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Why are there so many scary bossy dominating middle aged women fiercely guarding the kitchens in langar halls? 

Some of them look really ferocious and look like they can growl and breath fire out from their nostrils! 

Something needs to be done about this bullying and intimidating behaviour!! 

I once had one slam a cup of chaa at me years ago! I'm never gnna forget that or that woman's face! Everytime I see her I remember that incident. 

 

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17 minutes ago, puzzled said:

Why are there so many scary bossy dominating middle aged women fiercely guarding the kitchens in langar halls? 

Some of them look really ferocious and look like they can growl and breath fire out from their nostrils! 

Something needs to be done by this bullying and intimidating behaviour!! 

I once had one slam a cup of chaa at me years ago! I'm never gnna forget that or that woman's face! Everytime I see her I remember that incident. 

 

because their husband's are the budde controlling the finances probably so they feel entitled to treat Guru Langar like their personal empire . Some bebes are just hardworking sewaks who have to tolerate nonsense from gossiping aunties and bibis in the langar rasoi just to get the job done . Some langar kitchens are despicable for the amount of chugliaan and ninda

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4 hours ago, jkvlondon said:

because their husband's are the budde controlling the finances probably so they feel entitled to treat Guru Langar like their personal empire .

If that's the case then they need to leave their problems at home and stop bringing them to the Langar hall and start snarling at everyone! And if their husbands control the finance then perhaps the women should get a job! 

Something needs to be done about these dragons! All they do is stand there and bully and intimidate people all day! 

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2 hours ago, puzzled said:

If that's the case then they need to leave their problems are home and stop bringing them to the Langar hall and start snarling at everyone! And if their husband control the finance then perhaps the women should get a job! 

Something needs to be done about these dragons! All they do is stand there and bully and intimidate people all day! 

simple make youth do langar sewa, they love it

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1 hour ago, Loombdi said:

Is there a mixture of Men and Women in the kitchen?

yes there are normally a few men in the kitchen in the evenings but they are not fiercely territorial like the women in the kitchen!  the men in the kitchen are polite 

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7 hours ago, Loombdi said:

Is there a mixture of Men and Women in the kitchen?

Mostly there is only five of us there but once the women show up the whole scene  changes. The atmosphere becomes tense. Men stop speaking to each other and become mute for fear of reprisals or something.

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46 minutes ago, pavitarsk said:

Mostly there is only five of us there but once the women show up the whole scene  changes. The atmosphere becomes tense. Men stop speaking to each other and become mute for fear of reprisals or something.

Should langer hall be a place sangat talk/socialise much in the first place?

 

23 hours ago, puzzled said:

Before lockdown there were two British Punjabi chaps who were builders and probably came to eat langar for lunch. I could hear their convo and one of them wanted more roti but he was to scared to get up and ask for more roti! I even heard him say "she's looking at me" !  And she was! she was standing there with her knuckles on the worktop looking at him. 

These old fossils need to be driven out, they cant continue terrorizing sangat like this! 

I hope they have taken this lockdown as a opportunity to reflect on how they behave in the langar kitchen.

And should we be encouraging Sangat to eat more than basic amounts of food in Langar Hall ?

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On 8/16/2020 at 3:49 AM, jkvlondon said:

simple make youth do langar sewa, they love it

I've tried doing seva with these auntys. They're a nightmare. They don't even keep proper sucham. My dad always has a hard time telling them to be cleaner.

They tell you off for eating more than 3 pakore but they'll be eating a plate full of 8 pakore each.

Scary people!

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9 hours ago, Kaurr said:

I've tried doing seva with these auntys. They're a nightmare. They don't even keep proper sucham. My dad always has a hard time telling them to be cleaner.

They tell you off for eating more than 3 pakore but they'll be eating a plate full of 8 pakore each.

Scary people!

They really are a thing of nightmares! I have never done sewa in langar simply because of those dragons in the kitchen, it's like their little den. 

Iv helped the guys fold the white sheets in diwan hall and done hoover there   it's so much better! 

Feel sorry for the person doing actual sewa and they have to put up with these bullies. 

These same women wear bright yellow hi vis vests on nagar kirtans and boss everyone around.  On nagar kirtans they think they are police officers! 

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