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What was Guru Ji's rational behind the commandment Sikh daughters should only be given to Sikhs for marriage?


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1 hour ago, S1ngh said:

Let us know if it is a good time to close this thread.:waheguru:

My request is, all off topic post be removed and the person who started the insults should be put under quality control.  It's a topic we need to discuss without the insults and those who can't control themselves.   

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      On ‎18‎/‎08‎/‎2016 at 5:21 PM, Sukhvirk76 said:

@geniethat is quite possibly the most stupid stuff i have ever heard. .honestly I'm wetting myself at the shear idiocy 

 

 

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The end of a very long topic, though it had potential to be something great and actually beneficial a certain user just wants to troll all of us. It's probably for the best to shut-down this topic, until we put people on quality control.

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All non-sikhs punjabi atheists like sukhvirk76 should be banned. These people are not Sikh they promote anti-sikh activities and want to derail and hijack threads off to tangent where they hope for valid and good discussion topic threads are closed down then other  visitors can not learn what the views of real Sikhs are instead you get the liberal punjabi atheist version of Sikhi that is meaningless and a free for all democraphic genocide of real Sikhs.

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On 08/10/2016 at 10:05 AM, JSinghnz said:

You are not  fit for this forum as you have neither the sense nor the manners to be here.

You must be really leading a sad life of an uncultured, uncouth person who the society shuns.

Go back to your sad hole and rot there.

 

 

Okay...You are about the ONLY forum user on this forum that has the kindest words for everyone else on this forum.  Thank you very much for your kindness and your kind words.

 

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1 hour ago, jkvlondon said:

This is what Guru ji wanted his daughters to avoid :

 

Why can't they be like Christians and move on from the social evils of the faith, and focus on the more positive message?

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17 hours ago, Jacfsing2 said:

Why can't they be like Christians and move on from the social evils of the faith, and focus on the more positive message?

 

Because they are told throughout the quran to emulate the prophet and attribute such behaviours to being a proper muslim... sad really no vicharna on the actual nature of what they are being told is right and good.

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