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Why are Sikh women always blamed for letting down Sikhi when Sikh men have also done it? Sardar Ishar Singh Nakai of Nakai Misl which was one of the twelve Sikh Misls converted to Islam to marry a Muslim lady. He took the name Abdul Aziz Nakai and his descendents are influential people in Pakistani politics.

M.Ranjit Singh married a Muslim nautch girl moran who opened Arabic and Persian schools after marriage and a mosque. She outraged Muslims when she spent one of her first nights with Ranjit Singh on top of the minaret of Wazir Khan Mosque.

Boota Singh, a ex Sikh soldier of the British army is well known for his love story with a Muslim woman Zainab. He illegally entered Pakistan to recover her after Muslim women were sent to Pakistan and Sikh, Hindu women were sent to India after partition. In his suicide note, he expressed his last wish to be buried in Barki village where Zainab's parents resettled.

Bollywood actress and first wife of Saif Ali Khan, Amrita Singh is also a product of Sikh-Muslim marriage. Her father Shavinder Singh married Rukhsana Sultana, political associate of Sanjay Gandhi.  

Some Sikh men like to blame only Sikh women, even on this forum when Sikh men are going against Sikhi too. Sikh men marry and form relationships with Hindu, Muslim, Oriental, white and black women too, this is not limited to only Sikh women.

Both genders are to be equally responsible for going against Sikhi. 

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https://www.thesun.co.uk/tvandshowbiz/14772076/bbc-news-radio-tina-daheley-gives-birth-baby-girl/

Radio 2 and BBC News presenter Tina Daheley gives birth to first child as she and fiance welcome ‘beautiful baby girl’

 
  • 19:07, 26 Apr 2021
  • Updated: 19:07, 26 Apr 2021

RADIO 2 and BBC News presenter Tina Daheley has given birth to her first child as she and fiance Kane William-Smith welcomed a "beautiful baby girl".

The 40-year-old star proudly announced their bundle of joy's arrival on social media today, having shared her exciting pregnancy news in December.

Tina posted this photo of her bump earlier this month
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Tina posted this photo of her bump earlier this month
 

The new mum shared a photo of her little girl's feet while she was wrapped up in a cosy white blanket, with Tina simply captioning the post: "Head over heels in love with our beautiful baby girl ❤️".

Tina did not reveal exactly when her daughter was born, or her name.

Earlier this month, the star showed off her bump in a mirror selfie as she reflected on her and her partner's decision to move house so close to her due date.

She wrote at the time: "All settled into our temporary newborn retreat in month 9 of pregnancy!

She announced her daughter's arrival with this sweet snap today
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She announced her daughter's arrival with this sweet snap today
Tina with fiance Kane
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Tina with fiance KaneCredit: Rex

"Can’t quite believe we’ve started a delayed refurb project and moved home just days before our little one is born, but thanks to the amazing support of friends and family (and an extremely lux roof over our heads) we’ve somehow managed it. Now we wait…"

The newsreader said she was "beyond thrilled" to become a mum as she announced her pregnancy on Instagram late last year.

She wrote: "Some exciting news to share! Beyond thrilled to be welcoming a new addition to our family in Spring 2021.

"Thank you @bbcradio2 family for all your lovely messages this morning."

 
The new mum is a BBC favourite
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The new mum is a BBC favourite
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i agree with you it is hypocrisy

however in marriage, the women subjugates herself to a man.  so with a women it is worse than when a man does it.

should still denounce/call out men for doing it, though.

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It's deeper than just this though isn't it. 

We've yet to have hordes of Sikh guys being tricked into becoming 'rent-boys', or converting (for a women) and then openly spouting vitriol against Sikhi (obviously because their new 'partner' and their community encourages them to do so), but we can't say the same the other way round sadly. 

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