A “Kaur” complaining that “brown” women are not sexualized

[Premi5]

I think the subject of this thread needs to read the RASE report

[dallysingh101]

6 minutes ago, Jassu said:

I wasn’t going to marry him lmao I made that topic because I wanted to see if I could convert him to Sikhi

If you waste your time playing these games, you'll probably actually miss the opportunity to find a real and genuine potential partner while doing so. 

[Jassu]

2 minutes ago, Jacfsing2 said:

Only Guru Sahib can convert someone into Sikhi. 

Well, unless he converts to Sikhi I am not marrying him or ‘hooking up’ with him. I still can give him information and try to show all the positives about Sikhi. Anyway I can’t convert people, that’s his job to go and get ‘baptised’ or ‘converted’.

[Jassu]

Just now, dallysingh101 said:

If you waste your time playing these games, you'll probably actually miss the opportunity to find a real and genuine potential partner while doing so. 

Ok sorry but let’s not derail the thread and make it about him and me lol

[dallysingh101]

1 minute ago, Jassu said:

Ok sorry but let’s not derail the thread and make it about him and me lol

You know, I did a Psychology course many years ago, and one of the units was on sexual abuse. From what I was taught there (by a national respected expert on the topic), the way you are going on is putting yourself at serious risk for this. 

If you want a decent bloke, you'd better wisen up, because any smart, streetwise bloke doesn't want to get with a women who is a liability, and doesn't know how to protect herself, and engages in risky behaviour. That's like a major red flag for blokes. 

[Ranjeet01]

Brown girls do like to be sexualized, it just depends who the audience is

[Jacfsing2]

2 minutes ago, dallysingh101 said:

You know, I did a Psychology course many years ago, and one of the units was on sexual abuse. From what I was taught there (by a national respected expert on the topic), the way you are going on is putting yourself at serious risk for this. 

If you want a decent bloke, you'd better wisen up, because any smart, streetwise bloke doesn't want to get with a women who is a liability, and doesn't know how to protect herself, and engages in risky behaviour. That's like a major red flag for blokes. 

That's true. Too many of our religious Sikh people aren't street smart sadly to be able to assist in combating these issues.

[Jassu]

5 minutes ago, dallysingh101 said:

Yeah, and a lot of them used to run away because of it, and then end up being abused or pimped out. Out of the fire place and into the fire.  

You’re implying that women of other races don’t get ‘abused’ or ‘pimped out’. Sikh women are still very safe and traditional compared to other women. Obviously, not all, but the vast majority are. This might be hard to swallow but a lot of Sikh women in the UK actually like Pakis and date them. Many of these women that cried wolf later would probably have done it anyway if they were from a ‘less strict’ family. This time the family would be open minded and actually willingly accept the Paki boyfriend or whatever, lol. I do agree that strict and conservative parenting does create resentment in children esp when they live in the west. I can’t deny that. I’m not saying that parents should threaten to kill their children or whatnot, but men are basically absent-minded these days (not just physically) and the mother is left to do the ‘parenting’ and as everyone knows a mother’s heart is soft. It doesn’t help that most of the time both parents are always working.

this post is terrible to write but this is the truth

[MisterrSingh]

2 minutes ago, Ranjeet01 said:

Brown girls do like to be sexualized, it just depends who the audience is

Absolutely. Crusty old uncles or their fat / skinny ugly Indian peers? "He's raping me just by looking at me!!!" 

They WANT to be desired, just not by people they find unattractive.

[Jassu]

7 minutes ago, Ranjeet01 said:

Brown girls do like to be sexualized, it just depends who the audience is

*Girls like to be sexualized, it just depends who the audience is