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boys and girls talking, i think its wrong, when talking to the opposite sex sometimes wrong things may come into your mind and you might not be just thinking about sikhi and therefore i think its wrong! i hate it when you go to a kirtan and you got boys and girls talking in the langar hall laughing, flirting whatever you want to call this! what kind of behaviour is this ? its silly, there is no need, and msn i also thing is wrong , as its maya. one day the opposite sex may add u and u might think theres no harm in talking, and then your talking all the time, telling eachother all your problems, it happens. Then you might have people talking about you behind your backs sa…
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Shastar Puja 1 2 3 4 8
by DelhiTakht- 71 replies
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Bansavalinama written in 1769 CE by Kesar Singh Chibber also mentions the celebrating of Dusshera. Kesar Singh Ji writes: ਦੁਸਹਰੇ ਦੇ ਦਿਨ ਪੂਜਾ ਸ਼ਸਤ੍ਰਾਂ ਦੀ ਕਰਨ । ਚੰਡੀਪਾਠ ਕੀਤਾ ਰਸਨਾ ਦਾ ਉਚਾਰਨ । On the days of Dusshera, worship your weapons. From your mouths you should recite the ballads of Chandi [Chandi Chritars and Chandi Di Vaar]. ਧੂਪ ਦੀਪ, ਪੁਸ਼ਪ, ਬਹੁਤ ਹੋਵੈ ਸੁਗੰਧਿ । ਕੇਸਰ, ਚੰਦਨ, ਚਉਰ ਝੁਲੰਤ ।੩੯੦। [Worship your weapons by using] lots of Incense, Gee-lamps, flowers and nice fragrances. [use] Saffron, Sandalwood and a Wisk to wave [above your weapons]. - Bansavalinama pg. 161 ਬੰਸਾਵਲੀਨਾਮਾ ਪਨਾ ੧੬੧
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I'm a keshdhari sikh male in my mid twenties. I have a pretty serious psychological problem. My turban and beard severely upset my mental state. I want to keep my hair but I am wandering if it would be better to go clean shaven. I am not always like this but when I have a turban on, I feel like women despise me. They give me dirty looks thinking they are better than me, especially these indian women. Its not just a woman thing though. I feel like people are hating on me because of my turban. It makes me so paranoid. I can easily pick up a fight with someone when I get paranoid about my turban as it brings out a rage I cannot control. I was looking at this man …
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ok ive got this question for the people who are from a chamaar background..( sorry dnt mean to offend anyone by bringing up the caste thing but its the only way for me to get the answer............ i just wanted to know that now that you are into sikhi...do you still believe bhagat ravidass is a guru??? as i am from a chamaar background...however im AGAINST castes..since ive got into sikhi i see things from a different point of view etc........and to be honest i thought through and it made sence that bhagat ravidass cant be a guru as in gurbani its made clear who are the ten gurus...however i dnt get the concept that in the "guru ravidass gurdwara" they have guru granth …
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WJKK WJKF Dear sadh sangat jeo. my husband and i have been married for 4 years and have 3 beautiful children. we are both gursikhs and absorb into gurbani simran sewa as much as we can. i personally dont always get to do my nitnem as our children are so young but i try to repeat as much bani during the day as possible. anyway i wanted to ask. my husband and i have a very active sex life EDITED.. we havent done a kuret have we? we are a very simple down to earth humble family and just dont want to go off the wrong path. we love each other very much and love sikhi very much. we just humbly ask the sadh sangat to direct us. if we have comitted a kuret we will most defin…
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Seeing Sikhs adopt much of the viewpoints of either right wing or liberals. And as incels are growing as well as theories of hypergamy, MGTOW. I was wondering what the views are of fellow Sikhs on these issues. And if you are married, did your view on the opposite gender change?
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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh I found an article on another forum about a Sikh who embraced Islam. So i decided to write a topic about this issue so that the sangat can understand why they converted. Based on my own personal experiences too so that the sangat can get there head around this issue. So why do most of the Sikhs who have embraced other religions, what were there reasons?: MISUNDERSTANDING SIKHI. For starters few either got misguided that the Guru Nanak was a muslim because he performed the hajj and try to say that Sikhism is a sect of Islam. ANSWER: Guru Nanak when he was asked by a muslim what are you hindu or muslim his answer was neithe…
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i don't know what to do, expect for a now i have got myself in a difficult situation. I've been friends with this girl for over 5years now, but have come to the realisation that my feelings for her are stronger. This girl is amazing and has a positive influence on me.She comes from a Gursikh family and has very strong beliefs and i know she would never consider me to be anything apart from her brother. Its just i can't stop thinking about her. Am i falling in love with her? I know these feelings are wrong and i would never tell her as it would ruin our frienship. Its just i find it hard been around her because of these feelings. I've started to avoid her as this is the …
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I'm here because I now feel that either the teachings, teachers, interpretations or the followers of Sikhism themselves are in the wrong or being guided with malacious intent. My use of word malicious is intentional because I have started to feel the maliciouness. My childhood Sikh friends have closed "Only Sikh" chat groups where they share Hindu jokes about coward Hindus, impotent Hindus, Hindu whores etc. I got to know as a misdirected forwards got sent to our common group. I've stopped going to gurudwaras because I hear and feel a common theme of country of Hindus, government of Hindus, cow-urine-drinking-rat-monkey idolising Hindus, coward Hindus and Lion Sikhs etc. …
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What exactly Is Sarbloh Bibek something to do with eating only from amritdharis can any 1 elborate???
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Why Do All Marriages Between Sikh Women And Non-Sikh Men End In Divorce? 1 2 3 4 7
by Guest kalyug times- 2 followers
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I've noticed virtually every sikh woman who foolishly dated and married someone outside their faith have had their marriages end in divorce. Most of these women tend to have married white atheist/Christian men and it always ends very badly very bitter divorces. There was this one punjaban i got to know called [ModCut- NAMES ARE NOT ALLOWED] she married her white boyfriend and divorced 2 years later after she caught him cheating and now shes letting herself being used and abused by guys in clubs and one night stands in online dating sites. Another punjabi girl i knew who was from south england kent she dressed up like a goth and was into the satanic dark heavy metal scene…
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Kaam (lust) is one of the 5 vices. Our aim is to overcome these 5 vices to emerge with Waheguru (God) after death. However to get married and have kids we need Kaam, so i am confused on this part. Yes we can Jap Naam (meditate) as a family man as well, but without Kaam how can we have kids. Post you're views.
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I dont want to hurt my Family. I was married to an man, but i dont love him. I am in love with someone else. But I dont want to hurt my family by telling them that I want to divorce. Thats why I thought i want to go to Darbar Sahib and stay there for a while. I will tell my Family that i am going to another country for a job. Is this correct? Is it ppossible to stay at Darbar Sahibb?
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Satsriakal everyone I am a sikh boy,20 years old and I am a proud gursikh who has lately had an urge to trim my beard. I have been doing a lot of research on this but have not come across a reasonable argument. Why is it that me making a personal life decision of trimming my beard might move me away from my sikhi in the eyes of others. The reason why I would want to trim my beard is because I would feel more comfortable and neat. I proudly wear a turban and will always carry on wearing it with pride and honour. Some of the reasons which I came across were that our Gurus kept their honour and many sikh men have given their lives to protect this honour. I completely agree…
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I am going to marry a girl having got to know her via the telephone,text, msn etc she told me she had a boyfriend in the past who obviously shes not with anymore, she had sex with him.she said she wanted to tell me months into our engagement about her past becuase she wanted to be honest with me. I dont think i will ever be able to forget this and i cant stop thinking about this, for the record i am a virgin and wish to remain so until my wedding night BUT i havent ended the engagememt yet im in shock at the moment because of this revelation. I feel really guilty if i were to end the engagement becuase families would be very hurt esp. hers if they found out the truth abo…
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Yeah Dhadi and Kaweshria are known for joking around now and then. -
Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
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