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58 minutes ago, Kau89r8 said:

protect her daughter but they cant get away with this in this age

Protect her from what! She's a grown woman who is dating a man of her own choice! whats there to protect lol 😄

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52 minutes ago, Redoptics said:

Same old asian wants a nigger d, I,c, k what new ?

My Punjabi friend his wife's brother has a kid with a black girl, kid was born out of wedlock and he soon broke up with the black girl, he doesn't really spend much time with the kid. My friends wife was telling me how her parents try to talk and have a relationship with the kid but they are proper traditional and speak broken English while the kid is like any other black kid.  Its sad really, when traditional parents end up with kids like that. But my friends wife was saying how her brother was always the odd one out, coconut type. 

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19 minutes ago, puzzled said:

My Punjabi friend his wife's brother has a kid with a black girl, kid was born out of wedlock and he soon broke up with the black girl, he doesn't really spend much time with the kid. My friends wife was telling me how her parents try to talk and have a relationship with the kid but they are proper traditional and speak broken English while the kid is like any other black kid.  Its sad really, when traditional parents end up with kids like that. But my friends wife was saying how her brother was always the odd one out, coconut type. 

Its not sad have a mutt if you are desperate   people just use excuses,  sorry for straight to the point attitude.

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9 hours ago, MisterrSingh said:

Someone where along the way, perhaps around the middle of the previous century onwards, rebellion was normalised as a rite of passage for most youth. It's been fetished and lauded as a positive quality -- something to aspire to by pandering to the belief that originality and intelligence stem from rebelling -- so much so that most youngsters do it unthinkingly as if it's expected of them. Sikhs, being the sheep they are, fall for and embrance these trends with more enthusiasm than other groups. A shallow, base mentality for a shallow and base people.

Yes the post war era is when this took place. Just look at 1950s American culture, Elvis and James Dean.

 

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7 minutes ago, ChardikalaUK said:

Yes the post war era is when this took place. Just look at 1950s American culture, Elvis and James Dean.

 

Bonnie & Clyde, too. Their culture was bombarded with it, and it wasn't by accident.

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I'd say the family ballsed it up when it became acceptable in that household for their daughter to wear a skirt that barely covers her groin. But it's not one huge moment that signals a shift; it's an accumulation of many smaller, incremental moments that lead to that big bang, which in this case is the absolute jaloos that's been carried out in the public gaze. 

The sevadaars of Sikh organisations should perform their due diligence before leaping into action on-camera, and lending their support to these families. Even the mere presence of such an organisation implicitly suggests a certain narrative is at play, which in this case has been proven to be untrue.

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1 hour ago, Redoptics said:

Its not sad have a mutt if you are desperate   people just use excuses,  sorry for straight to the point attitude.

No i mean theres nothing wrong with having a black baby if thats what the individual wants, but i mean traditional parents try their best to install culture and traditional values into their kids and hope they will marry som1 from the same background, but when your kid completely go'es against this it must be terrible for those parents, must feel like their whole world slipping through their fingers. 

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16 minutes ago, puzzled said:

No i mean theres nothing wrong with having a black baby if thats what the individual wants, but i mean traditional parents try their best to install culture and traditional values into their kids and hope they will marry som1 from the same background, but when your kid completely go'es against this it must be terrible for those parents, must feel like their whole world slipping through their 

F.u.c.k a black baby look after your own before others, because how much they want to pretend they are Sikhi they are not, again sorry if I offend, you lot need it, like all the malcom x's , 2pacs give a cuff about u

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2 minutes ago, Redoptics said:

<banned word filter activated> a black baby look after your own before others, because how much they want to pretend they are Sikhi they are not, again sorry if I offend you lot need it

Yeah but if you have a black baby it is still your own baby you can't place it at the side and pretend you don't have it. 

 

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I do not know what the real issue was with Pardeep and her family but from a superficial outsider view, there are few things that seem clear to me (at least it is my perception )

She has 2 other sisters. Just looking at video, it seems that she is the prettier one (she looks like the middle child) with a chubby older sister and plain jane younger sister.

Middle children typically are more rebellious and the fact that she is the prettier one probably means she gets more attention.

Her sisters are probably jealous of her. 

So Pardeep probably has a sense of entitlement. 

At 23, as a girl she is at her most prettiest (sexual market peak) and she likely gets a lot of male attention. 

At this age, girls like the "bad boys" and with all the combined factors mentioned above , it must be her parents worst nightmare. 

Her father living in a family full of woman is probably find it hard to be a strong father as he is likely to be under the thumb and cannot stamp his authority. 

It could be very well the case that the parents would try to cash the chips in and get her married off (though I don't think it works these days).

The fear of her parents is that she will be pumped and dumped and become damaged goods and no respectabe bloke will marry her. 

Like a lot of girls this age, she will realise that when she reaches her late twenties and she is not as pretty as she was in the younger days, those guys she didn't find very interesting will suddenly look very interesting. 

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1 hour ago, puzzled said:

No i mean theres nothing wrong with having a black baby if thats what the individual wants, but i mean traditional parents try their best to install culture and traditional values into their kids and hope they will marry som1 from the same background, but when your kid completely go'es against this it must be terrible for those parents, must feel like their whole world slipping through their fingers. 

How common is that though. Kids not turning out exactly like their parents want. 

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1 hour ago, Redoptics said:

F.u.c.k a black baby look after your own before others, because how much they want to pretend they are Sikhi they are not, again sorry if I offend, you lot need it, like all the malcom x's , 2pacs give a cuff about u

I know Malcolm X came to Smethick to lend support to brown folk (including apnay) when racism was openly hardcore there. So he must have cared a little. 

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