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1 hour ago, Kira said:

are you actually white? Like I'm curious. Nothing against you if you are, im just curious.

I'm Irish genetically. I was raised to identify with that, and share the struggle of opressed cultures everywhere. 

Historically we weren't "white" and I'm not a wasp, but long story finally short, yeah I suffer from melanin deficiency, lol

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1 hour ago, Akalifauj said:

You can learn the definition of nindo and not mistranslate Gurbani or provide mistranslations.  You didn't even pay an ounce of attention to Gurbani, the Guru.  There is no way you can teach anyone.

Well we've heard the final word from the living legend himself. Case closed. He won't define anything, or substantiate any statements or anything but he sits on high declaring people patit, summarily dismissing and rendering his perfect and final judgement. Nothing left to see here. The chosen one has spoken. 

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24 minutes ago, GurjantGnostic said:

Well we've heard the final word from the living legend himself. Case closed. He won't define anything, or substantiate any statements or anything but he sits on high declaring people patit, summarily dismissing and rendering his perfect and final judgement. Nothing left to see here. The chosen one has spoken. 

Do you think these would work....

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Beadbi of Guru Ji by taking Guru ji to a filthy beach for the anand karaj. They couldn't just do it in a Gurdwara. This trend of doing Anand Karaj on a beach is a disturbing trend.

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49 minutes ago, singhdalbir said:

Beadbi of Guru Ji by taking Guru ji to a filthy beach for the anand karaj. They couldn't just do it in a Gurdwara. This trend of doing Anand Karaj on a beach is a disturbing trend.

I'm sure these beaches are cleaner than Punjab, where thousands of saroops reside. 

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5 minutes ago, KhoonKaBadlaKhoon said:

I'm sure these beaches are cleaner than Punjab, where thousands of saroops reside. 

Lol you just didnt say that. For your information beaches of Mexico aren't that clean. Guru Sahib Saroops are meant to be kept in a Gurudwara not some beach for a fancy  western wedding.

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Just now, singhdalbir said:

Lol you just didnt say that. For your information beaches of Mexico aren't that clean. Guru Sahib Saroops are meant to be kept in a Gurudwara not some beach for a fancy  western wedding.

I'll give you the Mexico point lol. I was imagining a nice undisturbed beach, peaceful and serene, aka not Mexico. 

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The growing trend is to take Guru Sahib to CANCUN for anand karaj. The place where american teenagers go to get drunk and party.

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15 minutes ago, singhdalbir said:

The growing trend is to take Guru Sahib to CANCUN for anand karaj. The place where american teenagers go to get drunk and party.

Would it be different if it was a beach that was not used for partying etc? 

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23 minutes ago, KhoonKaBadlaKhoon said:

Would it be different if it was a beach that was not used for partying etc? 

The Guru Saroop is taken to the streets every year in Nagar Kirtans throughout the world.  The question is about maintaining the sanctity of the Saroop.  If the place is serving alcohol, meat or playing lachar songs (ie Punjabi Wedding) then this unacceptable.  This is what the Hukamnama form the Akal Takht is about and it should extend to Akhand Paths in homes where these activities take place.

 

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3 hours ago, MrDoaba said:

Do you think these would work....

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Bro!  I know this is banter but ‘Disability’ should never be mocked or used in this way.  

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8 minutes ago, TigerForce1 said:

The Guru Saroop is taken to the streets every year in Nagar Kirtans throughout the world.  The question is about maintaining the sanctity of the Saroop.  If the place is serving alcohol, meat or playing lachar songs (ie Punjabi Wedding) then this unacceptable.  This is what the Hukamnama form the Akal Takht is about and it should extend to Akhand Paths in homes where these activities take place.

 

I agree. Its basically the same thing as a typical Punjabi household. I'd hope Jagmeet Singh had the beach section cleaned etc before, alcohol kept away during the time Saroop was present there.

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8 minutes ago, KhoonKaBadlaKhoon said:

I agree. Its basically the same thing as a typical Punjabi household. I'd hope Jagmeet Singh had the beach section cleaned etc before, alcohol kept away during the time Saroop was present there.

I don’t think it’s about maintaining a pure environment just for the Laavan ceremony.  It’s a mockery of the ceremony if the newlywed couple have just committed to have Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji as the center of their married lives and to then go on and Party.  This is not expected from and Amritdhari and I thought being a public figure Jagmeet Singh would have thought carefully about this. 

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