GUYS and kaam

[Guest Kaam]

Why are guys more kaami than women i don't get it

 

[jkvlondon]

On 6/10/2018 at 4:25 PM, Guest Kaam said:

Why are guys more kaami than women i don't get it

 

because there are more negative outcomes for girls than boys , boys can just walk away and leave girls to deal with it so girls are naturally cautious . The other thing is biologically women are not as driven sexually(instant gratification)  but more on viability of offspring and their security so more long term planning and partner preselection goes into it . Guys are encouraged by society and biology to have numerous partners ...and the whole media/film world pushes that ideal because it drives consumption to impress.

[MisterrSingh]

1 hour ago, jkvlondon said:

because there are more negative outcomes for girls than boys , boys can just walk away and leave girls to deal with it so girls are naturally cautious . The other thing is biologically women are not as driven sexually(instant gratification)  but more on viability of offspring and their security so more long term planning and partner preselection goes into it . Guys are encouraged by society and biology to have numerous partners ...and the whole media/film world pushes that ideal because it drives consumption to impress.

No... just no, lol. It's like you've completely bypassed the previous 30 years of societal and sexual politics.

Plus, I suspect OP was searching for, in part, a spiritual answer.

[jkvlondon]

1 hour ago, MisterrSingh said:

No... just no, lol. It's like you've completely bypassed the previous 30 years of societal and sexual politics.

Plus, I suspect OP was searching for, in part, a spiritual answer.

I'm not saying politics have not altered some of the behaviour but the biological imperatives are still in the background . Girls may have become more kaami because they can now avoid a lot of the previous hinderances (quite a few feel pressurised into becoming active on the scene because of peer influence) . Girls tend to be more deep thinking from a young age so tend to latch on to dharam as it nurtures them emotionally in a way that their parents do not tend to ,also  because morality is so tied to female behaviour both religions and societies being in line with the dharam keeps them safe from the constant criticism .  After all BOYS WILL BE BOYS so it doesn't matter if they sow oats with firangi girls as long as they settle down with a 'good girl'. The double standard is still rife.

[puzzled]

higher sex drive? testosterone? lol i don't know.    But these days there isn't much difference between boys and girls tbh many women are just as kaami as men.  The only thing i guess stopping some women from sleeping around as much as they want is being labeled a slag or <banned word filter activated>.  

[Mahakaal96]

On 6/10/2018 at 5:25 PM, Guest Kaam said:

Why are guys more kaami than women i don't get it

 

Not true.

Your question is a reflection of the type of men you keep sangat with, look up to & learn from.

Read Charitropakhyan & you will realise the lengths women had to go to in order to seduce a real man.