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when bhai jarnail singh became bibeki his dad didnt talk 2 him 4 10yrs

i dont think any 1 here has the jeevn or buddhi to question the rehat ( i mtie be wrong) wud u have questioned the likes of gurbachan singh bhindrawale or bhai randhir singh ... even if they gave us ligitement answers our stupid mind never agrees and always wats to be naive and prove others wrong

go a amrit sanchar and ask panj pyareh about the rehat

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when bhai jarnail singh became bibeki his dad didnt talk 2 him 4 10yrs

i dont think any 1 here has the jeevn or buddhi to question the rehat ( i mtie be wrong) wud u have questioned the likes of gurbachan singh bhindrawale or bhai randhir singh ... even if they gave us ligitement answers our stupid mind never agrees and always wats to be naive and prove others wrong

go a amrit sanchar and ask panj pyareh about the rehat

I so agree with you, I was going to say ask the Panj pyaray (mind you when i had Amrit, I broke it now, because of being forced when i wasnt ready) I didnt get told that I should not share food with anybody else, but I remain secretive about verything else what was told to me. What ever they say you must obey, because its Guru ji himself. :D d_oh.gif :TH:

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I'm not taking any sides here, I know nothing, but I am just trying to present all sides of the debate. As far as RehitNaamays go, I was referring to the ones written by the original Panj Payarays as guided by Guru Gobind Singh Ji.

Also I think that if you take Amrit and your Panj Payarays say that only eat from Amritdharis, how can one debate that? Why would one debate that?

Something to think about.

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I'm not taking any sides here, I know nothing, but I am just trying to present all sides of the debate. As far as RehitNaamays go, I was referring to the ones written by the original Panj Payarays as guided by Guru Gobind Singh Ji.

Also I think that if you take Amrit and your Panj Payarays say that only eat from Amritdharis, how can one debate that? Why would one debate that?

Something to think about.

I got told i shudnt eat the "Jhoot" but i didnt get told at all I shudnt have food prepared by others, I am sure I didnt, but I take your point Veera!

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Looking at my kitchen the following should not be eaten;

sainsbury's biscuits

walkers crisps

heinz ketchup

loaf of bread

jam

marmite

vegetable pasty.

veggie fingers

cheese

yoghurt

tomatoe soup

bar of chocolate

amb da achar

barfi

ladoo

bibek dhan - in the ardas does not mean not eating from non-amritdharis.

I am amritdhari - well i thought i was until reading this topic.

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Looking at my kitchen the following should not be eaten;

sainsbury's biscuits

walkers crisps

heinz ketchup

loaf of bread

jam

marmite

vegetable pasty.

veggie fingers

cheese

yoghurt

tomatoe soup

bar of chocolate

amb da achar

barfi

ladoo

bibek dhan - in the ardas does not mean not eating from non-amritdharis.

I am amritdhari - well i thought i was until reading this topic.

FATEH!!!

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You still are amritdhari d_oh.gif

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just a few of my opinions on bibek......

we shoud try and keep bibek IF we can

there isnt one person out there that fully keeps every rehit so we shouldnt look down on those that dont keep bibek and hurt the feelings of those who are trying to do our seva by giving us food

its tru that the food we cook from was probly originally prepared by next people in factories or farms unless u grew it urself which is doubtful!!

are ur hands better than the hands of the other people who cook ur food???

Isnt the food in the langar still not guru ka langar.....rejection of guru ka langer???

why sit in the langar hall and allow chances to reject langar if your not gna eat it anyway?

a tru bibekee wouldnt have anyone know that he/she is bibekee and wouldnt even allow for a chance to reject food and hurt sum1s feelings and if they did have to reject food they would never say its becoz im bibek.....out of pure humbleness!

try to keep bibek if u can as it is rehit.......and if u do dont let it create ego - coz thats what i always tend to see in bibekees, the tru bibekees dnt let any1 know they out of nimrata!

bhul chuk maaf

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just a few of my opinions on bibek......

we shoud try and keep bibek IF we can

there isnt one person out there that fully keeps every rehit so we shouldnt look down on those that dont keep bibek and hurt the feelings of those who are trying to do our seva by giving us food

its tru that the food we cook from was probly originally prepared by next people in factories or farms unless u grew it urself which is doubtful!!

are ur hands better than the hands of the other people who cook ur food???

Isnt the food in the langar still not guru ka langar.....rejection of guru ka langer???

why sit in the langar hall and allow chances to reject langar if your not gna eat it anyway?

a tru bibekee wouldnt have anyone know that he/she is bibekee and wouldnt even allow for a chance to reject food and hurt sum1s feelings and if they did have to reject food they would never say its becoz im bibek.....out of pure humbleness!

try to keep bibek if u can as it is rehit.......and if u do dont let it create ego - coz thats what i always tend to see in bibekees, the tru bibekees dnt let any1 know they out of nimrata!

bhul chuk maaf

FATEH!!

Awesome post d_oh.gif Very nicely said. its the EGO factor that plays a major role in not accepting things .

Bhul Chuk Maaf

GURU RAKHA!!

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You can eat food, but make sure u never eat her jootha food or food she has ate or tasted.

Also thank vaheguru for food before eating or jap nam in ur head while cooking food

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