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On 5/30/2017 at 4:14 PM, Singh1989 said:

QUESTION! Where are the Sikh girls? I see no Kara let alone dastaar n "Kaur" being mentioned in names.

I did give a +1, but nowhere in the true Maryada does it say women have to wear Keski. About the Kara, I have no idea, maybe it's a Sindhi Hindu?

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3 hours ago, Jacfsing2 said:

I did give a +1, but nowhere in the true Maryada does it say women have to wear Keski. About the Kara, I have no idea, maybe it's a Sindhi Hindu?

Or maybe not Sikh/ Punjabi AT ALL!!! These girls.

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1 hour ago, Preeet said:

Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa
Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh, ji

I don't think that girl is Sikh (might just be a troll).. Not all jats are Sikhs btw. Just look at what she said here:

Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh

No, she's no troll. I just perused her Twitter. She seems to be a self-hating, hard-Left, admittedly politically active British Punjabi girl. Probably raised in a family that thinks very little of orthodox Sikhi. A product of her environment. An agnostic at best. A Corbynista, too. Tries to "keep it real" but is painfully middle class. Mum probably has a drink with dad down the pub; that makes her an emancipated, sophisticated woman in her daughter's eyes. Hilarious.

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On 6/2/2017 at 0:53 AM, MisterrSingh said:

No, she's no troll. I just perused her Twitter. She seems to be a self-hating, hard-Left, admittedly politically active British Punjabi girl. Probably raised in a family that thinks very little of orthodox Sikhi. A product of her environment. An agnostic at best. A Corbynista, too. Tries to "keep it real" but is painfully middle class. Mum probably has a drink with dad down the pub; that makes her an emancipated, sophisticated woman in her daughter's eyes. Hilarious.

Lol

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On 6/1/2017 at 7:53 PM, MisterrSingh said:

No, she's no troll. I just perused her Twitter. She seems to be a self-hating, hard-Left, admittedly politically active British Punjabi girl. Probably raised in a family that thinks very little of orthodox Sikhi. A product of her environment. An agnostic at best. A Corbynista, too. Tries to "keep it real" but is painfully middle class. Mum probably has a drink with dad down the pub; that makes her an emancipated, sophisticated woman in her daughter's eyes. Hilarious.

The same could actually happen in some hard-core Gursikh families, where the kids just break down for some odd reason. The only difference is the one from the hard-core Orthodox types will not be open about their downfalls. We as a faith-based people rarely talk about actual faith or even values, and most of our topics include stuff that's external. If someone was interested in finding about Gursikhi, odds are they'd have a better chance finding it by simply Gur-prassad and their own endeavor over the currently Post-Singh-Sahba Movement run Gurdwaras. Basically for a faith, until we realize that we must honor and respect those who value the faith, over someone with a fancy political title, (again fault of Singh Sabha), and someone who has true love for their Guru, we will continue going down-hill.

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30 minutes ago, Jacfsing2 said:

If someone was interested in finding about Gursikhi, odds are they'd have a better chance finding it by simply Gur-prassad and their own endeavor...

From my experience, that's the kind of religion that sticks with a person for life. It comes from within; an inner realisation or awakening without any inducements or threats to adhere. That type of "enlightenment" is true religion in my humble opinion. Unfortunately for the vast majority, such moments require a certain type of personality or a unique set of circumstances to bear fruit, and those instances are few and far between in your average Punjabi lifetime. 

I suppose there's a need to be pragmatic (the numbers game for social and political reasons) as well as the need to never forget one of the chief aims of existence; that Truth is all that matters to the Creator, and it transcends all petty and inconsequential human issues. Marrying these two often disparate ideologies is the true struggle.

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1 hour ago, MisterrSingh said:

From my experience, that's the kind of religion that sticks with a person for life. It comes from within; an inner realisation or awakening without any inducements or threats to adhere. That type of "enlightenment" is true religion in my humble opinion. Unfortunately for the vast majority, such moments require a certain type of personality or a unique set of circumstances to bear fruit, and those instances are few and far between in your average Punjabi lifetime. 

I suppose there's a need to be pragmatic (the numbers game for social and political reasons) as well as the need to never forget one of the chief aims of existence; that Truth is all that matters to the Creator, and it transcends all petty and inconsequential human issues. Marrying these two often disparate ideologies is the true struggle.

I agree with most of this; however, as a group of people I don't think we,(Punjabis), are the best at helping each other out with our problems being sorted out. If someone wanted to find answers, they'd probably be more lost then when they started. Also we have this terrible idealist ideas and when many Sikhs see someone who's Amritdhari, we automatically assume they are perfectly content.

Something the less devout in any religious community ackwolegde which I feel will benefit well is they realize that their children will be imperfect, wheras you have those hardcores of any faith expecting only the best of the best, and the problem people get is that these parents haven't taught the love of Vaheguru, God, or whatever they believe in, but rather they have taught their kids a dangerous idea, and that is: "Follow these rules, or else". If you ask me that's probably going to lead to a  moral decay then someone being liberal hippy do-da, because whereas the libreals just be real with being terrible excuses for a human being, the other one will act religious for "show-and-tell", but probably inolved in much worse stuff. (This is completely different from someone doing their best, and still lacking, those who put the effort and still fail, I can respect, but those who pretend to be perfect and fail have no excuse).

Also many hard-core religious parents just have to realize that their kid is not going to some universal savior, (I'm talking about accepting it at heart not just saying they know that), some religious people I know really expect an unrealistic standard for some other people. (Not just talking about Sikhs, but religious people in general).

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