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SURVEY: 90% DIVORCED WOMEN PREFER GURSIKH,15% UNMARRIED PREFER GURSIKH


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14 hours ago, Ranjeet01 said:

Interesting you use the word "settle" and you prove my point exactly. 

For most men, they do not really care whether their potential spouse is a lawyer or works in a supermarket. The biggest factor is that they are young and pretty.

Education for women is status related. Women always want to raise their level.

 

I see both sides are equally shallow. And then you have both sides complaining how cruel their partners are which is their fault because their primary attraction wasn't based on having good qualities and personality. 

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2 minutes ago, muscleman said:

Your post made me laugh.  Majority of Jatts are still farmers, they think they are.  They go for white skinned floosies in diaspora because of Chitta gora rang even if they have no morals.  In fact, our tribe suffers from a serious mental defect  known as inferiority complex.  Gora rang still rules even someone from the gutters.  Most of my male JATT relatives openly admit it and some are also married to gorehs out of inferiority complex.  What's more, none of them, I repeat, none of them have managed to raise their children as Sikhs.  They are all doing their own thing and mostly either atheists or <banned word filter activated> nothing!  Shame on them.

Daas isn't a Jatt,(even genetically), by "our community", Daas was referring to Sikhs and Punjabis in general. From the Diaspora Jatts Daas has met, (the proud ones), they seem to be in variety of careers, unless it's an American thing, (though they first came as farmers in Yuba City),

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11 hours ago, Jacfsing2 said:

If your bringing Karams into it, we'd all be in constant punishment. Only the Satguru was ever without Karma. Daas knows that none of us are completely pure without Guru Sahib. Don't mix Hindu Karam ideology with the idea of Sikh Karam, the 2 are very different. Also there seems to be confusion between Hukam and Karams. When Gurbani says,and "manas ki jat sabhe eke paihcanbo", and then we have some people believing in slavery, we got a problem. (Also what makes your Karams so great, since you want to bring that into it, if we were judged on Karams 100% of us would be permanent in reincarnation, like Hindus believe?)

Plus the fact that Guru Nanak Dev ji  went to Rome with Bhai Mardana ji (evidence in vatican archives) to admonish the roman catholic church for committing THE SIN of enslavement of fellow humans should give you some idea what attitude we need to take .

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13 hours ago, CEO said:

So you are forbidding me to laugh at something wrong? Slavery existed from the time of The Roman empire. And guess what? Slavery & other bad things that happen to people, it is a product of their karm, basically they deserved it.

bro so are you saying perhaps becoming a sexual slave  is non-issue ? then answer me why did our Ancestors put life and limb at risk to save women and girls being dragged off to their fate in Ghazni? what is wrong , is wrong ...oppression is not a laughing matter but a bugle call to your conscience as a human

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7 hours ago, Ranjeet01 said:

Interesting you use the word "settle" and you prove my point exactly. 

For most men, they do not really care whether their potential spouse is a lawyer or works in a supermarket. The biggest factor is that they are young and pretty.

Education for women is status related. Women always want to raise their level.

education for a woman is pure common sense , it follows on from being self-reliant as a Kaur , if the marriage ends suddenly for whatever reason she can still pay the bills , feed her kids ...also  if the 'SIngh' is abusive/violent she can have a choice to remove herself and the kids to safety . 

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1 hour ago, jkvlondon said:

education for a woman is pure common sense , it follows on from being self-reliant as a Kaur , if the marriage ends suddenly for whatever reason she can still pay the bills , feed her kids ...also  if the 'SIngh' is abusive/violent she can have a choice to remove herself and the kids to safety . 

The educated Sikh women can also extract more from abusive high status Sikh male husband in alimony and child support payments.

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20 minutes ago, Ranjeet01 said:

The educated Sikh women can also extract more from abusive high status Sikh male husband in alimony and child support payments.

it can cut the other way if he is earning less than her because she may have to pay him alimony , according to Uk law this is an issue most don't realise ...happened to a friend I know . SO please leave your anti-kaur attitude at the door .

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17 minutes ago, DhadrianwaleZindabad said:

 

Karma in Sanskrit refers to the actions of a human being in this life (as opposed to a previous life as Hinduism falsely claims). 

 

 

Karma are those actions which we have done and can be of this lifetime and the previous lifetimes. Gurmat supports the concept of reincarnation. 

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