Jump to content

Suffering from Phimosis- tight skin


Guest Singh
 Share

Recommended Posts

Guest Op singh
6 hours ago, puzzled said:

I'm not amritdhari 

I had something similar and I just got it surgically removed   I'm circumcised 

It wasnt painful but was tight and wouldn't fully retract which I didnt like. 

 

Can u plz tell more if its okay for u to disclose

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest guest singh
On 12/3/2019 at 10:20 PM, Guest guest said:

go for ayurvedic cure, why even consider sunnat? 

it's like saying my hair feels tight so i will cut it off instead of loosening it. 

word of advice don't trust allopathic doctors, you will only suffer. 

 

On 12/7/2019 at 1:11 PM, Guest guest said:

the creams and stretching allopathic doctors advise are pathetic and won't solve the issue. Steroid creams are harmful. That's why u need to go to desi ayurvedic or siddha doctor for a definitive solution. 

interestin

few wks ago u sed

so if your wife was having severe labour pains or birth complications, you would offer her herbs???  be serious.  i respect alternative medicine and i know modern medicine can be bad/wrong. but you are deliberately denying the benefits.  people in india and third world countries have died from things that could be prevented/treated by a basic hospital.  infant mortality has dropped by modern medicine/science.  meanwhile i have heard of people who have been poisoned by ayurved meds.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest dsingh_123

I had something similar. My skin was damaged and I had something that looks like eczema on top of that. I dint care about it until I got married. After being married I had to take some sort of action as the damaged skin was  getting worse (started getting wounds). Because of all this I chose to have a partial circumcision. 

I never tried homeopathy, so cant say anything about that. Hormone cremes will work while you put them on. Did not work for me on the long run.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

On 12/8/2019 at 5:48 PM, Guest Op singh said:

Can u plz tell more if its okay for u to disclose

Basically foreskin was tight and wouldn't fully pull back/retract    it wasnt painful but when I pulled it back forcefully  it hurt and got stuck lol!    Iv never had sex so I wouldn't know if it made sex painful or not.   But I decided to show the dr and he said that its tight foreskin and can be cut off    so I went with it.    

It felt horrible for around 4 weeks!  I was 21 or 23 at the time. 

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest Op singh

Thanks all friends for all your valuable medical advices. 

For me it feels good when people here can answer your questions with maturity and seriously.

again, thanks to everyone. Yes i will do it in next 7-8 mnths from now, and till then i will try creams etc as well

Link to comment
Share on other sites

  • 2 months later...

hello.. I'm a bit shy for being a woman and talking on this subject (so please, forgive me), but I thought of adding my little experience from the other side, as wife, since my husband has the same condition of tight skin, but which has not been a problem at all (and we've been gifted with two beautiful healthy sons); I'd certainly would never disclose any intimacy from my husband, but the anonimacy of this forum, along with an intend to share an experience which could benefit other couples, compeled me to write this..

When we first became intimate with each other, intercourse was a bit difficult for him, very similar to what OP said, but after a few attempts he found the right way, an easy technique which has worked wonderfully, so he never had to endure doing any stretching (nor any painful, traumatic surgery): it meant he just had to hold the base of his virility, and push the skin forwards from there, right when he was inserting, and once inside is all good... this way any forced pull down was prevented, and he never endures any pain nor discomfort ever since.. I thought it could be worth trying for OP.... 

As a partner, perhaps is because I love my husband and I always want to be supportive of him, while also thinking that all parts of our bodies are beautiful and perfect as they are, then I find his tight skin is part of who he is, just like his long beard or his hair (which I love), and would never want him to change any part of his (at least, not for my sake), I like feeling him "whole" in that way, fully uncut as he was born; that said, I do wonder if the phimosis couldn't be a visible sign of celibacy for men? I always thought it could be correlated with my husband's practice of strict abstinence during his younger days; he told me once how he avoided since his teens falling into the habit of masturbation (he rarely did it, and now he seems even less likely to, since as a married man, he enjoys plenty) and channeled those urges instead into his studies and sports (he excelled on kabbadi and wrestling, growing strong and masculine), and if all that is indeed related, I can't see anything bad on having a tight skin.. maybe it does mean it has grown his manhood the most pure, reserved for a woman only.. at least is how I see his member, making me appreciate it more; and perhaps what is truly needed is that guys learn those techniques which allow the enjoyment for couples on the most natural way, far from the damaging influence of pornography which treats human sexuality as a consumption good, setting unrealistic expectations...

At last, the phimosis is not a problem for cleansing either, my husband takes good care of his hygiene, and is easy to flush slightly warm water through the skin opening (a rubber bulb is quite practical for that, the same type used to wash ear wax), thus it can be rinsed easily without any need to force the skin down; from a girl friend who is a dermatologist I learnt how soaps are made with such strong chemicals which damage the delicate tissue on genitals, which is not regular skin but mucous tissue, like the eyelids (actually soaps cause bad smell and irritations there), both on men and females, and thus is best to stick to plain water only.. if OP suffered from inflamation, maybe is due to applying soaps and forcing the skin too much? .. aloe vera has been known for naturally helping to restore the balance on skin areas, that could help as well..

I wish OP and all you guys all the best, and I just hope my little insight can be helpful for someone else.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

On 12/8/2019 at 12:23 AM, jkvlondon said:

one of my sons had this problem as a child and it was resolved with homeopathy and didn't need the surgery , try to locate a practioner near you it may save you the discomfort and possible post operational numbness .

How can homeopathy help in this situation? What is the treatment used?

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Join the conversation

You are posting as a guest. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.
Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible.

Guest
Reply to this topic...

×   Pasted as rich text.   Paste as plain text instead

  Only 75 emoji are allowed.

×   Your link has been automatically embedded.   Display as a link instead

×   Your previous content has been restored.   Clear editor

×   You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL.

Loading...
 Share


  • advertisement_alt
  • advertisement_alt
  • advertisement_alt


×
×
  • Create New...

Important Information

Terms of Use