To the OP (Original Poster),
I would like to say that overcoming kaam is possible, even if difficult. To raise your hopes there are people I know who have overcome this evil.
The weapons that you need are as follows:
1) Consistent True ardaas, throughout the day and all times.
2) Development of intense prema bhagti. For example if ur addicted to video games, you will only think games. You must do the same with preme bhagti.
3) Think of your body as a house, where you want Guru Ji to enter and stay. Would you want Guru ji to enter your body if there was all this kaam inside.
4) Avoid all situations, scenarios where kaam can arise. For example such movies, TVs, going out in summer where u encounter bad scenario.
5) Make your mind busy in Sikhi only all the time.
Hope this helps.