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Lies Breaking Up My Relationship With Family Member
by Guest Need_Advice- 7 replies
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What would you do if someone in your family (e.g. brother in law or sister in law) was lying about you to someone in your family (e.g. your sister or your brother) and your sister/brother believed the lie to be true? This is my situation and it has destroyed my relationship with my immediate family member. We do not speak and act like strangers. That person now does not trust me and thinks of me badly. It is making me so sepressed that I am starting to fall into a state of mind where I am starting to blame myself. I have no support from other members of my family, they all get along with the 'liar' fine in order to avoid any further conflict. The liar will never admit t…
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Confirm Code
by Guest Guest- 2 replies
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Why do we have to "confirm code" in GUPT section?
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Waheguru ji.. Just a quick question : when do you truly know when your ready for amrit? most people train towards amrit for like 2/3 years huna and i've been keepin kesh/doing path since Aug.. i want to BADLY take amrit in April.Many plp have said when guru ji bless's you then take it.. but how will i know when im truly ready?? The last i want to do is rush into anything. So is there anything more i should be doing? Anything that i need to defoo know before i take amrit e.g paath of by heart?history?... PLEASE i need some good advice from the sangat.. thanks in advance.x **WAHEGURU**
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Need Help
by Guest ~gupt~- 1 reply
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waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh!!! sangat ji i need your help. my friend's birthdays coming up and i want to buy him a gift! he is really into shasttars, like most of the Singhs/Kaurs are, and i dont know which one to get for him. i am not very much into shastars which means i dont know which one to buy, which ones are good etc. i was wondering if anyone over here could help me in selecting a sword or something for him. on tv i have seen shows on chines swords, and samurai .... but i am not sure where i can get them from....people sell fake ones too online and i dont want to get into that cRap! if anyone have purchased any, or the kind they would love to h…
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Gurbani Reference
by Guest gupt_murakh- 2 replies
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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh Saad Sangat Ji I am in need of your help - is there any Gurbani references to how to overcome doubt please - I need it for a presentation for school thank you in advance Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh
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Out Of Control Brother
by Guest Need advice.- 3 replies
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I need some advice about my brother, he recently got dumped by his girlfriend and has become obessed about getting revenge agaisnt the guy who caused it. The problem is ever since he started going out with her he detached himself from the family, he doesnt eat with us, sit with us, clean, do chores or get a job. He's in his late teens and just sits at home all day or on MSN. We sent him to relatives in another city aswell but there he is the same...if not lazier and they couldnt handle him. Every other week he goes out and gets <Edited> now (he's Keshdhari!); he says hes lost faith in Sikhi because he only asked for one thing and that is his relationship with his …
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Sleeping And Reciting 1 2
by Guest _sleeping_singh_- 18 replies
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Might be a wierd question but it is something that I thought about after it had happened. Sometimes (when I say sometimes, I mean like maybe once every 5-6 months), when I'm asleep I kinda wake up. I'm still asleep, my body is still asleep, I know I'm still asleep. I know of nothing around me. I don't whether it's day or night outside or anything but I'm awake. Wierd to explain - bit like a lucid dream when you know you're dreaming and you can start to control it, except on these occasions, I'm not dreaming. Any way, I'm asleep and awaken gradually whilst still in my sleep. As I wake up whilst still asleep, I find my mind reciting Japji sahib. It's wierd, it's like a ta…
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Jab-we-met: Movie By Brahmins To Belittle Sikh Community
by Guest Guest- 1 reply
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I have seen the recent trailers of this movie. After seeing the trailers , it seems what is trying to depict is a low brain sikh girl( played by karishma kapoor ) have a love with monay hero. At the song dance sequence. Monay hero is dancing in front while sikhs are dancing behind this hero. What this film depict to our youth 1>Only monay can become hero. No sikh can become hero 2>Sikhs are low brain people. They think less and can do any stupid work.( They way the heroine boost of I am sikhni of batinda) SO what will our youth think?? I will not blame them of they will try cut their hairs to try become heros. And sikhs girls wanting them to do so. It is …
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http://www.sikhspectrum.com/022005/syl_msa.htm I was reading the above article. Can Punjab take this case at international level (UNO) basis that Centre have used Unconstitutional mean to allow water from Punjab to diverted.( no flow) to non-riparian state like Haryana & Rajasthan. Have we been independent country. Under International law, no one could have force us to share water with Neighbouir non--riparian countries. Ony Riparian in nature can claim water. ( India –Pakistan example) While Punjab is forced to share its water, Haryana did not alwo yamuna water to share with punjab. Exactly for the reason that Punjab have no longer claim …
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1. What is the difference between ad granth and dasem granth? 2. Why is ad granth in gurdwara's when dasem granth is not? 3. Is ad granth our guru only? If so what is dasem granth..
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I only trim my moustache because I just feel nasty if it isn't trimmed. Like when I eat it just gets in the way. When my moustache is very short I feel so clean and wonderful. I don't care if my dhari is long because it doesn't get in the way. I know trimming is against sikhism, but can anyone offer another solution? Thanks!
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Avoiding Arguements
by Guest Guest- 6 replies
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How can we discuss things without having any arguements or disagreements? (Any Gurbani referencess to this) Thanks
Last reply by Laadli Fauj, -
snga ji i and my famly art geting along with me at all te reasons r my amrtvela is a bit bad and my dad wakes me at3 but i cant do my path i wake up at 5 and do it but dad shouts at me and says that too late . my mum and dad dont let me were a bana or a damala they r 2 culter help i have stoped talking to them and i am 15
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Sarpanch, Some Suggestion In Future Debate
by Guest Guest- 1 reply
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Sarpanch, I did hear yesterday debate program in akash radio( ban the RSS in uk). In discussion debate, the best way is to argue and not get angry. I could see, you were losing calm on some occasions( jp singh raising point of only congress govern state get 1984 riots , Calcutta example he gave was good. You should have said. Communist do not allow right wings getting hold in Bengal) . And second time with this person you mention claiming , his saving by rss neighbour( through his brother & nephew get killed in 1984). At that you did argue well by showing him not to hate anyone, ( Muslims etc). Actually in the start of the program …
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Akalpurakhdifauj 's Question Answers
by Guest Guest- 0 replies
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AkalPurakhDiFauj You ask some questons in sikh politcs thread. Please see if some one can paste them my answers 1) Where will it be? >>In east Punjab 2) What will be it's official language? (Panjabi will isolate ALL non-Panjabi Sikhs) >> Punjabi. But no body stop from using hindi English,maradhi 3) What are your policies? >>Based on guru granth sahib. 4) Can non-Sikhs live there (if not welcome to UN Charter breach land) >>Muslims are living in maerkotla. Nobody touch them in 1947. Yes Punjabi Hindus & local Muslims are welcome. 5) How will non-Sikhs be treated? (I'm thinking Pakistani treatment of resident Hindus and Si…
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back then was waaaay different. ppl didn’t attend higher education or have much to do after the age of like… 13, lol. you’d have 13 year olds boys and girls that know how to do kethi, cook entire meals, etc nowadays even 22 year olds are extremely immature and can be sheltered. the average person doesn’t know how to do anything except their 9-5 which they are probably half arsing as well. -
Yeah Dhadi and Kaweshria are known for joking around now and then.
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Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
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