Not Being A Virgin

[Guest Papi]

since we are talking about this, i think we should all look at what guru sahib says about issues like these

<> siqgur pRswid ]

ik oa(n)kaar sathigur prasaadh ||

One Universal Creator God. By The Grace Of The True Guru:

mwrU mhlw 9 ]

maaroo mehalaa 9 ||

Maaroo, Ninth Mehla:

hir ko nwmu sdw suKdweI ]

har ko naam sadhaa sukhadhaaee ||

The Name of the Lord is forever the Giver of peace.

jw kau ismir Ajwmlu auDirE ginkw hU giq pweI ]1] rhwau ]

jaa ko simar ajaamal oudhhariou ganikaa hoo gath paaee ||1|| rehaao ||

Meditating in remembrance on it, Ajaamal was saved, and Ganika the prostitute was emancipated. ||1||Pause||

pMcwlI kau rwj sBw mih rwm nwm suiD AweI ]

pa(n)chaalee ko raaj sabhaa mehi raam naam sudhh aaee ||

Dropadi the princess of Panchaala remembered the Lord's Name in the royal court [while she was being un dressed].

qw ko dUKu hirE kruxw mY ApnI pYj bFweI ]1]

thaa ko dhookh hariou karunaa mai apanee paij badtaaee ||1||

The Lord, the embodiment of mercy, removed her suffering [protected her honour, by giving more cloth to her saari]; thus His own glory was increased. ||1||

ijh nr jsu ikrpw iniD gwieE qw kau BieE shweI ]

jih nar jas kirapaa nidhh gaaeiou thaa ko bhaeiou sehaaee ||

That man[person], who sings the Praise of the Lord, the treasure of mercy, has the help and support of the Lord.

khu nwnk mY iehI BrosY ghI Awin srnweI ]2]1]

kahu naanak mai eihee bharosai gehee aan saranaaee ||2||1||

Says Nanak, I have come to rely on this. I seek the Sanctuary of the Lord. ||2||1||

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soriT mhlw 9 ]

sorat(h) mehalaa 9 ||

Sorat'h, Ninth Mehla:

mn ry pRB kI srin ibcwro ]

man rae prabh kee saran bichaaro ||

O mind, contemplate the Sanctuary of God.

ijh ismrq gnkw sI auDrI qw ko jsu aur Dwro ]1] rhwau ]

jih simarath ganakaa see oudhharee thaa ko jas our dhhaaro ||1|| rehaao ||

Meditating on Him in remembrance, Ganika the prostitute was saved; enshrine His Praises within your heart. ||1||Pause||

Atl BieE DR¨A jw kY ismrin Aru inrBY pdu pwieAw ]

attal bhaeiou dhhrooa jaa kai simaran ar nirabhai padh paaeiaa ||

Meditating on Him in remembrance, Dhroo became immortal [un-shakeable], and obtained the state of fearlessness.

duK hrqw ieh ibiD ko suAwmI qY kwhy ibsrwieAw ]1]

dhukh harathaa eih bidhh ko suaamee thai kaahae bisaraaeiaa ||1||

The Lord and Master removes suffering in this way - why have you forgotten Him? ||1||

jb hI srin ghI ikrpw iniD gj grwh qy CUtw ]

jab hee saran gehee kirapaa nidhh gaj garaah thae shhoottaa ||

As soon as the elephant [desires of the mind] took to the protective Sanctuary of the Lord, the ocean of mercy, he escaped from the crocodile [maya].

mhmw nwm khw lau brnau rwm khq bMDn iqh qUtw ]2]

mehamaa naam kehaa lo barano raam kehath ba(n)dhhan thih thoottaa ||2||

How much can I describe the Glorious Praises of the Naam? Whoever chants the Lord's Name, his bonds are broken. ||2||

Ajwmlu pwpI jgu jwny inmK mwih insqwrw ]

ajaamal paapee jag jaanae nimakh maahi nisathaaraa ||

Ajaamal, known throughout the world as a sinner, was redeemed in an instant.

nwnk khq cyq icMqwmin qY BI auqrih pwrw ]3]4]

naanak kehath chaeth chi(n)thaaman thai bhee outharehi paaraa ||3||4||

Says Nanak, remember the Chintaamani, the jewel which fulfills all desires, and you too shall be carried across and saved. ||3||4||

if guru sahib can forgive a prostitue then why not here? but how can waheguru forgive a person who is very judgemental of others even while not knowing the whole story, they are the ones who should trembling in fear for when judgement will passed in court of dharamraaj, every single deed that hasn't been forgiven will be laid down infront of the soul. then the sould will cry of embarassment as every single deed has to be accounted for. such is the justice of waheguru.

[Guest Guest]

It means no one will marry me because I am not virgin. Should I die kyoki koi v accept ni karuga saare mainu galt bolange