Suicide

[TheeTurbanator 295]

1 hour ago, monatosingh said:

If Waheguru set us a specific expiry date and we suicide before it, is that considered hukam of Waheguru or did we just boycott the idea of it?

There is no free will, becuase there is no "us" to be free in the first place. 

[MisterrSingh 3,453]

57 minutes ago, lostconfussedsingh said:

Thank you people don't understand what it is like to live with these problems.

Lived it, bought the kurta, you foolish pajama.

Just don't implicitly encourage / incite other potentially vulnerable people reading your posts to believe the sweet release of death will be a solution to their problems, you devious snake.

[TheeTurbanator 295]

Can we please stop personally attacking others? Just make your points, back them up with Gurbani, and get on. 

[MrDoaba 909]

@lostconfussedsingh

You really should stop. You were warned once by the mods with your Deerhunter antics.

Ban na khaa lai.

Satguru Ram Singh Ji Sahaai hove

[harsharan000 3,755]

Brother Misterr Singh and brother lostconfussedsingh,

please for god´s sake do not abuse and spoil each other.

To Mr Singh I will say, you are elder and mature,  your posts are intelligent and filled with rationality.

Do keep in mind, lostconfusssedsingh is not well, that is why he is under treatment, and that is why of such behaviour and  negative thinking upon life.

Of course it is not correct, the way it seems he is promoting suicide, but please do keep in mind, more than your rigidity and strictness towards him, if you could sympathize with him, that will be more helpful to him, I feel, he needs more affection, than any scolding for his betterment.

Though I also know you are 100 % right, but in the end this guy is not wicked like some can be, and we have ample examples here, it is only that he is not well.

 

And to lostconfussedsingh I would say, we really feel sorry for this your present state of health, you do realize you are under treatment, for something which is not good I would say.

But then, please also be aware if you talk so lightly of suicide, you may affect those who are weak minded, so please be careful about expressing yourself on suicide.

If needed, just stay away from this forum for some time until you start feeling better, You can see from all posts, the sangat  here understands what you are going through, and they really wish you to come out of this your present condition.

Do not keep any ill feelings towards Mr Singh, he is like your elder brother, it is only that he sees the potential danger in talking so lightly publicly on suicide, and the negative impact on the visitors of this website.

If you really want to get helped and get out of your present situation, allow people to help you with positivity though you may not realize, but trust them and ask for help to get you out of your negative tendencies, for as the company you keep, so will you be dyed in that positive or negative colors.  It may take you some time to come out, but with your persistence to get out, and by His kirpa, you will definitely come out.

I really pray to Wahiguru, for your soon recovery, and to have you well among us.

Till then, take care of yourself in all ways, and stay blessed.

Sat Sree Akal.

 

[harsharan000 3,755]

9 hours ago, lostconfussedsingh said:

I won't post on the suicide subject as they could effect other people as you don't know who reads these threads. 

For some time i will take a break from here. I have no social life anyway and no friends at all i was hoping to make friends on here but seems very unluckly now.

Thank god, at least you realize you have to be careful with people while talking on such a negative topic as suicide.

You see, people do not avoid you, it is they do not want to hear about suicide, as it is something which is not normal.

Have you tried to talk anything with people apart from suicidal tendencies? The main thing is you being aware of what you are going through, and you know that what you are suffering  is not normal, so can you realize, how electrifying is talking about is so lightly to others...

Just talk about Gurbani, Wahiguru, Guru Sahiban...or any other positive topic, not necessarily religious, and you will see how people will want to be friends with you, and with the time passing, relations can become stronger, friendship wise.

The thing is, if you realize you are going through a negative phase, then do not pour it out so openly, rather each time absorb some positivity from those around you for any reason, by listening them or talking to others on any topic, except suicide, drugs, lust, violence, or any such thing which is harmful for the mind and soul.

If it is not possible for you, tell others to read you some verses from the Amrit Gurbani, or listen to His mahima through keertan, which is all positive energy, with which one can fill oneself, and brother believe me, it is all healing.

Medicines can cure physical maladies, but brother His mahima, His vadeeayee, cures the maladies of the mind, where resides all our blemishes. No one is perfect.

So as said somewhere, if you have choice, choose the best, and if you have no choice, do your best.

If ever you ever need a friend to talk, you may count with me. I will do my best to be helpful to you in any way I can, but promise me, to start with, now you will try to not talk about suicides, but of living at His Lotus Feet, with love and devotion.

Stay blessed.

Sat Sree Akal.

 

 

[Guest Kaur 2]

5 hours ago, lostconfussedsingh said:

For some time i will take a break from here. I have no social life anyway and no friends at all i was hoping to make friends on here but seems very unluckly now.

I don't think you have realised just how many people have become your friend. I am indeed your friend and I will always be willing to help you. Just remember; Guru Ji is your best friend and Guru Ji is always able to sympathise with you even if us humans can't. I do understand what you are going through and the pain you feel about not being able to share your problems and it really hurts me to know that my brother is going through a hard time and I am not able to help him. I would suggest doing or listening to Salok Mahalla 9 and I feel you will be able to connect with the bani especially at the pangti: Dukh mein sang na koe. I will pray for you, and I hope you get better soon.

Hoping to give you lots of hope,

Guest Kaur 2

[Guest Kaur 2]

 

[Guest]

15 hours ago, lostconfussedsingh said:

thanks everyone for your time and support. Today i didn't watch any of the nasty stuff i usually watch but instead i was watching tarantula spider videos which i must say look nice when they move around which is why i have changed my profile pic now to a spider.  I also spent more time with my parents today which was a change to be stuck on the laptop so things will change step by step. 

Amazing bro.

At least it's better than watching suicide videos, watching spiders is not weird since people could take it in context of research or something, I don't know lol.

Are you practicing Sikhi, Singh? As in keep kes, turban, etc?

[Guest]

3 minutes ago, lostconfussedsingh said:

True its a step up forward with the spider vids lol.

 

Yes i am a full Sikh i keep my full bread, Head kesh and tie a full turban. I don't eat meat egg fish or drink smoke etc.

Cool.

I personally eat egg and fish but that's another topic which is disallowed on here.

As you gradually get better in health start adopting Rehat Maryada, start building it up until you feel it's time to take the big step, amrit.

(Of course it's your choice, just giving advice).

[Guest Kaur 2]

VJKK VJKF

18 hours ago, lostconfussedsingh said:

thanks everyone for your time and support. Today i didn't watch any of the nasty stuff i usually watch but instead i was watching tarantula spider videos which i must say look nice when they move around which is why i have changed my profile pic now to a spider.  I also spent more time with my parents today which was a change to be stuck on the laptop so things will change step by step. 

That's so good to hear! I personally have a passion for snakes because they too look beautiful. I don't watch videos of them lol but there's a really good TV program that I normally watch; its called Snakes in the City. It comes on Nat Geo Wild. I think the episodes are on YouTube. Try watching it, its really interesting. They don't kill the snake, they capture it and release it back to the wild far away to make sure it doesn't enter the city again.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lhJK-oBPCGs

VJKK VJKF

[harsharan000 3,755]

Just some uplifting sketches:

                          

 

              

 

“Most humans are never fully present in the now, because unconsciously they believe that the next moment must be more important than this one. But then you miss your whole life, which is always in the present.” ~ Eckhart Tolle

[Guest Sikh]

On 4/30/2018 at 9:35 PM, Guest Kaur 2 said:

VJKK VJKF

Please just stop.

VJKK VJKF

Why hasn't his post been deleted my admin yet? 

[KhalistanYouth 55]

On 2/20/2017 at 3:11 PM, Guest Singhni said:

Vaheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Vaheguru Ji Ke Fateh

Why shouldn't I kill myself?

I wish my soul never existed to be in this cycle of life and death. I feel like I don't deserve to be happy, and that Vaheguru Ji hates me. Why did He bother with me?

My eyes well up when I think of how much I've let down my Guru, and how I'll never experience Gursikhi Jeevan. I'll get worse. I feel like I won't get any help in my life because I am a waste. My Guru is disappointing with me. No one sees any hope in me.

I simply don't care anymore, I might as well add to my bad deeds by killing myself in every life because what is the point of never being happy in the life I am living?

I've messed my life up big time.

You haven't messed up, it's human nature to make mistakes remember that, and eventually everything is going to get better, whatever the problem is, you can't always rely on the guru, you HAVE to do it yourself.

Money problems?  GET a job, not trying to sound harsh but you need to reevaluate your life, PUT yourself first  instead of putting other people first.

Family problems? MOVE out, sometimes family isn't "family"

Education problems? Aslong as you can get a job and afford food/rent, it's okay drop out.

And  your feelings are valid, but suicide should never be the option, and if you kill yourself then you'll for sure never experience Gursikhi Jeevan. 

Life is a gift from god, and if you're life was a waste then you wouldn't have a life in the first place.

You can make up for your sins, and if you commit suicide, then you'll die with those sins, pathetically. 

Go seek therapy,  you're important in this life,  your self-esteem shouldn't be this low.

 

[KhalistanYouth 55]

6 hours ago, Lostmessedup said:

I love suicide !!!! OMG i feel alive watching and reading about suicide and death vids !!!!!

 

 

Lol you're a pathetic loser and if what I wrote makes you cry, go deal with it.