Totally agree.
But if the OP is from Toronto I understand where she's coming from. We are first generation Sikhs/Punjabis and there's a "boys over girls" mentality here.
Hopefully she got the answer she was looking for.
Nihangs translate Bhaang in that Tukh to mean Chicken and not Marijuana. Even Bhai Randhir Singh ji who was a strict vegetarian translated Bhaang in that verse to mean Chicken.