Marriage

[Guest Teflon Don]

is it harder for guys who keep beard and turban to find a partner than mone guys.........im worried :sady:

alot of guys ive seen who keep beard and turban give it up to find a partner................which makes me more worried

i have to admit i am young and never been with a woman and this situation is kind of making me scared that i wont a wife and i now get thoughts of maybe getting cutting my hair the usual thought i supposeetc.

do women who keep hair have these same worries as guys like me?

[Heera Singh]

dun be so worried bout this...

the person who marries you, will marry you for ur inner self, nah ur outer look...

from wha i have seen.. singhs have NO problem gettin married...

jus be proud and confident with who u are, n everytin will fall into place..

[Tarrandeep Kaur]

I cant belive the number of posts there are regarding this issue

[Medallion Stallion]

I think there is a negative stereotype going around that ALL sikh women want clean shaven guys but i dont think that is the truth as sikhism would disappeared....................i mean without sikh women sikhism is nothing..................just my opinion.

[Guest Papi]

I cant belive the number of posts there are regarding this issue

close this thing :devil: he can search the forum for previous threads where posters had EXACTLY the same question.

wont find a wife, this, that, what if you die today? there, gave you something scarier to worry about.

shows how much faith we have in our guru

[B4ND4]

close this thing :devil: he can search the forum for previous threads where posters had EXACTLY the same question.

wont find a wife, this, that, what if you die today? there, gave you something scarier to worry about.

shows how much faith we have in our guru

We shouldn't be getting upset with the same posts. This actually is a major issue for today's youth. Keep helping everyone. Not everyone is at the same level.

To original poster,

You'll get married when Guru Ji wants bro. Stop worrying about these things and yeah cutting your hair won't really help you.

[Guest Papi]

i'm really sorry, before posting that reply i had just finished watching that video on happening in punjab relating to dera sacha sauda. n i was angry and i guess it came out on him :ysad: i sincerely apologize.

perhaps someone can post links to other similar threads :devil:

[Punjabi_Link]

is it harder for guys who keep beard and turban to find a partner than mone guys.........im worried :sady:

alot of guys ive seen who keep beard and turban give it up to find a partner................which makes me more worried

i have to admit i am young and never been with a woman and this situation is kind of making me scared that i wont a wife and i now get thoughts of maybe getting cutting my hair the usual thought i supposeetc.

do women who keep hair have these same worries as guys like me?

I understand what you're saying, but there are girls out there that prefer to date amritdhari men only. I know one girl who is planning to marry an amritdhari. So I don't think this isn't big problem what some people are making it out to be.

[Akritghan]

is it harder for guys who keep beard and turban to find a partner than mone guys.........im worried :sady:

alot of guys ive seen who keep beard and turban give it up to find a partner................which makes me more worried

i have to admit i am young and never been with a woman and this situation is kind of making me scared that i wont a wife and i now get thoughts of maybe getting cutting my hair the usual thought i supposeetc.

do women who keep hair have these same worries as guys like me?

I understand what you're saying, but there are girls out there that prefer to date amritdhari men only. I know one girl who is planning to marry an amritdhari. So I don't think this isn't big problem what some people are making it out to be.

we aint supposed to date lol

jus leave it in maharaj's hands.he gives us everything

isrIrwgu mhlw 1 Gru 4 ]

sireeraag mehalaa 1 ghar 4 ||

Siree Raag, First Mehla, Fourth House:

kIqw khw kry min mwnu ]

keethaa kehaa karae man maan ||

Why should the created beings feel pride in their minds?

dyvxhwry kY hiQ dwnu ]

dhaevanehaarae kai hathh dhaan ||

The Gift is in the Hands of the Great Giver.

BwvY dyie n dyeI soie ]

bhaavai dhaee n dhaeee soe ||

As it pleases Him, He may give, or not give.

kIqy kY kihAY ikAw hoie ]1]

keethae kai kehiai kiaa hoe ||1||

What can be done by the order of the created beings? ||1||

Awpy scu BwvY iqsu scu ]

aapae sach bhaavai this sach ||

He Himself is True; Truth is pleasing to His Will.

AMDw kcw kcu inkcu ]1] rhwau ]

a(n)dhhaa kachaa kach nikach ||1|| rehaao ||

The spiritually blind are unripe and imperfect, inferior and worthless. ||1||Pause||

jw ky ruK ibrK Awrwau ]

jaa kae rukh birakh aaraao ||

The One who owns the trees of the forest and the plants of the garden

jyhI Dwqu qyhw iqn nwau ]

jaehee dhhaath thaehaa thin naao ||

according to their nature, He gives them all their names.

Pulu Bwau Plu iliKAw pwie ]

ful bhaao fal likhiaa paae ||

The Flower and the Fruit of the Lord's Love are obtained by pre-ordained destiny.

Awip bIij Awpy hI Kwie ]2]

aap beej aapae hee khaae ||2||

As we plant, so we harvest and eat. ||2||

kcI kMD kcw ivic rwju ]

kachee ka(n)dhh kachaa vich raaj ||

The wall of the body is temporary, as is the soul-mason within it.

miq AlUxI iPkw swdu ]

math aloonee fikaa saadh ||

The flavor of the intellect is bland and insipid without the Salt.

nwnk Awxy AwvY rwis ]

naanak aanae aavai raas ||

O Nanak, as He wills, He makes things right.

ivxu nwvY nwhI swbwis ]3]32]

vin naavai naahee saabaas ||3||32||

Without the Name, no one is approved. ||3||32||

[Guest Guest]

is it harder for guys who keep beard and turban to find a partner than mone guys.........im worried

alot of guys ive seen who keep beard and turban give it up to find a partner................which makes me more worried

i have to admit i am young and never been with a woman and this situation is kind of making me scared that i wont a wife and i now get thoughts of maybe getting cutting my hair the usual thought i supposeetc.

do women who keep hair have these same worries as guys like me?

awww bhaji stop worrying. i know loads of kuriyah that would only marry turbaned sikhs! alot of these arent even amritdhari girls, they cut their hair n everything but theyd still prefer to marry a guy with a turban. maybe ur just in the wrong area! put it out of your mind, many girls definitely want o marry singhs.