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On 4/28/2022 at 12:48 PM, californiasardar1 said:


It is simple: "Sikhs" do not follow a way of life that is consistent with Sikhi



Most Mona/Trimmed beards wearing Turban are like that yet you seem so pressed about them not keeping kes....

Why get so riled up about it..rather have those as @MisterrSingh mentioned about Trimmed beards wearing Turbans without Turbans and do what you want to do your life without the Kes

Now im seeing alot more West born Afghani Sikhs doing all sorts of wrong things yet keeping their kes..


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31 minutes ago, Kau89r8 said:


There are still a significant amount that will still blame RsS aGents and IndiAn GoURVEMNT 

That's like a kneejerk, now routine reaction. That allows certain people from amongst us to live in dream world where we are victims, and none of our own actions or proclivities (as a community) has ever led to us being in any detrimental situation. These types have been around forever. They don't want to critically reflect on our own 'culture' (in its modern incarnation). Some of these people may actually have great difficulty in facing reality, and may have some mental breakdown if they tried. 



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35 minutes ago, Kau89r8 said:

Used to think it was India and bollywood that made Singhs/Sardars a mockery in films/music and Punjabi industry labels owned by them explained all of gandh we saw with Honey Singh ..at least now there are Sikh owned recored labels

Never knew about UK ...I hope more aware of this but when they willing to appear by their own choice then not much you can do



It's not just the UK, and we are probably getting tag-teamed by India and the UK. 


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Do you have info of that Raf guy...are the 'streets' aware about him

Few mentioned that i asked about he wears kara and lures apninya...


He ain't hiding what he is. Apnay in different areas have different attitudes. Knowing certain apneean, his minor celebrity status is enough to get them excited. I doubt they need much 'luring'.

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1 hour ago, dallysingh101 said:



He ain't hiding what he is. Apnay in different areas have different attitudes. Knowing certain apneean, his minor celebrity status is enough to get them excited. I doubt they need much 'luring'.

Well after everything it can't get anymore black and white now. Do what you want to do with your own choices don't do the blame game after. 

Any research on Canada Punjabi artists, Ap dhillion etc..over there you have  Singhs openly doing sharab weed in music videos 

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