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[Ranjeet01]

This is quite contextual. 

Unless you are a male with lots of sisters or one of those players, I guess you pick up and learn a lot about female nature  living with other females other than your mother. 

Most guys tend to use their mothers as a template of how women should be. However, they make the mistake thinking that their spouses are going to be exactly as their mothers. Your mother is your mother and she gave birth to you and will treat you different than your wife.

The aspect of your mother that has something in common with your wife is the context of how your mother treats your father. 

One of the aspects of females, is that they

speak a different language to males. They process information very differently. A man is more direct to say , " I need to get some milk as we have run out" whereas women tend to pose the question more indirectly, "Umm.. dudh seems to have run out", which is more like a hint to the man that you need to get some more dudh from the shop.

Another aspect that is completely missed by men is the way women communicate with each other. My dad used to say when one bibi says Sat Sri Akal to another bibi, they are not really trying to greet each other but suss each other out. The majority of communication between women is at a low frequency, you have to be quite clued up on the nuances and body language to get a gist of what is going on.

Another thing that women do (quite underhandly) is step by step pull you away from your family. So before you even know it, your wife has control over you and you don't even realise it. That is one reason why mother-in-law have issues with their daughter-in-laws because being older women they know the game being played by the younger women (probably because they played the game decades earlier ). It is important as a man to say "no " to your wife so that they cannot break with a thousand concessions. There is a power struggle between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. 

Another aspect is women are in "generally " led by emotions whereas men are "generally" led by logic. Now I know that there are exceptions. There are things that can be said between men (like insults) and it won't bother them. You cannot do that with women.

You can give a man a complete rollicking and he will say , "Yup, I deserved that!". You cannot do that with a woman.

They say that men can insult each other and still be friends. Women can compliment each other and still hate each other.

[Premi5]

On 1/1/2022 at 4:04 PM, dallysingh101 said:

What's weird is that I get attention off broads now more than I've ever before. Strange.

 

Men 'age' better. 

You're peaking ! lol

[GurjantGnostic]

On 1/9/2022 at 9:38 AM, Premi5 said:

Men 'age' better. 

You're peaking ! lol

In our primes eh boys?

[MisterrSingh]

On 1/9/2022 at 5:38 PM, Premi5 said:

Men 'age' better. 

You're peaking ! lol

That's become a meme over the past year or so; the idea that a guy in his 50s and 60s is still in his prime and eligible for women usually decades younger than him. It's a monumental cope.

[GurjantGnostic]

22 minutes ago, MisterrSingh said:

That's become a meme over the past year or so; the idea that a guy in his 50s and 60s is still in his prime and eligible for women usually decades younger than him. It's a monumental cope.

Bob Marley's dad was 50. The age difference I don't recommend but we're kinda capped at 30 somethings if babies are to be made. Adopting or helping the Paanth is always an option. 

[dallysingh101]

44 minutes ago, MisterrSingh said:

That's become a meme over the past year or so; the idea that a guy in his 50s and 60s is still in his prime and eligible for women usually decades younger than him. It's a monumental cope.

I agree with what you're saying in a general sense but I think older guys who've grown through tough times and have it shape them find it hard not to consider a lot of younger ones (especially millennials) to be effete and seriously weak minded. Also things like the new generation guys identifying as women (????!!!!), is shocking to us. Guys going to beauty parlours. Beards shaped with meticulous homo-precision. All seems very gay to us. Even bibian are noticing it and have mentioned it on threads.

In that context, it's not surprising that certain blokes are always crying about not being able to attract women, and the rise of incels. I wouldn't go there because of dasmesh pita's warnings in CP, and what I've seen with people who've gone that way (and not having any nonce proclivities) - but in that context it sort of doesn't surprise me when younger women (by this I mean 20s) give you the come on. I feel sorry for them too. 

[dallysingh101]

46 minutes ago, MisterrSingh said:

That's become a meme over the past year or so; the idea that a guy in his 50s and 60s is still in his prime and eligible for women usually decades younger than him. It's a monumental cope.

It's got to be said as well. I've routinely met guys in their 40s/50s and sometimes even 60s who are in better shape and physically stronger than a lot of 25 year old who are supposed to be in their prime. These guys can graft! 

[GurjantGnostic]

44 minutes ago, dallysingh101 said:

It's got to be said as well. I've routinely met guys in their 40s/50s and sometimes even 60s who are in better shape and physically stronger than a lot of 25 year old who are supposed to be in their prime. These guys can graft! 

I don't know if it's to test me, or being grounded in Gurmat is secretly sexy, but I'm getting more looks than ever bro. I just tune it all out. 

Har kirpa I'm feeling fit bro. Working circles around everybody. Probably not breeding but that's by choice as is abstaining. Anand Karaj or nothing, not really worried about that worried about Sikhi itself. The age difference seems to bother me not them too. Yeesh. 

[dallysingh101]

Another weak-b1tch thing from the new generation:

Topping yourself over 'online bullying' - how would they have handled real life physical bullying?  Let alone skinhead gangs, or proto-islamist pricks or armed grooming gangs wondering around with impunity?

As people brought it up, I might as well bring it out:

Anxiety.......every young c**t seems to have this like it's a new medical condition. I'd feel anxiety too when I was 8 years old and told to pick up some groceries from the shops, dodging racists, feral dogs, nonces etc. It's not the end of the world. Find something to alleviate it. 

Sometimes it seems like we've got a completely sheltered, closeted 'matrix' generation - who think they know it all and have the resilience of a crushed grape. And how they talk to their elders is lowlife too.....    

 

[dallysingh101]

35 minutes ago, GurjantGnostic said:

I don't know if it's to test me, or being grounded in Gurmat is secretly sexy, but I'm getting more looks than ever bro. I just tune it all out. 

It's no secret, having a solid identity and strong convictions and being grounded in something wholesome and powerful is always sexy to broads, whether you like it or not. It's that internal strength and stability that's projected. Having a moral and ethical code and sticking to it. Shows a strength that women are attracted to. 

I think the anglo media brainwashed a generation into 'metrosexualism' and promoted promiscuity amongst females (as 'liberation') and this has made a lot of blokes lose their masculine essence as a result.