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Is it jus me or does evry1 get an orange ring round their arm from their kara??
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Fataeh Parvaan Ji, daas would like to be know what is a proper mariyadaa when it comes to life after marriage. With the kirpa of Dhan sache patshah I will soon be taking this step and want to know if using protection is allowed. With His blessing I have recently took amrit. I know some personnel who encourage intercourse for reproduction purpoes only however if we are allowed to show affection for our partner can we use 'protection',is pleasure approved of in grihshtt jeevan. I humbly request some descent and informative replies from the gursikhs that are knowledgable about this. Danwaad. Pul Chuk Muwaafi.
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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh Sangatji please take the time to post stories/katha about jaaping Sri Mool Mantar Sahib Ji so that we can gain inspiration to accomplish the One Million Jaaps. Ill begin. *Veer Pjs please can you make this a sticky and post some translated katha on Sri Mool Mantar Sahib Ji* The Making Of A Brahmgyani Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh In Guru Jis darbar Bhai Surinder Singh Ji (a kirtani from Baba Bakala who was well known at one time (before the advent of tape recorders in Punjab)) narrated the following story to the sangat when he was asked about the importance of naam japna. One time Bhai Sahib and his Jatha we…
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Do any of you know when your ancestors became Sikhs? What faith did they follow before Sikhi and which are were they from?
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I have a question. My friend Sonu, has been studying for 4 yrs in London. She, has been dating a guy who is a complete amritdhari sikh. Sonu began to spend more and more time with him. She became so interested in Sikhi, she took amrit herself last yr. Sooon afer both of them had finished their University, he went on to further more his studies but she went back home. They stayed in touch thru phone, E-mail/msn... etc. Sooon after they both told they're parents they had met someone... etc... and want to get married. Her parents agreed. But his said no, because her family wasnt amritdhari, and they cut their hair .. eat meat.. etc.. Whats ur opinion on this.. Wjkk wjkf
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Hi all. im a jatt sikh girl,im in love with a goldsmith(sunyar caste) boy.he is spritual guy who respects all religions,though his family is hindu.But My parents dont like him becoz of his caste.we want to marry.His parents are agree but My father is against it.Because he is from diff race and culture.Im in big trouble.I love my family and religion.But i cant leave him too.so far i know about sikhi,its no where written that marrying a nonsikh is a sin.But its do wriiten "Awalh allah noor upaya kudrat de sab bande".So i dont know what to do. My mother took me to a sikh preacher a babaji.They insulted me a lot that i should follow my parent…
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I have a issue.... I currently play rugby and is my dream to play for the all blacks... I currently am in a development squad for a rugby franchise as i am 19 and hopefuly play professional first grade next year. I do not consider myself a Sikh but i have uncut hair, also i believe in God but do not follow any religion and i try resite on his name when i can. Im an considering cutting my hair as it gets to hard to tie up and stuff and sometimes restricts me not to play at my full potenitial.... Latter on in my life I will become a Sikh but i believe that you should not be born into a religion but find your own way. Theres just one thing though.... My parents are understan…
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(please answer the question. im not looking for meat debate. if thread gets out of control admins can lock it) i had a question.. one of my friends friend was having a talk with myself about meat and he raised the question about eggs. And i told him that sikhs dont eat meat . and hes like eggs as well, and im like yes snice it has a life form that in the future will be taken. He answered that thats true but the eggs that are processed now in stores can never be in living form hence can never be hatched. is this true ?? So now if this is true, would eggs still be considered wrong to eat ??
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I have a question for bibiya who wear dastaar. Some bibiya have really compact dastaar, like i mean super compact and flat at the top and I wonder how they do that? I mean is their hair short so they have a small joorra? I just can't do that with my joorra, and not that it matters but I just wondered how to get the joorra flatter so I dont' have a huge bulge at the top of my dastaar.
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Bullying If im geting bullied, is it because i derserve it? :sady: Is is down to me, because im weak? :sady: Even when i've done nothing wrong? :sady: my karam , my life :sady:
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please tell me when the next amrit sanchar in or near London is going to happen. no offence, but need one given by PANJ PYARE, organized by Akj. (no debates plz, just need answer)
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Read the thread about sikh women. Stereotypes. Wondering how do people view Sikh guys. What are some stereotypes about Sikh men, good and bad?
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Sat Sri Akal Ji! I was searching on the above topic to prep for my case, to present to the Judge, how Sikhs look at adultery. As sikh we are thought to be faithful only, but what happen if one of the partner commit adultery? How is it should be handled in Sikh Maryada? My case, I went to India to get married as professional living in US, I was cornered in every direction and strangely with my own relative. (crazy). After getting married (Lava), the girl was acting strange, I'm not accustom to indian/punjabi culture and I thought its normal in arranged married. Fast forward she arrives in USA, pregnant, she told me it was my baby, she leaves me when the baby was 1 mo…
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" Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa! Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh! " I want to know that: 1) Are Amritdhari women aloud to wear bridal bangle's (Churah)? 2) Is an Amritdhari women aloud to wear a langha, saree, etc... on their wedding day? 3) What type of jewelry are they aloud to wear? That's all I want to know for the time being, but I'll contact you all for more topics that I am confused about. " Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa! Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh! "
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Vaheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru Ji Ki Fateh I will keep this brief because I am terrified someone will identify me... I am an amritdhari girl and married to an amritdhari man. I thought the match was good, based on what he made me believe, but it's terrible. He became abusive, controlling, dictating and worse than that he restricts me developing my Sikhi. I am not allowed to go anywhere, or do anything. If I am at home during the day, I have to recount everything that I have done and no matter what I cannot please him. He compares me to other mens wives and says everything against me. I dealt with this as being my karam, but it's getting worse. He now says if we have a c…
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Leaving aside Guru ji, the general question of taking afeem (opium) in limited quantities for war/medical wounds is simply unproblematic. When you go to the hospital, they give you morphine. What do you think morphine is? It's an opiate. Even codeine (cough syrup) is an opiate! Ever had a cough? Granted, it is against Gurmat to take opium or other drugs for the fun of it. -
Yeah, that's one possibility. Another I initially thought is that it's a Muslim trying to gather info. But then, you might ask, how does he know about Sikh textual sources. Well, you'd be surprised at their resourcefulness. A final possibility is he's a weak Sikh who was asked a question by a non-Sikh and now he's suddenly feverishly wondering where it's "written" that you can't marry a young child. To the latter, I would say, you're looking in the wrong spot. Gurbani isn't a 1428 page rulebook, like Leviticus or the Vedas: ਸਿਮ੍ਰਿਤਿ ਸਾਸਤ੍ਰ ਪੁੰਨ ਪਾਪ ਬੀਚਾਰਦੇ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ਗੁਰੂ ਬਾਝਹੁ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ The Simritis and Shastras discriminate between charity and sin, but know not the essence of the Real Thing. Without the Guru, they know not the essence of the Reality, know not the essence of the Reality. Anand Sahib.
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back then was waaaay different. ppl didn’t attend higher education or have much to do after the age of like… 13, lol. you’d have 13 year olds boys and girls that know how to do kethi, cook entire meals, etc nowadays even 22 year olds are extremely immature and can be sheltered. the average person doesn’t know how to do anything except their 9-5 which they are probably half arsing as well.
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