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It seems there is an evolution to being an Amritdhari:

Sehijdhari > Kesadhari > Rehitdhari > Amritdhari.

Does the Guru care only for his Amritdharis? and cares none for the rest who seek his grace to become like his image? 

Someone thing to think about

"Rehat pyaari mujh ko sikh pyara nahe"

"REhni Rahe soi sikh mera, oh sahib, mein uska chera"

"nisani SIKH ki panj harf asat" .....not nisani khalsa ki......

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You guys are taking this way too seriously. This CGPC is based in Jharkhand, a backward state in India. No one is going to follow their example, definitely not in Punjab and west because majority of Sikhs cut their hair and they will never allow this kind of ban to take place. Monas would probably go to court over this issue if any kind of ban is imposed.

So just put this "ban" in perspective, it's being done by some isolated committee in a state no one cares about. It's not effecting 99.99% of the Sikh world, so just........

Chillax.

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You guys are taking this way too seriously. This CGPC is based in Jharkhand, a backward state in India. No one is going to follow their example, definitely not in Punjab and west because majority of Sikhs cut their hair and they will never allow this kind of ban to take place. Monas would probably go to court over this issue if any kind of ban is imposed.

So just put this "ban" in perspective, it's being done by some isolated committee in a state no one cares about. It's not effecting 99.99% of the Sikh world, so just........

Chillax.

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That is a sad thing to me. To think that the majority of sikhs cut their hair. no.gif and to think that there would need to be a court to decide this no.gif it's truly a dark day... nonono.gifsad.gif

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IN ANY Chance.. If it goes legal.. Sehajdhari do not have legal stand of being justified of getting hair cut in sikhi ! Lets say Speeding is illegal in USA but most of ppls do. Cutting hair is illegal in sikhi but sadly most of the ppls do..

So in legal shehajdhari do not have any support nor they have strong case..

Im legally outta here :e:

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good stuff moneh got what they deserveeee <_<

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no.gif Buddy, you need to learn to grow up. You claim to be an amritdhari and you say things like this against other people. If you think we 'got what we deserve' im sure you'll 'get what you deserve' when you face Guru Ji and you have to repent for that remark and supporting the division of Sikhi instead of helping your brothers/sisters onto the right path. Anyway, i shouldn't be judging you, i'll leave that to GuruJi.

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This is not a ban on going to Gurudwara for hair cut people. It is only for marriage. As for the threat of going to court. Bring it on. See what the court does. Courts never do any justice for Kesadhris anyways. We only look to Akal Takht. Ya another point is that it is only in a state where there aren't many Sikhs. Those threatening to join christianity and others are free to. I don't blame those who were brough up in a family where no one kept their hair. I will only blame them if they don't try to learn and try to correct. Unfortunately, many know that hair are important but don't give a damn. All they care about is fitting into the corrupted society. Guys, the society is corrupted. Morally corrupted. That is why we hear of clubs and dirty movies.

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you know .. i think what everyone is forgetting that it is a privalige to be a Sikh, to understand Sikhi......

remember, u may look down at others cus they are not where u r, but be afraid and always be humble, cus if guru ji wants, he can take everything away from you in less then a sec....

after reading this thread, i've realized how much i have to learn, about Sikhi and myself. I have no right to judge neone..... If guru ji thinks it wrong for monai to get married at the gurudwara then he'l put the ban in place.. otherwise not.....

pul chuk maaf

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