Sikhs Marrying late - What is the issue

[Ranjeet01]

On 4/20/2020 at 11:07 AM, MisterrSingh said:

I don't get why the soft, middle-class office boys from the Sikh community end up delaying their marriages into their late 30s. They have the disposable income and the choice of partners from which to make a selection, yet they waste their time playing video games or perpetually wanting to extend their youth during the time they should be raising a family.

They also have unreasonably high standards. We're talking 5, 6 or 7 out of 10-level guys punching above their weight hoping for a girl that's a 9 or a 10. It's not happening, mate. Get real. Those Punjabi girls have been having sex and been in relationships since their late teens. Imagine how much action those females have seen when they finally decide to settle down. These Punjabi pondhus think these girls have been sat at home like Rapunzel waiting for their accounting graduate to sweep her off her feet, lol. 

A lot of girls look like a 9 or 10 only do so on Instagram with lots of make up and lighting.

Remove the make up and it is really shocking how they really look like.

[puzzled]

20 minutes ago, Ranjeet01 said:

A lot of girls look like a 9 or 10 only do so on Instagram with lots of make up and lighting.

Remove the make up and it is really shocking how they really look like.

Lmao so true   they do joke that you have your suhaag raat with one woman and wakeup next to another one the next morning 

[MisterrSingh]

2 hours ago, Ranjeet01 said:

A lot of girls look like a 9 or 10 only do so on Instagram with lots of make up and lighting.

Remove the make up and it is really shocking how they really look like.

We knock Punjabi girls, but there's a few decent, respectable ones out there, but unfortunately their male "looks matches" are off in fantasy land hoping to catch an Instagram Thot instead of someone unassuming and chilled. Chubby fat Punjabi nerds dismissing Punjabi girls (who aren't fat) as being "too simple" because these girls aren't caked in makeup, and don't resemble a Kardashian. Do they actually want whores as wives or what, lol? Absolute state of these guys is hilarious.

 

[jkvlondon]

1 hour ago, MisterrSingh said:

We knock Punjabi girls, but there's a few decent, respectable ones out there, but unfortunately their male "looks matches" are off in fantasy land hoping to catch an Instagram Thot instead of someone unassuming and chilled. Chubby fat Punjabi nerds dismissing Punjabi girls (who aren't fat) as being "too simple" because these girls aren't caked in makeup, and don't resemble a Kardashian. Do they actually want whores as wives or what, lol? Absolute state of these guys is hilarious.

 

probably but then complain when she has a roving eye , idiots

[californiasardar1]

You guys have brought up some valid points, but are ignoring the elephant in the room:

 

Singhs have an extremely difficult time getting married

In fact, it is so difficult, that many just give up

[GurjantGnostic]

9 hours ago, californiasardar1 said:

You guys have brought up some valid points, but are ignoring the elephant in the room:

 

Singhs have an extremely difficult time getting married

In fact, it is so difficult, that many just give up

Some dudes work on pick up lines and dating...maybe we need parchar and anand karaj...

And for the record, if there are any..as in any...Sighni who are true to Sikhia out there single....single Singhs are retarded...

I've heard some people on here talking about how chaste their gora, muslim, hindu whoever friends are...and...I got bad news bros...you better get back to Sikhi.. it's all a lie.. men women alike...almost nobody tells the truth and almost everyone cheats...dudes inflate their pasts and women downplay theirs in general..

It's worth going for Gursikh or nothing because anyone who isn't working hard at being a Gursikh will let you down and if they look shiny...boyy.... that's a facade..

[GurjantGnostic]

13 hours ago, MisterrSingh said:

We knock Punjabi girls, but there's a few decent, respectable ones out there, but unfortunately their male "looks matches" are off in fantasy land hoping to catch an Instagram Thot instead of someone unassuming and chilled. Chubby fat Punjabi nerds dismissing Punjabi girls (who aren't fat) as being "too simple" because these girls aren't caked in makeup, and don't resemble a Kardashian. Do they actually want whores as wives or what, lol? Absolute state of these guys is hilarious.

 

I think most these dudes want a blow up doll with no voice feature that doubles as a microwave and recharges a game controller yes...that is loyal and has low standards...

 

[GurjantGnostic]

You want a woman who both believes in reincarnation and does not want to come back. These athiests and single life abrahamics are trying to knock the wheels off and it isn't just with one dude or one lady. We think we're gonna body count our way to heaven and get an atta boy..and we're absolutely backwards. 

[GurjantGnostic]

Oh and if she has no facebook and no insta move fast, because social media is a trap. Never before could a neighbor's lifestyle and their spouse be so easily coveted, never before could dms be slid into, never before was mentally cheating 1000 ways so easy. 

[MisterrSingh]

1 hour ago, GurjantGnostic said:

You want a woman who both believes in reincarnation and does not want to come back. These athiests and single life abrahamics are trying to knock the wheels off and it isn't just with one dude or one lady. We think we're gonna body count our way to heaven and get an atta boy..and we're absolutely backwards. 

I'm beginning to suspect even the most outwardly religious in our community don't actually believe in the whole "ending transmigration" deal. Very little of their deeds and demeanour suggests anything that points in that direction.