'I'm divorced, so Sikh men don't want me'

[puzzled 3,841]

BBC loves bending over and getting screwed 

[Ranjeet01 2,096]

5 hours ago, MisterrSingh said:

Historically, the BBC have been merely tolerant of Sikhs. Not warm or friendly. We definitely have never been afforded the benefit of the doubt as Hindus and, in recent times, the Muslim community have been granted.  It seems we're forever in a precarious position of being on a tightrope of acceptance or rejection. 

In the past, they've been favourable to us as long as we've towed the line of multi-culture/religion, which relegates our faith and our beliefs as a secondary concern, i.e. diluting the very source of our supposed strength and identity. They also seem to favour us when we act the clowns for their entertainment. 

When they turn on the Sikh community, it usually happens when we wish to assert our identity, our rights and our opinions in conjunction with something (as others see it) negative to say about the Indian state; when we express misgivings about Islam and some of its adherents, and now in recent times with the preponderance of gender politics as it relates to minority communities such as ours, they've latched onto the policy of undermining our ways by giving certain females from our community a very public opportunity to grind their respective axes in order to undermine from within.  

The BBC is vehemently anti-Sikh, and I wouldn't be surprised if it's a purposeful and carefully co-ordinated strategy between the Indian state and the intelligence services of this country to gradually chip away at Sikh integrity, or at least its perception amongst the population, to keep us cowed and unable to assert ourselves. One less minority community to worry about, particularly one that hasn't any geopolitical presence and aspirations that need to be placated and encouraged for various other ends and purposes that would benefit this country.

I keep saying it, but we had a golden opportunity in the 70s and 80s to "do something" for Sikhs, but poor leadership combined with the eventual economic and general international emergence of India as an economic force and a country that can't be allowed to fail or disintegrate from within, means the most realistic opportunity available to us was lost.

If you want to subvert a community, you target the female part of that community. 

They are the easier to manipulate and exploit. 

Individually women may be more cunning but in a collective setting they can be naive. 

Individually,  men may be more straightforward and docile but collectively they can be a harder nut to crack. 

Women can be more disloyal to their own community. These women with an axe to grind are branch swinging to what they think is a higher superior community.

It's a form of hypergamy. 

[Truth Eternal 2]

Sadly, I noticed from some of these sikh singles match maker events that the men were very keen (happy to consider divorcees) but the ladies were rejecting guys on their jobs “he’s a bus driver” or “he’s not as educated as I am” were some of the comments passed. 

 

[joker 47]

like the Jewish lobby, preventing any negative reporting, there are many Islamic organisations who protect Islam.I would go further and say arms contracts and Indian secret service manipulation of reporters keeps a regular supply of negative Sikh reports appearing in the media. Eg, daily mail online will always state the Sikh religion of an offender but have never classified anyone as Jewish, protestant or Catholic.And now, Muslims are getting that protection 

[dallysingh101 1,952]

3 hours ago, Truth Eternal said:

Sadly, I noticed from some of these sikh singles match maker events that the men were very keen (happy to consider divorcees) but the ladies were rejecting guys on their jobs “he’s a bus driver” or “he’s not as educated as I am” were some of the comments passed. 

 

 ਪੰਜਾਬਣਾਂ ਦਾ ਨਖਰਾ, ਵੱਖਰਾ ।। ਕਈਆਂ ਨੂੰ ਅਪਣੀ ਬੂਥੀ ਦਿਸ ਦੀ ਨਹੀ..........

[puzzled 3,841]

1 hour ago, dallysingh101 said:

 ਪੰਜਾਬਣਾਂ ਦਾ ਨਖਰਾ, ਵੱਖਰਾ ।। ਕਈਆਂ ਨੂੰ ਅਪਣੀ ਬੂਥੀ ਦਿਸ ਦੀ ਨਹੀ..........

LMAO 

Most the time the time their nakhra and face don't match up lol    and you left confused thinking does she see the same person in the mirror lol 

[dallysingh101 1,952]

3 minutes ago, puzzled said:

LMAO 

Most the time the time their nakhra and face don't match up lol    and you left confused thinking does she see the same person in the mirror lol 

ਨਵਾਂ ਚਕੱਰ। Average looking ਜਨਾਨੀ (at best) ਨੇ ਕੋਈ ਪਾਸਪੋਰਟ ਦਾ ਭੁਖਾ ਸੋਹਣਾ ਪੈਂਡੂ ਫ਼ਸਾ ਲੇ ਆ।

ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ!!! ਓਹਨਾ ਦਾ ਬੂਥਾ ਤੇ ਨਖਰਾ ਦੇਖਣ ਵਾਲਾ!!! lol

 

 

[MisterrSingh 4,760]

6 hours ago, Truth Eternal said:

Sadly, I noticed from some of these sikh singles match maker events that the men were very keen (happy to consider divorcees) but the ladies were rejecting guys on their jobs “he’s a bus driver” or “he’s not as educated as I am” were some of the comments passed. 

 

Were these UK born and raised or Straight Outta Doaba?

[puzzled 3,841]

5 hours ago, dallysingh101 said:

ਨਵਾਂ ਚਕੱਰ। Average looking ਜਨਾਨੀ (at best) ਨੇ ਕੋਈ ਪਾਸਪੋਰਟ ਦਾ ਭੁਖਾ ਸੋਹਣਾ ਪੈਂਡੂ ਫ਼ਸਾ ਲੇ ਆ।

ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ!!! ਓਹਨਾ ਦਾ ਬੂਥਾ ਤੇ ਨਖਰਾ ਦੇਖਣ ਵਾਲਾ!!! lol

 

 

lmao   you actually see sometimes british born below average punjabi women with nakhra up to the ceiling and beyond followed by their bechara punjab born husband who could of done 10 times better than her if the poor lad had a choice lol! 

 

[puzzled 3,841]

the nakra increases by 50 folds when they get permanent stay in the UK.  Its like get a grip love! there are Punjabis in the UK whose families have been in this country for over 50 years! 

punjabis with that punjabi attitudes are volatile 

boasting is one thing that i can't stand, its verbal vomit+diarrhea 

[dallysingh101 1,952]

4 hours ago, puzzled said:

lmao   you actually see sometimes british born below average punjabi women with nakhra up to the ceiling and beyond followed by their bechara punjab born husband who could of done 10 times better than her if the poor lad had a choice lol! 

 

Nah man. That IS their choice. Those pendus be doing the male version of hypergamy.  lol

Taking a hit for the rest of the pendu clan in the pend. lol

God bless you guys. I ain't mad aitcha......

[puzzled 3,841]

21 hours ago, dallysingh101 said:

Nah man. That IS their choice. Those pendus be doing the male version of hypergamy.  lol

Taking a hit for the rest of the pendu clan in the pend. lol

God bless you guys. I ain't mad aitcha......

Not really,  it's either marry a British Punjabi female that looks like a camel or continue living in a country as a immigrant with the chances of getting deported, which really ain't what you want when your whole family in punjab are financially relying on you.  So it really ain't much of a choice.

Family in India also emotionally blackmail their illegal immigrant sons. My thias who is a good looking guy but was a immigrant here in the UK got forced to marry some Canadian Punjabi woman, who has a sh1t attitude!  He really didn't want to simply because she looks like a camel, but his parents started crying on the phone and started saying they gnna have a heart attack if he don't marry her and get permanent stay in foreign country!  He was actually crying on the phone with us everyday because he didn't wanna marry that tranny face but his parents gave him no choice.  Parents in India pimp their own sons out.   There really is very little choice.  

 

H0rny Punjabi cougars from abroad are also taking advantage of poor Punjabi families in punjab as well  now! In my dad's pind there is this guy, he probably is the best looling guy in the whole pind, really well built as well clearly goes gym. But he's from a really really poor family! Long story short But some 50+ Canadian Punjabi cougar only decided to marry him! His family being in poverty and desperation gave her a nod and got their son married to her!  It's crazy!  And this 50+ Canadian milf only decided to get one of the best looking guys in the entire pind.    But then again I look at his and his families situation and think I don't blame them for getting him married to her!  People are really poor there, it's a 3rd world country and people there have no hope     it really isn't a choice if you look at it from that angle.  As for the young guy married to that 50+ milf   if she thinks that he will stick with her once he's in Canada then she's in for a big shock lol 

I myself come from a family that's of a rural background so I know how horrible things are for the rural folk, there's no hope there and people are desperate so I don't blame them for what they do to get out of that place.

[dallysingh101 1,952]

56 minutes ago, puzzled said:

I myself come from a family that's of a rural background so I know how horrible things are for the rural folk, there's no hope there and people are desperate so I don't blame them for what they do to get out of that place.

This is hard to tell because I've worked with lots of guys from that background over here. And they aren't claiming poverty like you are saying. The opposite actually. Now whether they are hiding the truth is another matter. But I know real poverty because I've seen poor people from back home in the older generation growing up . The poverty affects them physically. You can tell that they've not been properly fed etc. growing up. They don't know how to dress because they aren't used to quality clothes. So I think a lot of those people you are talking about aren't really poor - sure they may not have all the mod cons like more affluent families around them, but they aren't truly poor. Okay, so they don't have the cars, motorbikes and kotis the others with family connections abroad might have. That doesn't makes them poor. I think a helluva lot of the so called 'chuhray, chamaars' out there are the truly poor, but certain people just seem to want to ring every bit of sympathy they can. 

I think the truly poor ones wouldn't even have managed to get out. Trust me, if you can build up your physique like a bodybuilder, you aren't really poor. 

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On 3/25/2019 at 11:35 PM, Ranjeet01 said:

If you want to subvert a community, you target the female part of that community. 

They are the easier to manipulate and exploit. 

Individually women may be more cunning but in a collective setting they can be naive. 

Individually,  men may be more straightforward and docile but collectively they can be a harder nut to crack. 

Women can be more disloyal to their own community. These women with an axe to grind are branch swinging to what they think is a higher superior community.

It's a form of hypergamy. 

I have always said this . Women are the bringers of future sikh children . Spoiling the ground would ensure the seed within don't grow properly . Thats what our enemies do. Here , Sikh women go with Hindu women, and intermingle in their customs and then bring it into sikh families, only to confuse their family members.

Many of them feel ashamed about being sikh, because "hinduism" is cooler and has "lesser maryada" as one put it . She is married to a sardar whom she has pretty much enslaved despite him earning 4-5 times more than her and her both sons are moneh and one of them was all gaga over "supreme ancient indian culture" (hindu) and for her one son's marriage, she said she would prefer fere over laava because fere is cooler and you can throw flowers . Its so cute no !! 

[Ranjeet01 2,096]

1 hour ago, AjeetSinghPunjabi said:

I have always said this . Women are the bringers of future sikh children . Spoiling the ground would ensure the seed within don't grow properly . Thats what our enemies do. Here , Sikh women go with Hindu women, and intermingle in their customs and then bring it into sikh families, only to confuse their family members.

Many of them feel ashamed about being sikh, because "hinduism" is cooler and has "lesser maryada" as one put it . She is married to a sardar whom she has pretty much enslaved despite him earning 4-5 times more than her and her both sons are moneh and one of them was all gaga over "supreme ancient indian culture" (hindu) and for her one son's marriage, she said she would prefer fere over laava because fere is cooler and you can throw flowers . Its so cute no !! 

This is what happens when women are granted authority.

If not overtly but covertly in a subtle way.

Since you are a metro Urban Sikh this is probably even more pronounced.