More proof marriages between white men and punjabi women often end in disasters

[genie]

How sad and what a waste of life.

http://metro.co.uk/2018/05/11/businesswoman-40-found-dead-bath-setting-fire-7537454/

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-5717397/Lonely-mother-two-40-died-set-fire-bathtub.html

Often so called modern westernised punjabi women boast how they chose their own partners and go against the grain of traditions by dating and having sex non-punjabi men and some even marrying out of their own ethnicity and background. They think the grass is greener on the other side. But no its not often its much much worse as from all the marriages between white men and asian women I have learnt about most like vast majority have ended in violent incidents and eventual divorce. I knew a case where an Indian woman was repeatedly beaten up by her drunk irish white partner she eventually left him but was too scared to ever date anyone again. There was case where white men murdered their asian woman partners in jealous or violent rages. And then theres cases where brown/asian women have taken their own life or attempted suicide because they are left on the shelf after spending most their life trying to prove everyone wrong that they can make it with with a white guy and in the process cutting all bridges from their family and any potential asian/brown long term partners.

In my observation white men expect submissive asian/brown women thats what draws them not just the looks but when they realise asian/punjabi women are not the stereotype and often not much better than their white women in terms of attitude and materialist desires and domineering scheming intentions then they soon realise they better of with a white woman instead and start to cheat around if they weren't doing so before.
 

[MisterrSingh]

38 minutes ago, genie said:

In my observation white men expect submissive asian/brown women thats what draws them not just the looks but when they realise asian/punjabi women are not the stereotype and often not much better than their white women in terms of attitude and materialist desires and domineering scheming intentions then they soon realise they better of with a white woman instead and start to cheat around if they weren't doing so before.

 

That's an astute observation. I'm not saying it's applicable across the board, but I'd hazard a guess it plays into the psychology of some white men who assume they're getting a more authentic, traditional partner in an Asian female compared to their white women.

If only they knew, lmao!

[genie]

30 minutes ago, MisterrSingh said:

That's an astute observation. I'm not saying it's applicable across the board, but I'd hazard a guess it plays into the psychology of some white men who assume they're getting a more authentic, traditional partner in an Asian female compared to their white women.

If only they knew, lmao!

Yes true.

also the traditional asian marriage model is the best one that works because its disciplined and its been tried and tested for thousands of years. Whereas the so called inter-religious inter-racial loved based relationships leading to marriage is relatively recent contept which has not stood the test of time because peoples values and lifestyles and ethnic roots and cultural needs all play a part.

Even in asian/brown/indian marriages if both couples do not have the same set of shared values and outlooks in life they will head to disaster too because too many are brought up by a society and by parents with unrealistic expectations of what marriage entails and how its a life long commitment its not a joke. And when it ends in divorce It has devastating consequences for peoples finances and mental health when they fail to make it work so people really shouldn't be taking it lightly when choosing a partner and often marrying from your own background has a higher rate of success and longevity.

[jkvlondon]

2 hours ago, genie said:

How sad and what a waste of life.

http://metro.co.uk/2018/05/11/businesswoman-40-found-dead-bath-setting-fire-7537454/

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-5717397/Lonely-mother-two-40-died-set-fire-bathtub.html

Often so called modern westernised punjabi women boast how they chose their own partners and go against the grain of traditions by dating and having sex non-punjabi men and some even marrying out of their own ethnicity and background. They think the grass is greener on the other side. But no its not often its much much worse as from all the marriages between white men and asian women I have learnt about most like vast majority have ended in violent incidents and eventual divorce. I knew a case where an Indian woman was repeatedly beaten up by her drunk irish white partner she eventually left him but was too scared to ever date anyone again. There was case where white men murdered their asian woman partners in jealous or violent rages. And then theres cases where brown/asian women have taken their own life or attempted suicide because they are left on the shelf after spending most their life trying to prove everyone wrong that they can make it with with a white guy and in the process cutting all bridges from their family and any potential asian/brown long term partners.

In my observation white men expect submissive asian/brown women thats what draws them not just the looks but when they realise asian/punjabi women are not the stereotype and often not much better than their white women in terms of attitude and materialist desires and domineering scheming intentions then they soon realise they better of with a white woman instead and start to cheat around if they weren't doing so before.
 

she had mental health issues and had tried to kill herself three times before ...the husband had zero to do with it , the fact her kids were not living with her suggests that she was not considered stable enough to deal with motherhood .
 

[jkvlondon]

As for violence etc it can and does happen regularly in apnay too , just the guys tend to be protected from the fallout as family members tend to close ranks . Yes there are asian fetishists who will dream of a supersubmissive wife because they are inadequate in life and want to be the big Kahuna at home (isn't that true of most indian mama's boys though?) . But the whole world has moved on from the victorian era stereotypes ... 
 

[genie]

42 minutes ago, jkvlondon said:

As for violence etc it can and does happen regularly in apnay too , just the guys tend to be protected from the fallout as family members tend to close ranks . Yes there are asian fetishists who will dream of a supersubmissive wife because they are inadequate in life and want to be the big Kahuna at home (isn't that true of most indian mama's boys though?) . But the whole world has moved on from the victorian era stereotypes ... 
 

White guys if you ask them in all honesty and when they talk in forums and amoung their own white peers still view asian/brown women are very submissive (and easy for white western men) who they can dominate and get them to do as they want and say. Little do they realise the harsh reality of that stereotype

48 minutes ago, jkvlondon said:

she had mental health issues and had tried to kill herself three times before ...the husband had zero to do with it , the fact her kids were not living with her suggests that she was not considered stable enough to deal with motherhood .
 

Possibly but more likely case is that she developed mental health problems due to the relationship she had with the white guy. Possibly because of her own warped exceptions of a better life with a white guy and his possible with a fetish for docile easy submissive asian woman.

 

Often

[Guest GuestSingh]

Don't feel these traitors deserve sympathy - they only hear what they want to hear then make a choice without force.

Not many seem to bother to search within themselves, question their identity or connect to their roots etc. There's almost no interest in history so we the same mistakes happen again and again. Yes, parents/older generations are mainly to blame for not educating the kids and that's why many end up weak.

If they were such 'strong, independent and modern women', why are they still naive, gullible and receptive only to women when it comes to 'love'?

Seems like some only need one or two bad experiences before suddenly stereotyping all apne as the same then rejecting their own family and community because they see the white devil as their 'saviour'. Have they ever thought of how white women are treated or do they think they're special because they're different due to their brown skin colour?

'Blood is thicker than water' and it always.

1 hour ago, genie said:

White guys if you ask them in all honesty and when they talk in forums and amoung their own white peers still view asian/brown women are very submissive (and easy for white western men) who they can dominate and get them to do as they want and say. Little do they realise the harsh reality of that stereotype

It comes from their colonial arrogance learnt from parents/older generations and reinforced by peers.

Look at their history of self-entitlement to asian women:

https://history.libraries.wsu.edu/fall2015/2015/08/31/the-industrial-revolutions-ban-on-alcohol-and-its-effects-on-other-countries/

http://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/2455632716648560

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/culture/books/8796258/Jeremy-Paxman-on-the-British-Empire-where-men-went-to-run-wild.html

http://www.academia.edu/32444546/Public_Women_and_Prostitution_in_19th_Century_British_India_Issue_of_Race_Sex_Class_and_Gender_During_the_Limited_Raj

https://www.mainstreamweekly.net/article2142.html

Every single one of these whitedevils should have been welcomed with death the moment they stepped foot on Bharati soil.

1 hour ago, genie said:

Possibly but more likely case is that she developed mental health problems due to the relationship she had with the white guy. Possibly because of her own warped exceptions of a better life with a white guy and his possible with a fetish for docile easy submissive asian woman.

Think they, also, see them as 'exotic' due to their own low self-worth - dull, pale and pink appearance with a sleazy and corrupt culture.

[Big_Tera]

Lets  face it the Sikh community in the is UK has gone down hill. We are in complete disarray and on our last legs. Many of us are marrying non Sikhs. Its not even a big thing anymore  Its become the social norm.

Guys are doing it aswell as girls.  

The sad fact is The community will eventually be wiped out. Ie, I read somehwere that due to so much inter religious and interacial marriages in the black carribean community. Their race is being wiped out and replaced with a mixed race one. 

Sikhs have just like many other asian groups in the uk. A high divorce rate. Marriage is just not working. 

Huge numbers of sikhs are marrying non sikhs. be it guys and girls. Also us Sikh men to get clever. Because there must be something we are doing wrong that is making the punjabi women marry non Sikhs. Are we good role models? Many girls grow up in families were the father beats up the mum after getting drunk.

These girls then grow up and feel the last thing they want to do is marry a punjabi man as they think they will end up the same. Being physically and mentally abused. 

[StarStriker]

26 minutes ago, Big_Tera said:

Lets  face it the Sikh community in the is UK has gone down hill. We are in complete disarray and on our last legs. Many of us are marrying non Sikhs. Its not even a big thing anymore  Its become the social norm.

Guys are doing it aswell as girls.  

The sad fact is The community will eventually be wiped out. Ie, I read somehwere that due to so much inter religious and interacial marriages in the black carribean community. Their race is being wiped out and replaced with a mixed race one. 

Sikhs have just like many other asian groups in the uk. A high divorce rate. Marriage is just not working. 

Huge numbers of sikhs are marrying non sikhs. be it guys and girls. Also us Sikh men to get clever. Because there must be something we are doing wrong that is making the punjabi women marry non Sikhs. Are we good role models? Many girls grow up in families were the father beats up the mum after getting drunk.

These girls then grow up and feel the last thing they want to do is marry a punjabi man as they think they will end up the same. Being physically and mentally abused. 

Not sure where u r from in uk, but sikhi is on the rise in the west. We are not the only community who is having ppl marrying out, gujaratis are far worse, as are other kaums. Even pakistanis are having same issues, but they hide it a lot better than most. The amount of pak apostates & married women who are on FB with non muslim surnames is something ive noticed in recent times.

[GurjantGnostic]

2 hours ago, GuestSingh said:

Blood is thicker than water' and it always.

A fun fact regarding this quote. It's actually "the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb".  Meaning those you keep faith with are closer to you than those you are related to by birth alone.