Would you marry someone whose not virgin?

[Redoptics]

19 hours ago, Guest guest said:

 

i used the phrase "common sense" not the word "common".  so what are you applying, that you base your morality on conformity?  

No I am not, you are telling me everyone who has grown up in the west has this view. So its not 'common sense'.

[Redoptics]

19 hours ago, Guest guest said:

btw i personally am not calling you or anyone a 'h0e' or suggesting an superiority towards you

Ok,thank you, I am a dude so calling me that is like water off a ducks back.

[Guest guest]

3 hours ago, Redoptics said:

No I am not, you are telling me everyone who has grown up in the west has this view. So its not 'common sense'.

you are one telling us that it was due to you being westernised that you did that stuff, but i am saying that i grew up westernised and didn't.

at least you admit what you have done, unlike that other guy trying to claim he was 'lead along' at the age of 20.  

i'm glad you are wiser now and I hope God keeps you on a good path.

[puzzled]

Iv kissed and touched that Gujarati woman so I will have to tell that to a potential rishta  it wouldnt be right if i don't say that, I really regret it.   There are some very decent girls out there and I wouldn't want to lie ...

 

[puzzled]

I think we are kinda over reacting lol  iv come across many decent Punjabi guys who have never dated so I'm sure there are some decent Punjabi girls out there who are thinking the same ...

[Guest GuestSingh]

27 minutes ago, puzzled said:

Iv kissed and touched that Gujarati woman so I will have to tell that to a potential rishta  it wouldnt be right if i don't say that, I really regret it.   There are some very decent girls out there and I would want to lie ...

 

thats good

26 minutes ago, puzzled said:

I think we are kinda over reacting lol  iv come across many decent Punjabi guys who have never dated so I'm sure there are some decent Punjabi girls out there who are thinking the same ...

theres good and bad everywhere but never dating doesnt mean having no regrets/making mistakes as uve already learnt...

[puzzled]

2 hours ago, GuestSingh said:

thats good

theres good and bad everywhere but never dating doesnt mean having no regrets/making mistakes as uve already learnt...

Yeah these days kissing is considered nothing big, but i really really regret it and it's a big thing for me and I will have to tell potential rishta about it, she can judge me however she likes then, neither am i gonna defend myself because what I did was wrong. 

Yeah people do things outside of dating too. 

[Redoptics]

39 minutes ago, puzzled said:

Yeah these days kissing is considered nothing big, but i really really regret it and it's a big thing for me and I will have to tell potential rishta about it, she can judge me however she likes then, neither am i gonna defend myself because what I did was wrong. 

Yeah people do things outside of dating too. 

Are you going to bring it up in general chit chat lol 

[MisterrSingh]

On 1/8/2019 at 10:23 AM, puzzled said:

There was this one apnee who was only 14 and it was a well know fact that she was sleeping with this freshy in his 20s, her parents found out and they ended up getting married but they had to wait for her to turn the right legal age.  Disturbing actualy 

Something similar happened to the daughter of a friend of my mum's. Seems like a common thing. It was a shotgun wedding, lol. She wasn't underage, but she fell pregnant, so they did the needful, lol. The baby was born 4 months after the wedding took place, and the girl's mother tried to convince everyone the baby was premature! The guy got what he wanted: the possibility of British citizenship. 

[puzzled]

19 minutes ago, Redoptics said:

Are you going to bring it up in general chit chat lol 

Lol don't know    would have to make it sound casual I guess lol    

How am I even supposed to explain it LOL  will be awkward