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Gurfateh, My dads started to keep his Kesh about 3-4 months back, but hes having a problem with his dhari. He says he's getting spots or rashes where the dhari's covered his face and its a bit irritating. He cleans it everyday with soap. Does anyone else have this problem or have any solution? Thanks
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Issues With Love 1 2
by Guest _Kaur_- 16 replies
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Wjkk WjkFatehh!!! ummm........im having a problem....i reallylike this boy and i don't know where i stand with him........i mean ..i wanna go out with him but ppl keep say8ing no to me....n i know it's wrong buti can just feel that its right..i f u know what i mean! he's da best thing in ma life at the moment n i'd do anything fo him......he still buys me stuff when i told him, its best if we just stay friends....but he wants more....but nothing physical please i need advice ....help! :sady: Thank you Gurufateh....
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IT conversion courses
by Guest me- 3 replies
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Sangat ji, I would really appreciate some career/study advice. In short I graduated with a 2.2 in law, I had decided what career route to take after graduating (not in law) but I'm not sure if thats for me anymore. I was interested in looking into IT as this is a field I've not really explored but seems interesting. I am aware there are MSc courses out there for graduates who have no prior background in IT, so was thinking about maybe applying for these. I was hoping someone could help answer some of my questions: 1) How difficult/what type of maths is in the courses, eg. computer science? I don't have A-level Maths, but I have a GCSE grade B. 2) How can I pick which…
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It Destroyed My Life 1 2
by Guest _Singh_- 17 replies
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to start of with im 23 and male. and was reasonably happy untill i turned 19. when in one day my whole life turned upside down. some people may think im vain. but discovering that i was losing my hair at such a young age just gave me a killer blow whicch im still suffering from. at that age your suppose to be enjoying yourself. without any worries. i had plans to go off to university. but when i discovered that i was losing my hair. i just became numb with sadness. i didnt leave the house for a long time. it came as a very big shock. because eveyone in my family have full heads of hair. im the only one out of about 100 males that is losing their hair. i just …
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It's Hard To Find Females That Like Sikh Men 1 2 3 4
by Guest _SINgh_- 31 replies
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I wanted to raise a point that it's very hard to find girls / women that like Sikh men with turbans and even harder to find someone who plans on taking Amrit. As Sikh's we focus so much on boys / men that we sometimes forget about the girls / women and we don't instill the values of Sikhi within many. For some reason the pressure is only on Sikh boys / men to live up to the teachings of Sikhism, this is what i see in many Sikh communities and Gurudwara's. This makes it so hard to find a partner, with the falling females birth rate to add to the issue i personally think Sikh boys / men in future will find this issue even harder. We have to address these issues as girls …
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It'S Hard To Identify Whos Are Sikh.
by Guest singhni- 0 replies
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wjkk wjkf sangatji its so hard to Identify hus a real sikh or not. for an example neeldharis? they all wear dastar. if i cme acorss with a neeldhari i will say fehte and probili think hes a sikh. its so confusin.. sacha sauda dera and all kinds of jathay like them...were there jathays like them in gurujis tym.. if yes. wat did guruji do...?... its really hurtfull how ppl use sikhi identity in this way.. all daasji can do is ardaas for this kind of things to stop forevea! Wjkk wjkf
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WJKK WJKF! Satnam Waheguru, My parents keep arguing and my Dad evenn threatened to leave the house. It's getting out of control and I am very afraid. I try Jap Namm and do paath and sometimes Ardas and even now, they are arguing, I am just so sad and angry. I even go Gurdwara everyday. Please help me!
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It’s driving me mad
by Guest Young Singh- 9 replies
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Sangat ji I did some research on 1984. It good because before I didn’t know anything about it now I do. But finding out what happened is driving me mad. I can’t stop thinking about it now, day and night I’m just thinking why did innocent Sikhs have to be tortured so badly and killed. First operation bluestar where innocent sangat were killed. They were lined up and shot at point blank range multiple times. Baba Bidhi Chand Ji’s samparda set off to protect Sri Darbar Sahib, but they were spotted by a army helicopter gunship. It opened fire spraying them in bullets, hundreds of those sangat got killed many more injured. Then operation woodrose, the army went into …
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Itchy Scalp
by Guest uk singh- 6 replies
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my head has become bery itchy over last two days or so. i have checked for head lice and i dont have any. i keep a keski on my head all the time and wash my hair regularly... does anyone have any ideas as to why it is itchy and what i can do?? thanks
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WJKK WJI have a problem i had this problem before to but it controled it but now it is back . masterbation .before i couldnt control it at all but ten i proggressed and controlled it for 5 months and then it came back and from there I did like like every month or two month and now its like every week . its not like i cant control it . i can control it even when im nott in the mood i want to go . <banned word filter activated> ? is my mind evil , that even uncouncisly it picks masterbation over all other things to do ? if i read a book of shaheeds or do naam simran it goes away but lately i hvent been doing alot ofstuff which i did when controlled it for 5 months .…
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Its Eating Me Alive
by Guest Eating- 9 replies
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So i been pesh before for m@turbting n singhs said keep strong but its eating me alive, every girl i see i have lustful thoughts too bad karam im literally dying its so surperessed what should i do just let it out pls some1 tell me b4 i do something stupid. Is it ok to do it n get rid of these thoughts its really eatijg me up. What to do im such a papi pls help
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Ive Become A Loser 1 2
by Guest loser- 15 replies
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i feel like im being punished. theres so much stuff that happened to me in the last five years that sometimes i feel like ending my life. it just seems to be one thing after the other. im 24 and have suffered alot of health problems which have all been down to the depression ive been going through. ie no job, which has led to an inactive lifestyle. which has affected my heath in alot of way. i just dont know how many more knocks i can take in life.
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Vahiguroo Ji Ka Khalsa, Vahiguroo Ji Ki Fatehi! i bin wonderin for a while now, u know how Men and Women wear Bana? well y do the Women wear a Pajama n d Men dont??? i dont want anybody geting rude because im just asking!!!! Bhul Chuk Maaf Vahiguroo Ji Ka Khalsa, Vahiguroo Ji Ki Fatehi! Mod Note: there have been many discussions on this in the past, please run a search on the subject in hand before creating new threads. Topic Closed.
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Ivf
by Guest MummyWannabe- 2 replies
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vjkkvjkf its still early days but I was just wondering if there are any Bhenjis here who have had IVF tereatment or know anyone else who has...what was their experience? Would you trust the Dr's in India? Was it painful? Also does anyone know about adoption procedures if wanting to adopt from abroad when based in UK? (before anyone asks we are hoping and wanting to adopt regarldess of having our "own" kids or not) thanks God bless vjkkvjkf
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Jaap with tongue 1 2
by Guest Kaur- 11 replies
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What is it called when the tongue automatically starts reciting Mool Mantar or gur Mantar. What is this stage? What can be done to progress spiritually
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Yeah Dhadi and Kaweshria are known for joking around now and then. -
Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
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