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I Am Not Worthy 1 2
by Guest A FOOL- 11 replies
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Vaheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru Ji Ke Fateh I dont know what point I am trying to make but I am just trying to express myself. I dont know how to say this, I guess I put my religion on hold... I am a Sikh, (baptized) wore the 5 kakars but lately I have been feeling not worthy of being a Sikh, just because I wore the kakars that doesnt mean I am a Sikh, I was not a Sikh on the inside, just a person who wanted to represent the Khalsa. I am getting really emotional right now and I am a grown man, I dont deserve to be a Sikh, I dont even deserve to live. I decided to not call my self a Sikh, and stop wearing the 5 kakars,( but I dont think I can ever cut my hair becau…
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Vaheguroo ji ka khalsa, Vaheguroo ji ki fateh. this may sound like the dumbest question ever, but i just started high school, and theere are some gurls who are veryyy fasinated with my long hair, and everyday, they take out scissors, (when they are in my class), and are like.. " manleen, were gonna cut ur hair off today", and at first i was like w.e they wont do it, they're jus talkin.. trash, but... now its begginig to bother me, and i dont even know why... i guess im afraid taht they wiill actually do it.... i tell them to .. jus... leave me alone everyday, in a nice way, but.. will it come to that day when they will actually do it ?... im so confused... :lol: …
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Interpreting A Hukamnama
by Guest _GUPT SINGH_- 2 replies
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The Laavan da Paath came up as a hukamana for me, im not married yet but been told about someone who I dont really know.. how should I interpret the hukamnama?
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Self Control 1 2
by HardKaur- 13 replies
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My problem is SELF CONTROL. Lately, for some unknown reason... I have been lacking my self control and my perseverance that I once strongly had in my character. I was someone who had her head in the books, concentrated on the goal and achieved it. Lately, I have been doing stupidness totally out of character. I feel really ashamed. The only thing i can think of is turning 19, being in university away from home, stress from university, and changing friends has caused my character to go out of balance. I am still that middle person who friends always go to for help, and almost everyone around me comes to me when the issue rises. I have been known to be a little too friend…
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Panj Singh Langar?
by Guest sohan singh- 0 replies
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Vaheguru ji ka khalsa vaheguru ji ki fathe Can somone give detials of where the reet of giving pnaj singh langar has come from??? If asked to do this seva should one accept?? if this is gurmat then what is the correct marayda??? Vaheguru ji ka khalsa vaheguru ji ki fathe
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What Would U Do?
by Guest sup- 3 replies
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i read this on another board. i'm a singh and i would personally go for my kirpan too. if that was me i would have had the kirpan at his throat and warned him to watch himself otherwise i'd find him and cut him in such way that he'd have nothing left ot expose. What would you do in same situation? http://www.tapoban.org/phorum/read.php?f=1&i=61871&t=61871 I nearly killed a man yesterday. And the weapon of choice was my kirpan. I'm a Singhnee with a foot-long Sri Sahib. I was riding my bike home around 8pm last night. It was pretty dark. I stopped at a red light in a dimly-lit intersection. A man, appearing to be homeless, crossed over from the opposite side o…
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after how long should him/her wash there dastaars, including keskis....., i know this is a dumb question but i would like to know, thank you.
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Aaaaaaaaaarghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh 1 2
by Guest AAARRRGGHHHH- 10 replies
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wats wrong with me, wats wrong with the world. Why is everything soo messed up? i dont know anything about anythign why am i such a fool, sumtimes i just feel like sittting down and screaming and crying, why why why... wat can we do to turn it all around, i want to sort out my life.
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Basics
by Guest Guest- 6 replies
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waheguruuuu ji i just want to ask some VERY basic questions. ive recently started being more interested in sikhi, and everyone has to start somewhere so im really sorry if these questions are boring to answer...i just wanted to ask: 1)why do we have parshaad? what is it purpose? was it around in the gurus times? what is its origin? 2)why should we do parkarma around guru ji when we go to the gurdwara and matha tek? again what is the purpose? 3)what does it mean when you bow your head to guru ji. what are you saying when you bow your head? 4)i have been told that breaking amrit is the biggest paap, but it is possible to break amrit? like if you do something your not…
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What Is Panj Ishnaan And How Is It Done? 1 2
by Guest Curious- 14 replies
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The topic title ___ can someone answer it plese? :lol:
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Kachera
by Guest Guest- 0 replies
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VJKK VJKF I was just wondering is it disrespectful to wash the kachera in the washing machine with all the other clothes, if yes, is it disrespectful to wash it in the washing machine seperatly? or does it have to be done by hand? Thanks again guys Admin Note: Please do use search option as this topic been discussed throughly not very long time ago.
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Length Of Dumalla And Keski 1 2 3
by Guest Guest- 21 replies
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What is the proper length of a dumalla, and a keski? What length do most people tie? Thanks Fateh!!!
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Admin, in reply to the gupt user I'll answer here. I can't PM that person since I don't know their forum ID. I'm not discouraging anyone from learning about Sikhism. Its just hell annoying when there are such ridiculous topics as "What colors can Sikhs wear" or "Do Sikhs have to get pesh when they give birth, for removing their kacheras" etc. I feel when such topics are created its due to a lack of other topics to discuss. I' just want people to use their own brains. Topics like these are just a waste of time and bandwidth.
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Sexual Desire>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> 1 2
by Guest Guest- 11 replies
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Hello, please dont make fun of me, I just have one simple question: Is it possible for a man to control his sexual desire or lust his whole life? I am asking because I heard that people who do try to contorl lust go crazy and cant take it anymore, like those priests in the catholic church, or that one Sikh bhai who raped a women. Admin Note : Next time pls use Search option of the forum
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Meat!
by Guest Guest- 5 replies
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VJKK VJKF I dont eat meat, but I dont do it as a Sikh, I have 2 dogs and 1 cat, and I could never ever ever imagine eating them lol, I know in other countries they eat them, so I quit eating meat :lol: . Anyways my mom usually feeds them for me lol, but now I want to take this responsibility off her hands, but i feel wierd giving my pets meat. Its kind of ironic, I stopped eatign meat because of my pets but now I have to give them meat. I understand that as humans we have a choice, but these animals dont have a choice only inctinct, but if I am the care taker shouldn't I make the choice for them by making them not eat meat? will my cat and dogs die without meat? What s…
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back then was waaaay different. ppl didn’t attend higher education or have much to do after the age of like… 13, lol. you’d have 13 year olds boys and girls that know how to do kethi, cook entire meals, etc nowadays even 22 year olds are extremely immature and can be sheltered. the average person doesn’t know how to do anything except their 9-5 which they are probably half arsing as well. -
Yeah Dhadi and Kaweshria are known for joking around now and then. -
Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
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