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So why don't Sikh brides cover their heads? they normally have their buns covered but not their heads. whats the reason behind this? if i walked into gurdwara with my patka slipping and hanging of my bun i would probably get death stares, People would probably feel like tossing me out of the window.  But why do Sikh brides get away with it?   a few years back during the summer i wore a cap to the gurdwara, i soon had 5 singhs standing behind me not looking very amused. i was told to take it off and wear a ramal.      why the double F,ing standards?     

heres a quick google search., Why were none of these women dragged out or told to cover their heads before guru granth sahib ji ?     you can hardly call any of the below a head covering.   

The double standards are really starting to annoy me 

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2 minutes ago, puzzled said:

So why don't Sikh brides cover their heads?

Fashion is more important that the Anand Vivaah itself.

3 minutes ago, puzzled said:

But why do Sikh brides get away with it? 

They are paying for a service which earns the Gurdwara lots of money. Customer is always right attitude. Gurdwaras allow people to bend a lot of rules for weddings. They don't want to harm their most lucrative income stream.

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48 minutes ago, puzzled said:

So why don't Sikh brides cover their heads? they normally have their buns covered but not their heads. whats the reason behind this? if i walked into gurdwara with my patka slipping and hanging of my bun i would probably get death stares, People would probably feel like tossing me out of the window.  But why do Sikh brides get away with it?   a few years back during the summer i wore a cap to the gurdwara, i soon had 5 singhs standing behind me not looking very amused. i was told to take it off and wear a ramal.      why the double F,ing standards?     

heres a quick google search., Why were none of these women dragged out or told to cover their heads before guru granth sahib ji ?     you can hardly call any of the below a head covering.   

The double standards are really starting to annoy me 

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These are just some examples.. I've never seen it much 

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7 minutes ago, MrDoaba said:

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In that last picture she is doing pardah, no?

seems to be a new trend just having a cheeky dig ... mind you back in the seventies I attended weddings where the ladies had their chunnis pulled about to that length and then it was a double chunni as in the old trads , one chunni from saure one from nanake. (I had both on my day but no koond)
I cannot understand why sikh women want to wear mughal style double tikka and side dangly thing (I know nothing) like some Meena Kumari film extra ... or Rajput choker upon chokr huge nath etc  do they not realise this is the libaas of enslaved women ...whose value is only in their sex?

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1 minute ago, jkvlondon said:

seems to be a new trend just having a cheeky dig ... mind you back in the seventies I attended weddings where the ladies had their chunnis pulled about to that length and then it was a double chunni as in the old trads , one chunni from saure one from nanake.

Interesting, I never knew that...I suppose thats not bad, it's quite sentimental.

My mum had full-on chund when she got married.

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17 minutes ago, lostconfussedsingh said:

I heard one ladies lehenga was the size of a parachute and she couldn't bend down lol.

my Masi's girl was pretty simple tastes like myself but when her folks saw that suit she picked the night before they took her out to get heaviest lengha possible , we are talking five foot 4  barely 100 pounds girls carrying 30 pounds of material . Her bros literally had to help her move around to do lavan and her masian bhabi help her stand and sit .... madness

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