What's holding Sikhs back?

[dallysingh101]

2 minutes ago, proudkaur21 said:

singing nonsense punjabi songs, dancing like clowns and call it punjabi culture. 

That's the thing we have to grasp though, in their own heads (and those cut of a similar cloth) they think they look really cool doing this..... 

[Kau89r8]

2 minutes ago, proudkaur21 said:

And these people are the so called sikhs of today lol. But we were not always like this. Can you imagine our ancestors acting in such an undisciplined way? Now the image of a sikh is that of a low iq dancing drunkard. What a fall we have had. And people take pride in using vulgar language, singing nonsense punjabi songs, dancing like clowns and call it punjabi culture. 

Its a stigma attached to Punjabis for a long time. I mean my experience most Punjabi families are always inner fighting,  never get along fighting land money jealously pulling each others leg... then kids who grow up in that environment of toxicity end up 'rebelling'..marry outside community or end up doing wrong things . Gurudwares inner fights, street fighting, etc this is why may or heard most grow up wanting to move away from any Punjabi hotspot neighborhood. You want to live with gora area lol discipline and away from the negativity. 

Some traits are just inherited in Punjabis.. 

[proudkaur21]

Just now, dallysingh101 said:

That's the thing we have to grasp though, in their own heads (and those cut of a similar cloth) they think they look really cool doing this..... 

You are right. They deffo think they look cool by acting in such a way. Seen videos of the wedding dances and the way these people behave ...... another point is that they are made viral by similar low iq people from our communities which makes them and even others think that doing this makes them look great and modern. I think if alot of us start shaming these people they most likely will not change but they will get the hint that the way they behave is not liked by a good fraction of people.

[proudkaur21]

Just now, Kau89r8 said:

Its a stigma attached to Punjabis for a long time. I mean my experience most Punjabi families are always inner fighting,  never get along fighting land money jealously pulling each others leg... then kids who grow up in that environment of toxicity end up 'rebelling'..marry outside community or end up doing wrong things . Gurudwares inner fights, street fighting, etc this is why may or heard most grow up wanting to move away from any Punjabi hotspot neighborhood. You want to live with gora area lol discipline and away from the negativity. 

Some traits are just inherited in Punjabis.. 

Apne are always fighting . Like the amount of drama a typical punjabi family has.... Most punjabi families have a very bad environment. The kids grow up seeing how the people behave and they in turn become like them.

[Kau89r8]

On 5/6/2022 at 1:39 PM, dallysingh101 said:

All things said and done, we need to overhaul Panajbi 'culture' and push it into more intelligent directions. 

Lets be realistic... Intellects are Chinese, Japanese etc Eastern Asians and Jews specifically jews ashkenazi (known as the smartest race) ...than you got Blacks not for intellects but sports dominate in sports, indians hindus are smart ofc but not for fighting and  Punjabis are do well in labor and creativity arts lol

[ipledgeblue]

On 5/5/2022 at 9:01 PM, proudkaur21 said:

i'd choose to die.

 

On 5/5/2022 at 10:22 PM, MisterrSingh said:

@Kau89r8 don't you dare diss my jatt brothers!

jatta pagri sambal keh rakhla, no seriously, everyone is looking like sonic the hedgehog, the jatt bros need to start listening to jatta pagri sambal on repeat until they stop looking like jaloos.

2 hours ago, dallysingh101 said:

I think a lot of the images and videos posted in this thread shine direct light onto what we (Panjabis) really are like as a people, burning through any self-conceited delusions we have of ourselves as an especially dharmic people.  

We look like a bunch of mischievous pendus out to have a 'bruin' good time. lol 

We can blame RSS, hindutva, white supremacism, congress all we want, but a large part of that just looks like attempts to not squarely face how our own proclivities play a big part in our current situation. We are quite a childlike people it seems?  

 

 

 

On 5/7/2022 at 10:00 AM, Premi5 said:

 

https://www.mylondon.news/news/west-london-news/huge-stampede-southall-festival-parents-23840485

 

Huge 'stampede' at Southall festival with parents ramming prams through gates

The Famous Punjabi Mela was being held at the park in Norwood Green on Sunday

 

By

Dan Wiggins

• 10:23, 2 MAY 2022

 

Shocking videos show huge crowds stampeding into a music event in Southall as screams can be heard. Norwood Green Gurdwara Sri Guru Singh Sabha has issued a damning condemnation of what it describes as "alcohol fuelled violence and public urination" witnessed on Sunday afternoon (May 1) at Southall Park where the music, arts and cultural fair The Famous Punjabi Mela was being held. Videos circulating online show hundreds of people crowding outside the fenced off event, which charged £10 for entry.

The videos then go on to show men climbing over the fence and women can be heard screaming before those manning the gates were forced to let the crowd pour in. Parents with pushchairs and young children were among those pouring into the event being held in Norwood Green which is a traditional Indian celebration.

In a statement Sri Guru Singh Sabha Gurdwara said: "We are shocked by the scenes in Norwood Green this evening. Alcohol fuelled violence, public urinating, smoking on Gurdwara owned property. The event was not organised by the Gurdwara. It was held on fields owned by Ealing Council."

 

 

 

 

Pajee get a room

kenya babay are here and chattay walee bibi charail charaila

THE bollywood is strong in this one

Singh bros leading the attack 

singho it's just a mela not the farmer protest!! 

[proudkaur21]

Just now, Kau89r8 said:

Lets be realistic... Intellects are Chinese, Japanese etc Eastern Asians and Jews specifically jews ashkenazi (known as the smartest race) ...than you got Blacks not for intellects but sports dominate in sports, indians hindus are smart ofc but not for fighting and  Punjabis are do well in labor and creativity arts lol

Lmaoo so we will just end up as labors always. Honestly we need to start preaching sikhi to people outside of punjab. I have noticed that many of these communities follow sikhi way better than punjabis like the sikhligar sikhs. Also many of those communities are way more disciplined than us. The future of sikhi will be these people. Forget about punjabis.

[Kau89r8]

2 minutes ago, proudkaur21 said:

Apne are always fighting . Like the amount of drama a typical punjabi family has.... Most punjabi families have a very bad environment. The kids grow up seeing how the people behave and they in turn become like them.

I know families for killed their own blood for jameen. Its got worse know over the years with open marriages affairs etc..

I love our culture and history is so rich and full of pain and you want to do something for the kaum..but realistically that era is gone now. You got to keep your distance and never fall for anything face value especially. 

 

 

[proudkaur21]

2 minutes ago, ipledgeblue said:

 

jatta pagri sambal keh rakhla, no seriously, everyone is looking like sonic the hedgehog, the jatt bros need to start listening to jatta pagri sambal on repeat until they stop looking like jaloos.

 

Pajee get a room

kenya babay are here and chattay walee bibi charail charaila

THE bollywood is strong in this one

Singh bros leading the attack 

singho it's just a mela not the farmer protest!! 

Man how disgusting these people are. My goal is now to help with spreading sikhi in India outside of Punjab. Forget about punjabis. There are organizations working in Madhya pradesh with sikhi parchaar like gurmat sewa society. Our future lies with these new converts.

[proudkaur21]

3 minutes ago, Kau89r8 said:

I know families for killed their own blood for jameen. Its got worse know over the years with open marriages affairs etc..

I love our culture and history is so rich and full of pain and you want to do something for the kaum..but realistically that era is gone now. You got to keep your distance and never fall for anything face value especially. 

 

 

Lol I know someone in a distant family most likely killed a girl for marrying outside of sikhi. I dont know how I feel about it though.