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On 01/10/2015 at 0:33 AM, Jacfsing2 said:

Is East Asia really that feminist?

You mean feminine, it is common knowledge that they usually have feminine features. In sth Korea, they even came up with the term 'flower boy' because of how feminine some guys are. 

South Korea and Japan are male dominated countries. Their cultures are different. It's not unusual for men to behave or dress "girlish". Particularly sth Korea, they have different standards of beauty and are very beauty centric. It is normal for men to also wear (some) make up like women. We have conditioned and ignorant views that we have sadly developed from living in western countries. I always hear western people insulting japanese and south korean personalities and looks. The problem is them because they have a superiority complex and are extremely ignorant.

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You mean feminine, it is common knowledge that they usually have feminine features. In sth Korea, they even came up with the term 'flower boy' because of how feminine some guys are. But you decide for yourself.

Here is a well-known sth Korean actor:

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And a well-known Japanese actor:

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South Korea and Japan are male dominated countries. Their cultures are different. It's not unusual for men to behave or dress "girlish". Particularly sth Korea, they have different standards of beauty and are very beauty centric. It is normal for men to also wear (some) make up like women. We have conditioned and ignorant views that we have sadly developed from living in western countries. I always hear western people insulting japanese and south korean personalities and looks. The problem is them because they have a superiority complex and are extremely ignorant.

I still assume japanese people are feminist, otherwise stuff like this wouldn't be possible: I've heard that 30% of Japan needs "Sex-bots" instead of getting married.
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I still assume japanese people are feminist, otherwise stuff like this wouldn't be possible: I've heard that 30% of Japan needs "Sex-bots" instead of getting married.

Not sure what this has to do with feminism. Japan has a lot of weirdness and an obsession with sex. You really need to do your research. Japan is male dominated, very far behind in feminism. It is actually male patriarchy that had caused many problems in Japan e.g. the poor economy as they enforce women to be housewives which made a massive decline of Japanese workers, and many Japanese couples avoid having children as they feel they do not earn enough. If you ask a Japanese person, they will tell you that sexism is deeply rooted in their culture but this is changing very slowly.

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South Korea and Japan are male dominated countries. Their cultures are different. It's not unusual for men to behave or dress "girlish". Particularly sth Korea, they have different standards of beauty and are very beauty centric. It is normal for men to also wear (some) make up like women. We have conditioned and ignorant views that we have sadly developed from living in western countries. I always hear western people insulting japanese and south korean personalities and looks. The problem is them because they have a superiority complex and are extremely ignorant.

Yeah, I hear you but don't knock people with a more traditional view either. Personally I think one of the reasons we have a lot of problems like grooming etc. is because many Sikh males have become emasculated since the colonial period. So they face more 'thugged out' traditional males and don't know how to deal with it.

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I don't understand why so many Muslims take an interest in going on Sikh forums. Not once have I ever bothered going on a Muslim forum, I just wouldn't like presence on there. Maybe deep down Muslims love Sikhs so much that's why they are always seeking to be in their company lol

I have not read much of this thread due to the time.

I'm interested in broadening my knowledge of all religions and am on forums to do so, I also have some very good Sikh friends who have made an effort to know what's important to me and understand my way of life. I feel it important to return the favour.

Would I be wrong in saying it's impossible to place trust in a Muslim when their holy scriptures advocate lying and paying lip-service when around non-Muslims to win their trust, with one eye on a future scenario where that trust will be betrayed in a scenario that will be used to further the Islamic cause?

Is that at all accurate or a myth?

Not just a myth.

An utter fabrication.

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Stupid debate.

What is the point of this point scoring and mud slinging? Apart from to add more falseness to our perceptions.

Great picture of bigotry, elitism and judgmentalism shown by folks that say they are followers of the perfect gurus.

"Changeh nehi hum, burra nehi koi"

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Stupid debate. What is the point of this point scoring and mud slinging? Apart from to add more falseness to our perceptions.

Great picture of bigotry, elitism and judgmentalism shown by folks that say they are followers of the perfect gurus.

"Changeh nehi hum, burra nehi koi"

It's "Hum Nahi Changeh Burra nahi koi"
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Stupid debate. What is the point of this point scoring and mud slinging? Apart from to add more falseness to our perceptions.

Great picture of bigotry, elitism and judgmentalism shown by folks that say they are followers of the perfect gurus.

"Changeh nehi hum, burra nehi koi"

Well, I tell you what, given what's been going on with grooming, conversions and terrorism around us - I think a dollop of self-preservation and caution is more than healthy.

Following our Guru's doesn't mean we walk into a snake pit all naive and misty eyed like gullible children. There's enough crap going on we have to be careful of. So forgive some of us for not walking around like lulloos.

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