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Mixed marriages between Punjab and European can exist and be great marriages for me as a white male dating a Punjabi female honestly it comes down to love I can honestly say I love my girl and will always these relationships work but its old fashioned and things take awhile and there has to be mutual respect I personally am a big history buff so I learned alot about her culture from the past to the point she was like wow I didn't know that you have to be willing to learn I beg to learn the language and what are sighns of respect and disrespect it all helps it actually has gotten to where if someone would make a Indian joke I get totally offended because since she's a part of me I feel almost like its a part of me in a way ,as a white male trying to integrate into her family all I want is to be accepted and this I where I believe people do wrong I don't believe people should discriminate me based on my skin color it really Is bad at the beginning of our relationship at about 2years in she still had not told her parents but we had a plan we would tell them by the third year mark she said that way her parents would see it as a serious relationship and not just some kindergarten crush so at this point we were spread deeply in love but the fear of her parents finding out had almost broken us atlesst 4times but we stuck threw it we knew if we gave up this relationship we might as well as give up life there'd be nothing to look forward too remind you we were 21 at this Time and this is where you need patience because we still could hardly go in public together she was so scared that we literally couldn't go in stores together and for a young woman to be that scared just because her bf is a certain color I never thought that was right now I know alot of hate of these relationships comes from religion I personally believe in one god that's always around always seeing and observing now its not much different from what my girl had believed so I started the process of being Sikh I never had a name for my religion I never labeled my self as a Christian or a catholic honestly I didn't know the difference I believe in Jesus and I also believe in guru nanak I don't feel that either one try to steer me to evil I feel as if they both did the world amazing things by spreading the word of god from what I've read if this is true guru nanaks parents weren't Sikh because Sikh wasn't created yet so I feel coming from one religion to another one so similar was okay. So at this point with my religion being the same I saw no reason to be discriminated and yet I still was. What must it take for two people to fall in love and be happy she made so many sacrifices same as I did and none of them felt hard we haven't had kids yet but if we do I have no issue with them being Sikh or Christian I have no worries if they have brown or blue eyes I believe as long as this much respect and loyalty is given there should be no reason for me to be discriminated I was going to school to be the same profession as her in the medical field but I guess the question Is what was not to be acceptable in my case , I know alot of guys may not go threw and respect the Punjabi Sikh culture if there just marrying into it but I believe if they put the work and loyolty they should know they'll be accepted over time most people only see discrimination from other races but as a white male I still feel to this day looked down on and I know that's not in the teachings to do that I thought all men were created equally so my question is as a young man put in his all and tries his very best at this point is he acceptable ?

We don't care about your race, what we want more is you being a Sikh! (Not one of them Sikhs who believes Guru Sahib is equal to some Pakhandi-Fake like Jesus)
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See the whole white boy thing is my point exactly, and yes they have. And about Jesus that doesn't offend me. There was this old Sikh ladies house we had went to she was so respectful, I was In her kitchen and I had saw a picture of Jesus underneath a picture of guru Nanak. I asked her where she had gotten the picture and she informed me that Christian or those kind of Christian people had came to her door and handed them out and she had kept it. She said out of respect. That's the day I realized I could do the same I could be Sikh as well as respect the Christian religion. Any ways I just wanted to prove a point and the first two comments were obviously discriminating I'm not gunna come back and respond but I just wanted to show the other side of the picture.

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See the whole white boy thing is my point exactly, and yes they have. And about Jesus that doesn't offend me. There was this old Sikh ladies house we had went to she was so respectful, I was In her kitchen and I had saw a picture of Jesus underneath a picture of guru Nanak. I asked her where she had gotten the picture and she informed me that Christian or those kind of Christian people had came to her door and handed them out and she had kept it. She said out of respect. That's the day I realized I could do the same I could be Sikh as well as respect the Christian religion. Any ways I just wanted to prove a point and the first two comments were obviously discriminating I'm not gunna come back and respond but I just wanted to show the other side of the picture.

No body got time for mixed faith marriages here. They are illegal under Sikh law and marriage rites. If you want to marry a Sikh girl in a gurdwara you MUST convert to Sikhi or be atheist Christian hedonist all you want and convert your girl also cos we don't have time for atheist punjaban's either go marry in a church or registry office instead of causing your families stress and inciting the Sikh community to defend our Guru.

Both of you are welcome into Sikhi and both of you will have to follow Sikhi if you want an anand karaj Sikh marriage ceremony. if not then don't bother disrespecting and mocking our Guru Ji with sham marriage as you can tell by the news we take our faith very seriously and take SGGS Ji more holier than quran or bible that you can just chuck around. SGGS Ji is our religious leader, our light in the darkness of this world. So we will not allow inter-faith weddings in Guru Ji's presence. It's as simple as that

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Borat is you crazy?

This isn't about preserving race! This is about protecting and nurturing a faith/way of life. If you're going to talk about race, we are closer to Pakistani Panjabis than anyone else.....

What retarded worldview have you got anyway? Most of us 'mixed-race' if we go back in our family history.

The quickest way for us to commit genocide is to start circling the wagons along racial lines and watch as more and more people hemorrhage away into other more progressive communities.

Instead we should be smart like others are: who try and take the best and incorporate it into their community. Whether its the smartest brains, great personalities or most attractive looking.

That's the reality of the what is going on out there.

You must be really retarded to be parroting the 'racial degeneration theory' peddled by whites (that even they've now rejected by the way!)

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Borat is you crazy?

This isn't about preserving race! This is about protecting and nurturing a faith/way of life. If you're going to talk about race, we are closer to Pakistani Panjabis than anyone else.....

What retarded worldview have you got anyway? Most of us 'mixed-race' if we go back in our family history.

The quickest way for us to commit genocide is to start circling the wagons along racial lines and watch as more and more people hemorrhage away into other more progressive communities.

Instead we should be smart like others are: who try and take the best and incorporate it into their community. Whether its the smartest brains, great personalities or most attractive looking.

That's the reality of the what is going on out there.

You must be really retarded to be parroting the 'racial degeneration theory' peddled by whites (that even they've now rejected by the way!)

As far as my experience goes my kids inherited much more damaging disease potentials from their non- sikh relatives , cancer, polyps, bones not adequate e.g. teeth are crooked on bottom whereas all my family have great teeth and bones . But small potatoes because it is the quality of the sikh that lives in that structure that matters

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As far as my experience goes my kids inherited much more damaging disease potentials from their non- sikh relatives , cancer, polyps, bones not adequate e.g. teeth are crooked on bottom whereas all my family have great teeth and bones . But small potatoes because it is the quality of the sikh that lives in that structure that matters

I've noticed that their are some positive physiological impact with mixed-race too. Like my nephews have very low body fat ratio compared to Panjabis (i.e. they are naturally shredded/ripped). They were skinny when young but when they started training the change was dramatic and quick. I think they can beef up pretty fast.

Culturally, the Panjabi side is just infinitely more resilient and strong minded than their other side of the family. I think they know this too. They can see we are a strong quom when they compare.

As for Kheerja's post. Good - if ever a bunch of troublesome, Godless mfs needed to be deleted, it's the ones referred to in your article. Poetic justice for rampaging around the world as imperialists.

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