How to deal with death

[Redoptics 485]

1 hour ago, MisterrSingh said:

It can't be gifted by a third party. You'll need to cultivate it yourself.

Thats the problem we are all 3rd parties , but death gives life meaning , every second we should learn 

[Kau89r8 936]

Question..

Will we ever see them after we leave this world?

Why do good people leave so early?

 

[Singh375 615]

I was 9 when my immediate family member passed away. That’s how the spiritual urge started. Might share more another time.. anyway a few points;

- when do happy people remember god? People only remember god in pain

- religion is a game, spirituality is something completely different. If your third eye opens you’re in for a big shock. Many religious folk who are famous/respected wear bana are on complete zero within.

- 1st stage of bhram gyan is called sub icha (genuine desire of enlightenment arises). Pain is the only thing which finally pushes a person hard enough towards searching inwards.

- best thing you can do for a departed soul is akhand path as per marayda then fold your hands in front of sggs ji. Transfer the worry to guru Sahib completely, then carry on with this life. Time heals wounds, scars remain. Your time to leave will come one day too. Next best thing is you reaching sachkhand yourself (your avastha reaching there via simran) people close to you automatically get liberated 

- ever wanted to see your previous life? Losing someone effects you so badly, but we all lost people in previous lives too. If you start remembering losing loved ones from previous lives you wouldn’t be able to endure the pain it would drive you mad. (Don’t set desire on seeing previous lives), those who see it through simran only see glimpses anyway. 

[Kau89r8 936]

Feels tough to have faith at times like this. You know how they saying goes when in rains it pours. Or when death happens back to back and unexpectedly out of the blue. You feel betrayed angry like why? Feels so numb to life everything. 

 

[MisterrSingh 5,578]

23 hours ago, Kau89r8 said:

Question..

Will we ever see them after we leave this world?

Why do good people leave so early?

 

Why do you want to see them? Do they make an effort to get in touch with you everyday? If not, would that suggest they no longer care?

 

[Kau89r8 936]

1 hour ago, MisterrSingh said:

Why do you want to see them? Do they make an effort to get in touch with you everyday? If not, would that suggest they no longer care?

 

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How can they make effort get in touch with you when they have left his world?

[MisterrSingh 5,578]

55 minutes ago, Kau89r8 said:

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How can they make effort get in touch with you when they have left his world?

So why would you want to keep dragging them back here, then?

[Suchi 294]

4 hours ago, Kau89r8 said:

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How can they make effort get in touch with you when they have left his world?

You will meet them in your next life if you are attached to them. 

[GurjantGnostic 2,067]

If we are graced with Mukte through Gursikhi, our family and all our generations are liberated as well. 

[Suchi 294]

17 hours ago, GurjantGnostic said:

If we are graced with Mukte through Gursikhi, our family and all our generations are liberated as well. 

Interesting. What happens to their karmas? Let's say there's a murderer and the family of the victim is pursuing justice. What happens?

[GurjantGnostic 2,067]

2 hours ago, Suchi said:

Interesting. What happens to their karmas? Let's say there's a murderer and the family of the victim is pursuing justice. What happens?

Ultimately everyone's Karam is set aside. One way or another. There is no working it out or perfecting it. One day according to your own path perhaps alleviated by the works of a descendant, the book is closed. And you can guarantee there are demerits in the accumulated works of everyone. 

What exact type of Mukte family and generations get, and who that entails is beyond me.