Working wife , a good idea for me or hazardous one ?

[Guest jigsaw_puzzled-singh]

Not being funny but how do you live with yourself knowing that you are deceiving another human being in this way and....in your head....how long do you think you are going to be able to keep up this charade before she realises her husband is gay ?

and, third question.....Do you have a sister and how would you feel if it happened to her?

[Ranjeet01]

1 hour ago, AjeetSingh2019 said:

Lol. She gave the family a tough time too. Latest drama was 2 weeks back. 

Anyways I am still divided on what she should do. And whether she will succeed. 

Some people have the need for drama.

They need the emotional highs and lows.

Remember, as a breadwinner, your money is the family's money and her money is her money.

[Guest]

7 minutes ago, Ranjeet01 said:

Some people have the need for drama.

They need the emotional highs and lows.

Remember, as a breadwinner, your money is the family's money and her money is her money.

who do you think is the one doing the drama ,me or her ?

My money is family's money, and her money is the family's money too. When both in the couple are earning, the benefit is one spouse's income can run the family, and the other's can be used for savings or investments 

[Ranjeet01]

26 minutes ago, AjeetSingh2019 said:

who do you think is the one doing the drama ,me or her ?

My money is family's money, and her money is the family's money too. When both in the couple are earning, the benefit is one spouse's income can run the family, and the other's can be used for savings or investments 

She may think differently when she starts earning.

For all we know, she maybe think of sending money back to support her parents.

Drama-wise, I have no idea. But if there is drama by going what you are saying it seems to be from your wife but that is only from your point of view. 

 

 

[jkvlondon]

if you are worried about where she will work , why not offer her services as a freelance bridal make-up person , she will be hired for a specific task , short time period , can fit around family life since early hours , then she will be known in good families get name for own work  and will be working in safer family situations which you both can vet before accepting .

[MisterrSingh]

22 minutes ago, jkvlondon said:

if you are worried about where she will work , why not offer her services as a freelance bridal make-up person , she will be hired for a specific task , short time period , can fit around family life since early hours , then she will be known in good families get name for own work  and will be working in safer family situations which you both can vet before accepting .

Best advice so far. 

[jkvlondon]

1 minute ago, MisterrSingh said:

Best advice so far. 

plus she can charge more directly per hour per client than a beautician working in someone else's place. mint it in wedding seasons then relax rest of time .

[MisterrSingh]

Just now, jkvlondon said:

plus she can charge more directly per hour per client than a beautician working in someone else's place. mint it in wedding seasons then relax rest of time .

She best start honing her makeup skills. We can't be having brides looking like kusreh if she's to make a successful go of this endeavour.

[jkvlondon]

6 minutes ago, MisterrSingh said:

She best start honing her makeup skills. We can't be having brides looking like kusreh if she's to make a successful go of this endeavour.

she can learn via YT for free , even fashion dress basis for weddings so she can dress wedding hair of bride and guests. Probably best as most parlour use mortar and trowel to apply  make-up. watching tutorials from Bobbi Brown , MAC etc give an idea of modern , complementary styles.

[Ranjeet01]

46 minutes ago, MisterrSingh said:

She best start honing her makeup skills. We can't be having brides looking like kusreh if she's to make a successful go of this endeavour.

She married one to try these skills on didn't she?