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Sheesha & Sikhi - An increasing problem in our society

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On 9/21/2020 at 7:26 PM, Redoptics said:

Problem is people try getting of cigs and do e cigs, but either way you get people looking down at them as you lot are doing.

I didn't see it that way. Good point. 

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My cousin gave up smoking all by himself without any professional help. He started smoking when he was 14 and stopped when he was around 40. He said if you really want to give it up then you can but you need to convince yourself and really try. 

If part of you wants to stop but then a part of you still wants to smoke then it ain't gnna work! 

I think a lot of people already feel defeated even before they try to stop, it's a mental thing aswell. 

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