problem occurs When we see people trying to have an anand karaj that are not Sikhs and dont beleive in Guru Granth Sahib Ji as being their eternal Guru and these weddings are nothing more than tamasha and for this we have to look at our own gurdwara commitees. 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Big_Tera 1,160 Posted December 15, 2016 Author Report Share Posted December 15, 2016 8 hours ago, R78 said: Big_Tera I dont thinkyou have worded this post in the best way....interacial marriage could mean anand karaj between an apna and gorah/kala/alien but if both are Gursikhs it shouldnt even been discussed as an issue. Kal taaran guru nanak aaiya, guru sahib came to liberate the world not just punjabis. The problem occurs When we see people trying to have an anand karaj that are not Sikhs and dont beleive in Guru Granth Sahib Ji as being their eternal Guru and these weddings are nothing more than tamasha and for this we have to look at our own gurdwara commitees. What are the chances of a gora or kala being a guru sikh? in all the cases I have seen the girls were not religious and even had church wedding which they much prefered. this topic is not about non Sikhs having weddings (anand karaj) in Gurdwara which is obviously wrong and has been discussed before on other threads. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Akalifauj 900 Posted December 15, 2016 Report Share Posted December 15, 2016 1 hour ago, Big_Tera said: What are the chances of a gora or kala being a guru sikh? in all the cases I have seen the girls were not religious and even had church wedding which they much prefered. this topic is not about non Sikhs having weddings (anand karaj) in Gurdwara which is obviously wrong and has been discussed before on other threads. Race has never been an issue. A person can be any race and be a Sikh. Rather I have noticed many kids born in Sikh families have outright rejected Sikhi and only do an Anand Karaj because their parents want it or what will the relatives say or because the Gurdwara looks fancy and getting dressed up will be fun. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Big_Tera 1,160 Posted December 15, 2016 Author Report Share Posted December 15, 2016 3 hours ago, Akalifauj said: Race has never been an issue. A person can be any race and be a Sikh. Rather I have noticed many kids born in Sikh families have outright rejected Sikhi and only do an Anand Karaj because their parents want it or what will the relatives say or because the Gurdwara looks fancy and getting dressed up will be fun. Your stating the obvious mate. There is no issue about race if they are Sikh. The issue is Sikh women marrying non Sikhs and then they just lose their faith altogether and take up their husbands faith. This is usually christianity. If they marry Sikhs of othet races that is not problem. Many Sikh women are marrying christian whites and blacks at an alarming rate. These type of Sikh women and men will be the downfall of the faith mark my words. theres no need to put your head in the sand and pretend this problem does not exist. You may see this rarely now but if action will not take place it will become the norm. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Jacfsing2 Posted December 17, 2016 Report Share Posted December 17, 2016 On 12/14/2016 at 10:36 AM, Big_Tera said: What does looking middle eastern have to do with anything? How is this not issue if they are marrying non Sikhs. What religion will the kids be raised. I think one of the reasons for increased mix race marriage is due the dovorce rate in the Sikh community. Many women find they cant find a Sikh partner after divorce so then go for anyone they can find. This is exactly what happened with many of tye cases I have seen. You started the issue titling it "Interracial marriages", not "Interfaith", and also since our religion is better; it's obvious that the Non-Sikh spouse would convert, even that Pakhandi Baba Jesus and Muhammad went to Harnaam Singh and asked for his blessings; not the other way around, that is just how much greater our Panth is that even these Pakhandi Babas have found out. (Harnaam Singh isn't even the light of Dhan Dhan Sri Guru Nanak Dev Ji, just a disciple). Quote Link to post Share on other sites
KhoonKaBadlaKhoon 779 Posted December 17, 2016 Report Share Posted December 17, 2016 6 hours ago, Jacfsing2 said: You started the issue titling it "Interracial marriages", not "Interfaith", and also since our religion is better; it's obvious that the Non-Sikh spouse would convert, even that Pakhandi Baba Jesus and Muhammad went to Harnaam Singh and asked for his blessings; not the other way around, that is just how much greater our Panth is that even these Pakhandi Babas have found out. (Harnaam Singh isn't even the light of Dhan Dhan Sri Guru Nanak Dev Ji, just a disciple). What lol? Jesus and Muhammad went to seek blessings from a Sikh when Sikhism wasnt even around? And don't throw insults around if you can't handle them thrown back at you. LOL, just Googled it. Wow. Speechless 😂 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Jacfsing2 Posted December 17, 2016 Report Share Posted December 17, 2016 19 minutes ago, KhoonKaBadlaKhoon said: What lol? Jesus and Muhammad went to seek blessings from a Sikh when Sikhism wasnt even around? And don't throw insults around if you can't handle them thrown back at you. LOL, just Googled it. Wow. Speechless 😂 Daas wasn't trying to throw insults, but rather tell people about the greatness of the Sikhs, that they brought the most Egotistical Pakhandi Babas in human existence to acknowledge the greatness that is Sikhi. These are mentioned in Harnaam Singh's book, (which has more honesty than both the Quran and Bible), let's not forget that both of them are in the 8.4 million reincarnation cycle. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
KhoonKaBadlaKhoon 779 Posted December 17, 2016 Report Share Posted December 17, 2016 5 minutes ago, Jacfsing2 said: Daas wasn't trying to throw insults, but rather tell people about the greatness of the Sikhs, that they brought the most Egotistical Pakhandi Babas in human existence to acknowledge the greatness that is Sikhi. These are mentioned in Harnaam Singh's book, (which has more honesty than both the Quran and Bible), let's not forget that both of them are in the 8.4 million reincarnation cycle. How is that not an insult? If someone said that about our Gurus you wouldn't consider it an insult? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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