Suicide

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lakh khusee-aa paatisaahee-aa jay satgur nadar karay-i

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sireeraag mehlaa 5
Siree Raag, Fifth Mehl

 

sBy Qok prwpqy jy AwvY ieku hiQ ]
sabhay thok paraapatay jay aavai ik hath.
All things are received if the One is obtained.

jnmu pdwrQu sPlu hY jy scw sbdu kiQ ]
janam padaarath safal hai jay sachaa sabad kath.
The precious gift of this human life becomes fruitful when one chants the True Word of the Shabad.

gur qy mhlu prwpqy ijsu iliKAw hovY miQ ]1]
gur tay mahal paraapatay jis likhi-aa hovai math. ||1||
One who has such destiny written on his forehead enters the Mansion of the Lord's Presence, through the Guru. ||1||

myry mn eyks isau icqu lwie ]
mayray man aykas si-o chit laa-ay.
O my mind, focus your consciousness on the One.

eyks ibnu sB DMDu hY sB imiQAw mohu mwie ]1] rhwau ]
aykas bin sabh DhanDh hai sabh mithi-aa moh maa-ay. ||1|| rahaa-o.
Without the One, all entanglements are worthless; emotional attachment to Maya is totally false. ||1||Pause||

lK KusIAw pwiqswhIAw jy siqguru ndir kryie ]
lakh khusee-aa paatisaahee-aa jay satgur nadar karay-i.
Hundreds of thousands of princely pleasures are enjoyed, if the True Guru bestows His Glance of Grace.

inmK eyk hir nwmu dyie myrw mnu qnu sIqlu hoie ]
nimakh ayk har naam day-ay mayraa man tan seetal ho-ay.
If He bestows the Name of the Lord, for even a moment, my mind and body are cooled and soothed.

ijs kau pUrib iliKAw iqin siqgur crn ghy ]2]
jis ka-o poorab likhi-aa tin satgur charan gahay. ||2||
Those who have such pre-ordained destiny hold tight to the Feet of the True Guru. ||2||

sPl mUrqu sPlw GVI ijqu scy nwil ipAwru ]
safal moorat saflaa gharhee jit sachay naal pi-aar.
Fruitful is that moment, and fruitful is that time, when one is in love with the True Lord.

dUKu sMqwpu n lgeI ijsu hir kw nwmu ADwru ]
dookh santaap na lag-ee jis har kaa naam aDhaar.
Suffering and sorrow do not touch those who have the Support of the Name of the Lord.

bwh pkiV guir kwiFAw soeI auqirAw pwir ]3]
baah pakarh gur kaadhi-aa so-ee utri-aa paar. ||3||
Grasping him by the arm, the Guru lifts them up and out, and carries them across to the other side. ||3||

Qwnu suhwvw pivqu hY ijQY sMq sBw ]
thaan suhaavaa pavit hai jithai sant sabhaa.
Embellished and immaculate is that place where the Saints gather together.

FoeI iqs hI no imlY ijin pUrw gurU lBw ]
dho-ee tis hee no milai jin pooraa guroo labhaa.
He alone finds shelter, who has met the Perfect Guru.

nwnk bDw Gru qhW ijQY imrqu n jnmu jrw ]4]6]76]
naanak baDhaa ghar tahaaN jithai mirat na janam jaraa. ||4||6||76||
Nanak builds his house upon that site where there is no death, no birth, and no old age. ||4||6||76|

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[Guest Kaur 2]

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5 hours ago, lostconfussedsingh said:

To me suicide is a art and not everyone makes it through but i don't why people are against suicide anyway. To do it you need strength and will power motivation. 

Please just stop.

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[Guest Kaur 2]

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5 hours ago, lostconfussedsingh said:

To me suicide is a art and not everyone makes it through but i don't why people are against suicide anyway. To do it you need strength and will power motivation. 

Veerji, I feel immensely worried for you. If you need any help then I am always here and I'm sure other members are also more than willing to help. I will mention you in my ardas.

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[TheeTurbanator 295]

7 hours ago, lostconfussedsingh said:

i don't why people are against suicide anyway

I dont know, maybe becuase people die? 

7 hours ago, lostconfussedsingh said:

To do it you need strength and will power motivation. 

You need strength and will power motivation to keep on going, suicide is for those who give in. 

[MisterrSingh 3,453]

25 minutes ago, lostconfussedsingh said:

Thats what you think not people i have seen on the videos doing the act for real or are planning on doing it in real life. 

 

Suicide is not for those who give in. Don't ever say that as if i had strength power i would do it right now this second commit suicide. Trust me i will be happy afterwoods.

 

You're kind of bringing the mood down in these particular type of threads, which for a thread on suicide is quite a feat. 

So you obviously don't have the constitution for killing yourself. What's next? Are you going to sort your head out, or you going to continue to wallow in self pity? How long you gonna be lost and confused, Singh?

[Guest]

13 minutes ago, lostconfussedsingh said:

I am bringing the mood down ? Thats rich coming from you.

 

Do you know what i go through or am feeling ?

 

Don't tempt me that i am not gonna do suicide as i have self harmed before and i am not scared to suicide in real life. But i don't want end up as a vegetable in case i don't make it through.

 

One moment of pain is what suicide is compared to living and dying everyday to what reffer as life.

 

I am already on anti depressiants as i am recieving help. These urges of suicide are the same as the kaam lust ones so who knows what i am gonna do ?

 

How long am i gonna be a lost and confussed singh ? As long as you are named misterr singh which you can't even spell right.

You know why we are even here brother, because we didn't make it through our past life and therefore had to suffer by birth and dead feeling the pain of each animal or life form.

Suicide is not a joke since you are tampering with Akaal Purakhs hukam. 

I don't want to tempt you bro but seeing as you are in the fold of Sikhi you basically have made a great start already, following and living the truth to achieve liberation.

I don't know what to say since I haven't dealt with issues like this before and besides I am only 16.

Just stay safe bro, do whatever you need that helps.

[MisterrSingh 3,453]

49 minutes ago, lostconfussedsingh said:

As long as you are named misterr singh which you can't even spell right.

That's not me. The mods did that. 

[Guest]

18 minutes ago, MisterrSingh said:

That's not me. The mods did that. 

MisterSingh was taken therefore you put two r, don't tell choot, you could easily have put MisterSengh

16 minutes ago, lostconfussedsingh said:

I didn't know you was only 16. But man you are a hell a lot of more mature then i was back then. It was also the age my ptsd depression started when i was going onto 17. I didn't know you was of this age group. But back then it was really bad the episodes i had and the other stuff that was going around me as well.

 

I do hope the antidepressants help uplift me as its low mood depression i have along with ptsd. Its like certain things trigger off these thoughts and tendencies of suicide for me.

 

But you are right after many lifes and deaths of animals human life has been given

Maharaj kirpa u remain Chardikala bro

[MisterrSingh 3,453]

6 hours ago, monatosingh said:

MisterSingh was taken therefore you put two r, don't tell choot, you could easily have put MisterSengh

Actually, I had another username, which I requested to change to MisterSingh. Mods agreed. But now I realise why the extra R was added. It was already taken. I wish they'd told me. 

[MisterrSingh 3,453]

6 hours ago, lostconfussedsingh said:

Thanks bro i do hope i get better. Thanks for the comment to the other user lol. 

On any other forum you'd have been banned for the way you've been mooching around encouraging / suggesting suicidal acts. 

I'm not getting into a Pity Olympics / "my life's tougher than yours" bakwaas, because I don't particularly enjoy conversing with you, but you're an absolute disgrace, and you should be banned.

[Guest]

1 hour ago, MisterrSingh said:

On any other forum you'd have been banned for the way you've been mooching around encouraging / suggesting suicidal acts. 

I'm not getting into a Pity Olympics / "my life's tougher than yours" bakwaas, because I don't particularly enjoy conversing with you, but you're an absolute disgrace, and you should be banned.

facepalm, a big facepalm...

[MisterrSingh 3,453]

5 minutes ago, monatosingh said:

facepalm, a big facepalm...

Easy way out. Explain to me how I'm wrong.

You think that fool you're defending who continues to allude to suicide being a wonderful release from a painful existence is something that should be praised? If someone genuinely at the end of their tether -- who isn't a posturing attention seeker like your friend -- decides to kill themselves after reading the "advice" of that 1diot, I suppose you'd be okay with it? 

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Just now, MisterrSingh said:

Easy way out. Explain to me how I'm wrong.

You think that fool you're defending who continues to allude to suicide being a wonderful release from a painful existence is something that should be praised? If someone genuinely at the end of their tether -- who isn't a posturing attention seeker like your friend -- decides to kill themselves after reading the "advice" of that 1diot, I suppose you'd be okay with it? 

I am not okay with it, I am against it but I am just trying to say there are other ways of trying to get the message across, especially to a suicidal person who has self-harmed before.

Anyways I am off to school, back in about 6-7 hours so late replies. 

[TheeTurbanator 295]

19 hours ago, monatosingh said:

Suicide is not a joke since you are tampering with Akaal Purakhs hukam. 

 

No one can tamper with Akaal Purakhs Hukam even if they wanted to 

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20 minutes ago, TheeTurbanator said:

No one can tamper with Akaal Purakhs Hukam even if they wanted to 

If Waheguru set us a specific expiry date and we suicide before it, is that considered hukam of Waheguru or did we just boycott the idea of it?