Sexual Grooming Methods Revealed

[jkvlondon]

Does he? I'm asking genuinely. Or is he above making us feel better through acts of vengeance on our behalf? I'm waiting for justice too. My situation is different (nothing to do with abuse), but I all I ask from God is insaaf.

it is not about getting vengence , maybe there was some lehna dehna karma thing in my case maybe I had wronged that person in a past life but I am ajaan. Trusting Akal Purakh means you trust His Judgement and His Justice , Gurbani says jeho bija so lunai....you reap whatever you sow .... in the end the face he was keeping in front of society was destroyed and that was by the truth alone. Do Ardas for strength patience and insaaf and then leave it in His hands you WILL get an answer . I thought 'why me?', that this was a misfortune, then I realised it had to be, for me to grow spiritually and I realised it was a blessing ultimately.

[mrggg123]

how can pakis be so evil?

[jkvlondon]

how can pakis be so evil?

because the search for divinity is secondary to the political empire building, the moment they realise they were mistaken they will break ties with the corruption

[Big_Tera]

it is not about getting vengence , maybe there was some lehna dehna karma thing in my case maybe I had wronged that person in a past life but I am ajaan. Trusting Akal Purakh means you trust His Judgement and His Justice , Gurbani says jeho bija so lunai....you reap whatever you sow .... in the end the face he was keeping in front of society was destroyed and that was by the truth alone. Do Ardas for strength patience and insaaf and then leave it in His hands you WILL get an answer . I thought 'why me?', that this was a misfortune, then I realised it had to be, for me to grow spiritually and I realised it was a blessing ultimately.

There is no justification for what happened. A girl can walk around butt naked and a man has no right to do anything to her. Its the person who did this at fault. I myself have have been through.college, uni ect and I have been in situations where I could have took advantage of a girl.. but I would never ever in a million years do anything to a girl. As I have a conscious and a heart to know that is wrong. Unfortunately some men are pure evil and dont have a conscious or heart to know what is right from wrong. even now when girls have shown an interest in me I have never pursued her as the first thought in my head is. This is somebody daughter, sister. Thats one of the reasons that has stopped in from getting in a relationship with a girl, I have to much respect for the girls parents, family to even get in a friendships let alone a relationship with a girl. Thats what up untill now I have not even kissed or had a relationship with a girl out of respect for the girls parents.

[jkvlondon]

There is no justification for what happened. A girl can walk around butt naked and a man has no right to do anything to her. Its the person who did this at fault. I myself have have been through.college, uni ect and I have been in situations where I could have took advantage of a girl.. but I would never ever in a million years do anything to a girl. As I have a conscious and a heart to know that is wrong. Unfortunately some men are pure evil and dont have a conscious or heart to know what is right from wrong. even now when girls have shown an interest in me I have never pursued her as the first thought in my head is. This is somebody daughter, sister. Thats one of the reasons that has stopped in from getting in a relationship with a girl, I have to much respect for the girls parents, family to even get in a friendships let alone a relationship with a girl. Thats what up untill now I have not even kissed or had a relationship with a girl out of respect for the girls parents.

I agree on a level but there is karmic debt in life too ... the guy was hurt where he felt it the most , his carefully cultivated 'good man/sharif' image I destroyed the respect he had in his circle of family/friends, leaving him nowhere to hide from his crimes.

I am not saying all muslim men are bad or all sikh men are good there are both types everywhere ....but I am glad you listen to your Pita ji and respect the bibian around you

[Big_Tera]

I agree on a level but there is karmic debt in life too ... the guy was hurt where he felt it the most , his carefully cultivated 'good man/sharif' image I destroyed the respect he had in his circle of family/friends, leaving him nowhere to hide from his crimes.

I am not saying all muslim men are bad or all sikh men are good there are both types everywhere ....but I am glad you listen to your Pita ji and respect the bibian around you

I think we can say for certain that most Muslim men are statistically worse compared to Sikh men. You just have to look at all the grooming cases ect to see that.

But I agree Karma is one of those things. ie it bites you when you least expect it and Im glad he was named and shamed which is great as some men get away with it after the girl just suffers in silence. how old was you btw when it happened and was he much older?

[jkvlondon]

I think we can say for certain that most Muslim men are statistically worse compared to Sikh men. You just have to look at all the grooming cases ect to see that.

But I agree Karma is one of those things. ie it bites you when you least expect it and Im glad he was named and shamed which is great as some men get away with it after the girl just suffers in silence. how old was you btw when it happened and was he much older?

17 and he was late 20s

[mrggg123]

because the search for divinity is secondary to the political empire building, the moment they realise they were mistaken they will break ties with the corruption

wishful thinking but positive commenting from you. I also apologise for not saying how sad i am to hear about what happened... you were not at fault you were young.. so why did he run away to pakistan? did his family ever disown him for what he done? was he born here? etc sorry to ask these questions would be good so that we can help stop this happen.

[Big_Tera]

17 and he was late 20s

Well even though it must have been an awful time. You came out of it and didn't let it spoil your life. You can be proud of that.

[jkvlondon]

wishful thinking but positive commenting from you. I also apologise for not saying how sad i am to hear about what happened... you were not at fault you were young.. so why did he run away to pakistan? did his family ever disown him for what he done? was he born here? etc sorry to ask these questions would be good so that we can help stop this happen.

as far as I know he was half english half paki but grew up in pakistan ...so he could talk english well .He went back to get married according to the work grapevine...and I guess was hoping to exploit me whilst here working and sending money home.