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The type of women who like to hang around groups of guys know that they will get attention that they won't get hanging around other women. There is a pecking order with women based on who is the prettiest and who is the slimmest. Have you ever noticed that prettier and slimmer girls tend to have chubbier friends? It is to make themselves look good. Attention is the coin of the realm in girl world.

Trust your gut instinct.Our subconscious processes information at a much higher rate than our conscious mind and this translates into instinct etc.If you feel by how she treats you that her behavior is going to get worse might as well bail out before things get more complicated.If you feel you have been cheated and you don't like it might as well act on it now instead of coming back from work one fine day and see her engaged in bedroom acrobatics with another person.Not accusing but anything is possible in this age. It could be possible that the truth she has revealed to you is only the tip of the iceberg that shes letting out to make her feel better and to cover her tracks so no one is tempted to look into her past.You think shes been all honest with you and put things to rest while she can now use this confession in every argument you guys have to justify her actions and prove her honesty.Do whatever that makes you happy.Don't be tied up to traditions or choose to suck it up or else you are going to live a living hell with no dignity and might resort to alcohol/drugs to cope.This is your life and only you know what you're going through so be strong,make a decision and implement it. Just remember you are NOT the one at fault here. p/s- how much did your entire wedding cost? just asking for R&D purposes.

In regards to a male saheli. Girls have boyfriends and girlfriends. If you are male saheli, you are her girlfriend.

F*cking kusres. Kids are gonna watch this and dress the opposite gender. And we're also gonna have dogs looking like this:

Through Simran I started remembering my past life.

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nah these days even guys are at the same ish , but it is also a factor they will use the others for what they have into the bargain

Not gnna lie but one my closest cousin sister always sticks photos of herself and our other cousin as her WhatsApp photo and one day my mother asked her why she always has a photo up of herself and our other cousin, her response was because she looks better than her! Both of them are my mothers nieces so I could she my mother wasnt too happy hearing that, but my cousin sister thought it was halirious! Having female cousins in their 20s and some female friends, iv seen/heard how horrible and b1tchy girls are towards each other, behind each others backs! Its actually horrible, the stuff iv heard. I know 2 hindu girls, we used to work together years ago but I still meet up with them. One is pretty and slim while the other is a big girl. While I used walk with the slim pretty one and the big one used to be in front of us, the slim one used to look at the big ones bum and then look at me and start laughing discreetly! When talking about her she also used to call her stuff like the hippo etc, and make rude jokes about how the big one would struggle in "bedroom stuff" and to this day she is still her friends with her! Iv seen a lot of this in girls! They are ruthless to each other Girls are scary lol! ? I actually cant get my head around how girls can be friends, but then be horrible, but then still be friends! Its phenomenal! Just mind boggling

I sense a ‘false flag ‘ by GOI

Never knew Haryanvis ventured out of India.

I'm going to keep this sweet and simple The reasons for why Vaheguru ji created anything can't all be written down. But it's for the sake of the Bhagats, to reward those who want to follow truth. Don't dwell on this topic to far and instead thank Vaheguru ji that you're alive, breathing, your heart's pumping Go outside watch the sunset and be thankful for the experience because I'd rather have this experience than nothing at all and I'm grateful that I've been blessed to be part of his creation.

This interaction depends on the category of male. If the males in question are viewed, almost on an instinctive level by the female, as figurative brothers or a male "saheli" (i.e. non-threatening in the sense of there being zero chance of attraction between the various parties) then perhaps you might get away with it. Otherwise, even the so-called lowest quality male will assume the girl / woman is "interested" in him, because that's how the average male brain works, lol.

I'm really poor at getting up for amritvela time. When I was commuting to work I usually listened to paat on my headphones or in my car stereo. If I had any banis left maybe even listen to them at the start of shift. Also would try and start to listen before I left home. Another thing you can try is to get a nap or sleep early, and then at least you can get up for amritvela and then maybe take another nap or sleep. Read up about biphasic sleep, it used to be normal in the past.

As mentioned ny @puzzled, you can scatter them here in the UK, there are a few places, you can go to Stratford upon Avon or Leicester, i'm sure there are more around the UK. As far as going to India, having spoken to relatives over there (Jullundur, Nawanshahr and Chandigarh), I'd avoid it for a while, no only is Covid on the rise there's also an attitude about blaming outsiders for the spread of it. I'm not sure about the scattering within a year thing, maybe best to ask a Gyani about that.

"However, if she's still talking to her ex or other guys, then that's where you need to speak out. No compromise. " When a woman like this has kept contact with ex and other guys, what this means is that she has orbiters. It means that she maybe not serious about her marriage and has these guys as a back up plan. It is said that you should be wary of women that have only male friends and no female friends.

I didn't even know this show still existed! used to watch it as a kid. Its in the news that they have the 40th presenter to join the show soon who is already a youtube star and makes £100k a year. He also has worn ladies clothes in the past and dyed his dog blue! Keep your kids away from this rubbish! for their own mental health and well being!

Hatred? Did you even read my comment? Kindly tell me when did I say that "All" sikh women are characterless. I clearly said that there are some(infact many but definitely not all) sikh women that trap young gullible amritdhari singhs in marriage after dating around. It's my observation here in Delhi and even in Maharashtra(Mumbai). Also, just bcoz I praised hindu/muslim women for not engaging in pre marital stuff doesn't mean I hate sikh women. I just shared my personal experiences that my non sikh female colleagues have good character and moral values. My whole point was that women should not be judged based on their religion and appearance. Its a typical punjabi mentality that a saalwar kameez desi sardarni has a good character but western clothes wearing non sikh women are opposite. This mentality needs to change. I have noticed that some sikh men immediately say yes to marriage if the sikh girl is amritdhari or wearing keski without even doing proper research. Did I say anything wrong? Where is hatred?

Hello Have you tried using a derma roller? A lot of people have made videos about it on youtube. Check them out. Also rub the skin above your nails together, both hands. Lots of water and healthy eating too.

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Encouragement is indeed important, and force is never good. That I completely agree. However, you would never encourage a Sikh to cut their hair if they didn't feel like keeping it. Would you "encourage" a Muslim to drink alcohol, listen to music, eat pork, and convert to another religion if he so felt like it? No one in their right mind would. I'm not saying that you've said this, however, it's important not to come across as being "okay" with it. Hope this helps??

Singh jee, did you know that even great sant sipahi bhinderanwale also had the baldness problem as he was still very young. it is not bad and it is natural by Waheguru sahib. Eat healthy food and avoid bad lifestyle.

I saw Guru Sahib as a really bright jot.

How do you know?

It's only been 6 months, so you still have time before children come into the picture. You really need to confront her again and again about this breach of trust until you get her expose her true intentions (if she's playing the religious part to secure a pushover husband). She seems to be brushing it off because she senses you are a soft guy. This situation you find yourself in will only get worse for your mental health. Become strong and proactive and not fall into self pity and self destruction. Either you take action now, or suffer life long. Anxiety attacks mean you are feeling incapable of handling the situation. Take control. Take action.

I think the young Singh's problem is more the mental turmoil from having discovered his wife has a sordid past prior to their marriage, rather than her not following rehat in the present time. There's no point in reiterating his mistake in not doing his due diligence on his prospective bride before marriage. The "I was abused" chestnut is a classic tactic to elicit sympathy, and put an end to any further uncomfortable questions the hurting husband has for his wife. So, he has two options: 1. Come to terms with the fact that his wife had a lover before she took lavaan with Singh, or... 2. He walks away. Option 2 is a no-go for a Gursikh according to this forum, so that's off the table immediately. The only thing to do is to accept the reality before him, and pray to become mentally strong enough to bear the emotional burden that no doubt will devour him with each passing day. Advice to young Singhs entering the marriage arena: wake up. You're being taken for 1diots. Use your grey matter instead of your lustful feelings to help make these serious life decisions. You cannot be deceived by these girls if your eyes are open. If you're genuinely seduced by the sight of a dumalla, and assume a Singhni is rehatvaan purely on the basis of her looking the part, then you need to enter the real world.

Focus on the shabad, that’ll take you to it’s origin. Ignore the sounds, they’re just an indication your attention is growing and you’re becoming aware. The sounds are just you turning into a frequency of the environment around us. Anhand shabad/naad/pach shabad happen when dasam dwaar has opened NOT before. Focus only on the shabad. Anhad shabad, jot vigas and Amrit rass happen simultaneously, this is the case in almost every maharapukhs jeevan. Focus on the shabad, that will take you into smadhi, not some sounds. Sant kartar Singh ji used to say sounds in simran are just noises of the body, just like a machine makes sounds. If we focus on naam it will take us to naamai - focus on the shabad vaheguroo and it will manifest and take you to vaheguroo (make you aware that vaheguroo is within and you are that very roop). bhul chukh maaf.

Vaheguru ji ka khalsa Vaheguru ji ki fateh Veerji,the only advice I can give u is that you do 1 sukhmani sahib path during Amritvela.I can guarantee you within 40 days,your wife will follow full rehat of Guru Gobind Singh ji Maharaj. Bhul Chuk Maf ?

Any other faith that tries to claim ours as a copy of theirs has revealed major religious envy, andmassive inferiority complexes as they feel something lacking in theirs that's why they cannot stand to stay silent in the presence of sikhi getting to people's ear and hearts

I agree. he shud be blocked.

The other day, i was watching the Basic of Sikhi quiz, and on the chat there was muslim spewing typical stuff, like 'Sikhi is CoPy of IsLAM' and 'everything iS sTolEn fRom the QuRan' Can't leave us alone...

Brother, if we went on a muslim forum, and started disrespecting muhammad, then im sure they would block us. Its confusing the new members about sikhi (who dont know much) and can make them question reality. Even tho brothers and sisters have answered him, young gen would be confused. I hope @ADMIN blocks him.

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I agree themore he opens his mouth the more he confirms his motives and lack of introspection, It is frankly funny as all get out when he preens himself after not responding and diverting the questions asked - 'self-praise is no recommendation' ever hear that phrase . Probably gets off the net and boasts to his gullible friends much like hijab and dawah man did in their day .Jokers one and all ,

Mohammad Hijab and Yasir Qadhi together destroyed the credibility of the Quran that all the Christian apologetics could not have done. These two fools shot themselves in the foot. Now they're taking down their videos from YouTube. But it's too late. They opened the Pandora's box. Christians, ex Muslims, atheists are having a field day

Very true. The Muslims have been lying for decades that the Quran is preserved and that every word in every Quran in the world from the 7th century down to now are exactly the same. Now it looks like there are hundreds of Qurans which have both minor and major differences between them. The Quran which a majority of the Muslim world reads was only chosen in the 1920s in Egypt as the official Quran for Al Azhar university and the Saudis then chose that Quran when they wanted to start their <Edited> push into the rest of the world. Just this much is enough to destroy Islam in any rational Muslim.

This Muslim Neighbour is most likely a British Pakistani. If you read his earliest posts he goes quite personal against our forum member JVK, and he makes repeated attacks on Mohan Singh (who I believe warns UK sikh girls about grooming dangers?). Muslim Neighbour even states that he has been stalking this forum for many years before launching into his thread disruption and deception attacks. He doesn't answer direct questions, nor is satisfied with answers forum members provide to his questions. Only plus point is this has propelled some of us to research more into glaring flaws being exposed on his faith by christians. Even I had a fairly neutral position on Muslims since this type of aggressive behaviour is not experienced here in canada. I used to take the advice of UK friends with a grain of salt until more recently. I found this channel amazing. Early Islam as muslims like to believe is getting demolished by the christians. I think there is going to be large scale upheaval in a few decades as more muslims realize the bitter truth of their faith's foundation. Muslim scholars are already having a hard time plugging the holes. Sooner or later this knowledge will spread to the common muslim.

You've got a point I was thinking the same thing

You never know he could very well be a Hindu. This forum is under the radar of RAW. If he is an undercover Hindu then he's doing a pretty good job in destroying any goodwill forum members had towards Islam. I myself was sitting on the fence in regards to Muslims and even regarded them as potential allies against Hindus. But this guy forced even me to show him a reflection of his religion when he attacks my religion. But he never makes a valid point defending his religion which shows he has little or no knowledge of Islam. He makes strawman arguments by personally attacking David Wood instead of refuting his argument which just means David Wood is irrefutable in regards to his religion.

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For average secular hindu, we are a part of sanatan dharam and a fake outshoot of Hinduism. They believe that sikh gurus worshipped Ram, Durga and other hindu deities and since countless hindus left Hinduism and became gursikhs by choice during sikh gurus timeline, they comsider us as "brothers". For average muslim, we are kaafir and we must be converted to islam otherwise Allah will kill all non muslims on the day of judgement. For average Christian, we are destined to go to hell as we are non Christians or don't consider Jesus as the only true messanger of god. Any sikh reading this, feel proud to be born in a sikh family and given the opportunity to learn sikhi. Non sikhs don't have this privilege and learn twisted extremist ideologies/religions as above. That's why every sikh must raise his son/daughter as gursikhs. Kindly don't fall for the media propaganda "its their choice". No your kids don't have a choice. They will learn only non sikh/anti gurmat values from school/college friends, media etc. You will be their only teachers in teaching sikh values especially in the initial years. Never deprive your kids from the gift of sikhi.

It doesn't really matter honestly. Both Rss agents and muslims are enemies of sikhs and take pride in marrying sikh women and later converting them to their respective religions. Also, both hate sikhi and continously try to prove that sikhism is fake or a blend of hinduism and islam. Both take pride in having mathematical advantage in terms of population over sikhs and warn innocent Sikhs they will remind them of 1984. Lastly, both religions have terrorist organizations like ISS and hindu extremists that keep attacking gurudwaras or kill innocent sikhs. And those fellow sikhs who still believe that Hindus/muslims are your brothers, plz wake up from your fairy tale dreams. Remember, only and ONLY your khalsa breathren will stand with you, be it disrespect of turban, harrassment of innocent sikhs, demanding 1984 justice etc. Your so called non sikh "brothers" will either call you a khalistani terrorist or support you to achieve their own selfish motives(like relating khalistan movement with Pakistan and hence defaming pakistan and brainwashing innocent sikhs against even though neither india nor Pakistan is a well wisher of sikhs). If anyone is offended then am NOT sorry cauz I don't believe in writing sugar coated fake answers. I only speak reality! EDIT: Am not spreading hate, I myself live in a hindu/Muslim majority area but I just want to tell all my sikh bros that treat everyone equally be it sikh or non sikh but NEVER trust them in religious matters or with your daughters/sisters. Bcoz those sikhs who trusted them have today their daughters converted and also face communal hatred/slurs from these communities

Akaaaal !!!!!

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That dude is lost. Forget him

mand5 - im an ex radhasoami..... before i continue, well done for seeking answers from another source other then your radhasoami community. for this i must commend your efforts. I use to ask my family questions, they use to tell me not to ask others because others are "non believers... they think there way is right"... also my family use to say "maharaji (rs baba) is a walking granth... those who insult him are acting in ignorance"... my friend... you, and all other radhasoamis that believe in this pakhandi baba have been brainwashed. i hate to disapoint you, but he isnt god - just the thought really does turn my stomach. the radhasoami baba is NOT antarjami (innermost knowing)... if he was, he would have knew my plans to turn to king of kings Guru Granth Sahib ji MAHARAJ - SACHE PATSHAH and he would have stoped me from doing so... but he didnt... hes nothing more then a con artist. please save your family from the falsehood of radhasoami. at their time of death u do not want them thinking of a pakhandi "maharaj"... or reciting a fake mantra. Everyone knows Gurbani is truth and real... you want your family thinking of Vaheguru and reciting Vaheguru at their time of death. i can answer all your questions. please message me your phone numeber and we can have a chat. many things wrong with radhasoami mat. 1 - randha soami land in beas is currently legally in the name of Guru Granth Sahib Ji Mahraj 2- radha soami forbids alchahol and meat... not tobacco... read into radha soami history, or read "the masters answers" and find out why tobaco is not forbiden (or allowed) in radhaosami faith 3-radha soami replaced sikh greating of WAHEGURU JI KA KHALSA WAHEGURU JI KI FATEH with "radhasoami" 4-radha soami replaced gurmantra with a fake mantra 5- radha soamis do not belioeve in guru manio granth 6- radha soamis do nothing for the victims of the 84 genocide - not even the radhasoami victims 7-radhasoami baba does not speak out against injustices (guru nanak sahib did) i can go on and on and on. the list is truely endless. radhasoami baba is nothing... nowhere near our 10 satguru sahibs and guru granth sahib ji. the works of our Puran Satguru Sahibs is nothing short then the Work of God. All radha soami baba does is fool innocent and simple sangat - this is no achievement as punjabis are generally simple in nature. Radha soami refuse to believe GURU granth sahib ji is guru... yet radhasoami mat use to be centered around Guru granth sahib ji. Guru Granth Sahib Ji use to be parkash in beas... they wheeled in sikh sangat with ttheir fake prachar... messing with Gurbani is messing with Vaheguru... this is not a small sin that can be overlooked. yes gurbani and guru granth sahib ji maharaj is universal... but that does not mean it can be misused. this is mahapaap (huge sin). radha soami copy sikh traditions like guru ka langar, yet they do not believe its necessary to keep kara kachera kirpan kesh khanga... they call dasam bani false in "spiritual letters" book in "spiritual heritage" book they say sri harimanir sahib is just "brick and water" - how offensive the other radhasoami book "guru nanak, his mystic teachings" - is wholly offensive to sikhs. bhai gurdas sahib's bani is discredited... they also disagree with the documentated history behind gurdwara panja sahib... the list is endless.... i turely can go on and on. why does radhasoami only mess with sikh history and sikh beliefs and not the beliefs of other faiths?? why does radhasoami baba keep sikh apperance?? regarding your comment "you need a living guru" this is true. guru granth sahib ji is alive. if you believe in guru granth sahib ji mahjaraj you will be aware of the following truths: "bani guru guru hai bani vich bani amritsare" "sun sun jeeva terey bani" and others. there is no difference between gurbani and the guru.... we live by listening to GURBANI. we can not believe in what you guys believe in. satbachan is not gurbani... far from it. a sikh would never recite the words of tobacco users, and a sikh would never accept a tobacco user as their satguru. tobacco is strictly forbidden in sikh faith. even if gurbani told us to run to a living human for salvation (which it doesnt)... i would never run to the feet of such a fraudster radha sooami baba. do not study gurbvani from pakhandi baba, please learn gurmukhi and study for yourself. ive done it all... my family use to visit haynes park, and beas... we used to attend bhandara and put our names down for sewa... i am so thankful that Vaheguru has saved my family from that path and brought us to the path of Gursikhi. I am deeply saddened that there are literally millions of radha soami devotees. its very saddening. ill finish on this tuk of guru gobind singh ji maharaj.. sagal duar ko shhad ke, ghaiho tuharo duar, banhe gahe kio laj as gobind das tuhar - i have abandoned all gates (paths) and i have come to yours o lord, o lord please protect my honour and hold my arm, for i am your humble servant for any mistakes bhul chuk maaf vaheguru ji ka khalsa vaheguru ji ki fateh. (mand5, inbox me, we can discuss this further if you wish, i know its hard to accept... but believe me your baba is a fake... go back to the house of Our Puran Satguru's... we know for a fact they are real and true... have no doubts and embrace their pavitar bani)

Mand5 I suggest you learn to be a bit more respectful before you think its right to question Sikhi in such an abrupt and negative manner. Just come out with it why pretend as you are a RS are you not comfortable with your "panth?" I think the newbie monitoring system is broke as it is letting in all kinds of weird stuff

If you're going to come onto a SIKH forum seeking answers to questions, you're going to have to stop referring to Guru Granth Sahib Jee as a "sikh bible".

Why am I not surprised??. I'm all for interfaith discussions. But nothing deceitful. I'm just disappointed that @MuslimNeighbournever answered my questions, or accepted my challenge?. Oh well...