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I am so SICK of reading about marriage and who-does-what on this forum. How is this helping your sikhi, why sit there trying to analyse other people's lives and action, i.e. where they find their spouse from when YOU HAVE YOUR OWN LIFE TO ANALYSE. Dont sit there and say 'i think ----- is the problem' LOOK AT YOURSELF. You people are so shallow always discussing the same old.

EZZzzzzz Singh not everyone is at the same level as you :wub: and i think you just analyzed people tongue.gif

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Simple reason why many guys rather get amrried toa girl in india is this ( this is how one guy put it)

I dont wanna be walknig into a bar or something with my wife and then next guy comes up to me and says I fcuk'd your miss's in high school behind the school shed.

Most boys seem to like sleeping around but when it comes to marriage they want a virgin good girl from india.

Sad but true.

girls in punjab are not that innocent either !!!! :wub:

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lol @ jassa! u joka

problem is that guys will accept girls from India easier than girls can accept guys from india.

Reason? Guys from India (no offence to neone out there by the way) are known to be quite "randy" and girls dont fall for the freshie look where as guys dont really mind the "just come out of Punjab" look.

Girls probably mess around as much as the guys in the UK (in my opinion, they mess round more but thats just my opinion). Its acceptable for guys more than it is for girls (amongst youth more than anything) to marry a "freshie".

Sorry if i offended anyone.

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lol @ jassa! u joka

problem is that guys will accept girls from India easier than girls can accept guys from india.

Reason? Guys from India (no offence to neone out there by the way) are known to be quite "randy" and girls dont fall for the freshie look where as guys dont really mind the "just come out of Punjab" look.

Girls probably mess around as much as the guys in the UK (in my opinion, they mess round more but thats just my opinion). Its acceptable for guys more than it is for girls (amongst youth more than anything) to marry a "freshie".

Sorry if i offended anyone.

i agree.

Plus if yer planning to live with parents - girls from india do more house work generally speaking.

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Simple reason why many guys rather get amrried toa girl in india is this ( this is how one guy put it)

I dont wanna be walknig into a bar or something with my wife and then next guy comes up to me and says I fcuk'd your miss's in high school behind the school shed.

Most boys seem to like sleeping around but when it comes to marriage they want a virgin good girl from india.

Sad but true.

girls in punjab are not that innocent either !!!! :wub:

True..

But the bad apples in Punjab are known to everyone. They are the notorious ones.

The girls in UK, Canada, or States are different. You see them with family and they'll be the ideal daughters looking like smita patel. You see them anywhere outside, they'll be chain smoking and downing bacardi and rum, looking like paris hilton. My observation, but there are still some good ones.

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I dont think EVERY sikh girl messes about and I dont think EVERY sikh guy messes about, there are too many generalisations here!

People go abroad to find someone for many reasons..............would people please think before posting and stops making huge sweeping comments that all sikh women do is sleep around and all sikhs use and abuse women! its bloody annoying! not every sikh guy and girl is like that im mean some do have standards you know.

Bhul Chik Maaf.

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Hmmm.... so easy to blame a girl..grow up people.. this is kalyug and its no different for India.. You'll find bad apples everywhere. This is not a punjabi forum and these types of discussions have no relevance here. People do what waheguru wants em to do, so please stop giving your priceless opinions.

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