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Hello, please dont make fun of me, I just have one simple question:

Is it possible for a man to control his sexual desire or lust his whole life?

I am asking because I heard that people who do try to contorl lust go crazy and cant take it anymore, like those priests in the catholic church, or that one Sikh bhai who raped a women. no.gif

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Akaali Grand Master

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Why is this so hard?

If you think about your Guru 24/7 you won't have any lustful thoughts. Do a search on the forum, some Gurmukhs have posted alot of solutions to this problem.

If its kaam on the computer, then just make sure you put keertan/bani before you do anything on the computer, and make sure you never close it. There's so much Sikhi content on the net that you can never possibly outlisten.

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sewak sikh Grand Master

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Hello, please dont make fun of me, I just have one simple question:

Is it possible for a man to control his sexual desire or lust his whole life?

I am asking because I heard that people who do try to contorl lust go crazy and cant take it anymore, like those priests in the catholic church, or that one Sikh bhai who raped a women. no.gif

the control u r talking abt priests in the catholic church, or that one Sikh bhai who raped a women

are the controls of their tann(materialistic body) due to social image they or any other people posess and the law which will put them behind the bars

another control is of mann (mind) . when our mind works in right direction thru guru shabad and guru kirpa it never thinks or goes wrong.and our body is mere follower of wht our mind says

as i told u physical control is becoz of law and society so no wrong action is performed(apradh) upto a certain time but mind is constantly thinking wrong(paap) so the lust and sexual desire of any person outbursts in the form of may be sexual harrasment or even rape

the people u talk abt r connected to religion & if they do wrong they can be easily caught so they control themselves physically(no aprdh) though mind is always thinking wrong(doing paap) and result is a rape

the crux is listen to gurbani and maintain kakari rehat and live life told by guru ji

god willing we control our minds thru guru kirpa and guru shabad and have uttam jeevan

waheguru ji ka khalsa

waheguru ji ki fateh

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