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Sikh Girl with a Muslim convert sikh Guy
by Guest wishfulthinker- 5 replies
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Is it wrong for a sikh girl to be with a guy who's born into a muslim family but converts to Sikhism. Is it wrong for the 2 to be together in a serious relationship? The guy basically didn't believe in his muslim ways and converted to Sikhism, all his friends are Sikhi and he does everything a muslim shouldn't. advise please
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A common thing which genuinely arises when its summer is how can Amritdhari girls who have their head covered and do not remove hair look pretty? I know a lot of the sangat is going to say we don't need to look pretty etc but being a girl - it is important to look good. I have many Sikh friends and I've noticed a lot of them feel the same way ... I remember reading somewhere that when looking pretty hair generally play a big role but many amritdhari girls cover their head (maybe dastar or patka) we don't shape our eyebrows or wear makeup Don't misunderstand me and think I am complaining, this is all good stuff that we do but the question is, …
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Sat Shri Akal Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh Is that right for the Sikh Girls to cover there faces and wear Goggles,Glares while Driving Scooter,Scootie??But logically it is not correct as Guru amar Das Ji rejected Veil Wearing Or Purdah System??But many Sikh Girls are covering there face due to fear of Boys we can say that and also due to exposure of dust,dirt in there eyes,mouth??How correct is it Logically according to your viewpoint?When our Guru's have told one should look like how God has made him....So does these things really matter to them?
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SSA Everybody, I am a gursikh software professional working in London.I was wondering if there is any place in gurudwara's that take care of sikh matrimony services over here.I am on Tier1 VISA and prefer a girl from Indian origin working here like me. I went to INDIA for the sake of getting married last year and I spent 5 months before I got engaged to a girl.I came back over here and my ROKA was broken because of some unknown reasons.I went in Nov last month and I have realised it is too difficult to handle this part from here.I am thinking to go back again in Janurary for some more time to find a girl.I am simply tired and upset with all this.I don't need sympathy on…
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I have been noticing a recent trend among sikh girls to marry outside religion. This is making me very sad as I do not understand what are sikh men missing that girls are not even looking at them. This is really disheartening as even my cousin sisters decided to marry hindus. I don't mean hindus are bad, but if you were born into a religion gifted to you by your parents and god why not follow it and have a life partner from the same religion. Whenever I see a sikh girl marrying outside I feel like slapping myself and sometime cry as why has our religion become so weak. What could be done to solve this? This will definitely become a bigger issue in the community going for…
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WJKK WJKF I am a Sikh guy from Delhi. I want to ask a question about Sikh girls, virginity and sex before marriage. But first, I want to tell you about what has driven me to come here and ask this question. I used to like a girl in the final year of my school. She used to like me too. We used to blush a lot while talking to each other and We used to talk to each other a lot. We told each other about our feelings and felt good about it. Later we went to different colleges. One day there was a cultural event in her college, I came to know of it from my friends in that college, and thought I should surprise her. I went there with my friends and saw her with some …
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Sikh Group Wants Volunteers
by Guest Guest- 0 replies
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Sikh group wants volunteers Published Date: 02 March 2011 The charity Sikh Sanjog is looking for volunteers to help run a group for girls. The organisation, which was set up to support Sikh women in Edinburgh, already runs a group for girls aged 11 and over, offering activities including camping, crafts, fitness and dance. It now hopes to set up a group for younger girls. Volunteers will receive training in partnership with the Scouts. For details contact Khaleda at Sikh Sanjog on 0131-553 4737 or khaleda@sikhsanjog.com. Source: Edinburgh Evening News http://news.scotsman.com/news/Sikh-group-wants-volunteers.6727135.jp
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Sikh Gurus And Marriage
by Guest bull- 1 reply
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Hi, I had a question about our Gurus and their marriage; we learned in class that Sikhs are against the cast system yet they married into their own cast.....what is the reasoning behind this? i know my gurus, i know they're not hypocrites and akaal purkh him self, but this question guru ji's marriage really got me confused. thanks!
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Sikh Guy Dating Middle Eastern Muslim Girl 1 2 3
by Guest Ranjit- 24 replies
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Hi 28yrs old british punjabi guy whose in a relationship with a british middle eastern muslim girl for a number of months and we both serious about being with each other term. The question of marriage and kids arose and I want a Sikh wedding and to have kids that are within the Sikh religion, so can anyone suggest to me how I can go about introducing and encouraging my gf to embrace Sikhism? I dont want to come across all religious on her because im not but I do love my faith and think its important for our future generations.
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Some beautiful old sikh havelis in Pakistan dyan singh haveli atam singhs haveli rawalpindi bakhshi ram singhs haveli rawalpindi lane of sikh and hindu havelis rawalpindi khem singh bedi haveli (think he was a descendant of guru nanak devi ji ?) pre partition sikh haveli Punjab soojan singh haveli rawalpindi pre partition sikh haveli haveli jawala singh sandhu jeevan singh sikh haveli punjab layalpur sikh haveli punjab layalpur sandhu haveli …
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Sikh History
by Guest Anonymous- 2 replies
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There is alot of controversy surrounding the amount of evidence we have for our history such as the encounters between our Gurus and the Mughals. Do we have any proof of these encounters such as the Gurus being tortured by the Mughals upon Aurangzebs request. Obviously as a Sikh i believe it but the claims that the history may have been altered along the way due to over exaggeration may be valid too if there is a lack of evidence.
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Sikh History And Inspirational Sakhis
by Guest gupt- 1 reply
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I want to know about sikh history and to knw abt the great gursikhs of our history.kindly suggest me the sites from where i can read these.also kindly suggest me sites for inspirational sikh sakhis.
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Sikh ideas vs mercenaries 1 2
by Guest Singh1999- 13 replies
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Does the sikh panth or any of the guruscondem the use of mercenaries in the khalsa army, or did they say that my sikh shoulf never be a mercenary. I know guru sahibs have had many conflicts with mercenary forces and that guru gobind singh attemptwd assassination happened by mercenaries. But is there anything wrong for a sikh to become a mercenary
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Okay, I am writing a paper on Sikh identity (finally almost done after 8 months). My research question is: to what extent does the Shiromani Gurdwara Parbandhak Committee's definition of sikh identity affect Sehajdhari and Amritdhari Sikhs? I want to know how you were discriminated against for being sehajdhari sikhs compared to an amritdhari SIkhs. Maybe some incident where you weren't allowed to do something that Amritdhari sikhs could do simply because your sehajdhari, maybe the opposite. For instance, i talked about in my paper how sehajdhari sikhs are not allowed to vote in SGPC elections. I also talked about how some specific students in punjab were denied admi…
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SIKH IN MMA
by Guest IKaur_London- 6 replies
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WGK-WGF I wanted know if Sikh guys are allowed to participate in the UFC and if there are any famous fighters. I think it'll be a good way to revive our warrior ancestry and good example to future generations? The sullehs are always involved with martial arts/boxing and they are always promoting their religion in the world stage. If they can, why can't we do it.. is there any UFC laws to say Sikhs/religious observing people cant? Even that muzlim russian guy, kept saying allah this and allah that on the event press conference. What you guys think?
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back then was waaaay different. ppl didn’t attend higher education or have much to do after the age of like… 13, lol. you’d have 13 year olds boys and girls that know how to do kethi, cook entire meals, etc nowadays even 22 year olds are extremely immature and can be sheltered. the average person doesn’t know how to do anything except their 9-5 which they are probably half arsing as well. -
Yeah Dhadi and Kaweshria are known for joking around now and then. -
Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
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